Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Haven't been on here in a minute but I walked up the street to the store and ran into this Latina skater chick asking if she could use my snapchat to send her friend her location or some shyt. I was thinking man she has a nice bubble and pretty good looking for a skater :patrice: then realized that there's a high school a couple mins from here :whoa: she left her user in the snap login, said thanks and told me to have a good day. I feel like I should add her to my Snap but then again she might be a High Schooler (even though she didn't look like it) and it seems weird since I didn't ask for her name. Any thoughts?

Edit:

I added her and she added me back. Don't know what to send her though since she doesn't know my name...

Update: Hit her up and she was gonna block me because she didn't know who I was :mjlol: but let's see if she hit's me back. It's not looking likely but then again I sent her a message around 11pm
 
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I've been on this nikkas videos while working today. Almost embarrassed myself laughing mad hard a couple times.

Man you can tell Patrice been through some shyt with shorties. He is the HOH Ambassador, hahaha


Dude, is a wealth of comedy and insight, into shyt that you might do, just because you feel obligated by society or women.
 

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For those whom are trapped or wanting to go the Friend Zone:



One thing I really like about his channel is that he doesn't sugar coat sh!t. He tells it like it is which is what you need. MGTOW isn't popular here, which is understandable but you have to be aware of how to navigate through women an he gives some good, general ideas of that.
 

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Should I dead this or still try and f*ck..??



This female at work.. I've been working on it for about a month...


I took her out on a first date maybe 3 weeks ago & it went really good (didn't crack or anything but it was cool)



So this is where shyt got goofy....



We had a date setup for last Friday after work (she lives 40 mins away so she was just gonna bring a second pair of clothes) we were just gonna kick it n do whatever ..



She tells me she forgot her change of clothes & would rather do it Saturday ....


Now I had a first time tinder date setup but figured date two with this chick would be better so I cancelled on my Saturday and made the co worker date for that date...



So Saturday rolls around and I text her


  • Me-what time you free tonight
  • Her- Later
  • Me- okay later when
  • Her- after 9
  • couple text about what we might do
Then I text her around 7pm


  • Me- are you free at 9 or after 9..?




I didn't get a whole reply until Sunday at 9:30pm



Now tell me if I handled it right or wrong



HER- Hey


Me- yeah


Her- nvm have a good night


Me- right you were the one on bs the other night but you got the attitude


Her- okay


Me- okay, lose my f*ckin number then


Her- okay


Me


Man that's frustrating but I try to be indifferent to those situations.
 

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How do you respond to "I miss you" texts from someone you barely even care about?

I don't want to blow her off just yet.:leostare:
 

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Should I dead this or still try and f*ck..??



This female at work.. I've been working on it for about a month...


I took her out on a first date maybe 3 weeks ago & it went really good (didn't crack or anything but it was cool)



So this is where shyt got goofy....



We had a date setup for last Friday after work (she lives 40 mins away so she was just gonna bring a second pair of clothes) we were just gonna kick it n do whatever ..



She tells me she forgot her change of clothes & would rather do it Saturday ....


Now I had a first time tinder date setup but figured date two with this chick would be better so I cancelled on my Saturday and made the co worker date for that date...



So Saturday rolls around and I text her


  • Me-what time you free tonight
  • Her- Later
  • Me- okay later when
  • Her- after 9
  • couple text about what we might do
Then I text her around 7pm


  • Me- are you free at 9 or after 9..?




I didn't get a whole reply until Sunday at 9:30pm



Now tell me if I handled it right or wrong



HER- Hey


Me- yeah


Her- nvm have a good night


Me- right you were the one on bs the other night but you got the attitude


Her- okay


Me- okay, lose my f*ckin number then


Her- okay


Me
She a dub

But I would have called her at 9 or 8:30ish on some "yo u ready". I wouldn't say "are you free at 9 or after 9?".

Also if she say "later" you gotta be more aggressive than that. If she writes such a lazy, attitude laced response you gotta ask "what's good with you", hit her with a "I'm tryna have fun with you tonight baby" or some shyt, gas her up.

When she hit you on Sunday and you hit her with a "yeah". Don't show these women they got you mad, don't show them an attitude I understand she stood you up.

From what you've provided your responses are too passive.
 
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I don't.

Chick is in the rear view for a reason, probably feeling a lil low and looking for someone to give her an ego boost.

Don't be that guy.


I already responded with a fake "I miss you too" even though it made my skin crawl :snoop:
 

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mmm I have this mixed chick at my school that I met a few weeks ago. My mentor who works at the school introduced me to her and we talked for a while during lunch. Her pops died a while ago so she said her mind is all over the place right now. She asked me all these questions like "do you have a girlfriend? Are you single? What's your major?" and stuff.

There's another chick lined up that's a little older than me and she's Hispanic with a super fat ass. She a single mom so I'm just trying to get at her then be out ya heard me.

Whole point is keep shooting, but keep self as the primary.
 

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My campus is filled with so many fine sistas. :banderas: Mostly undergrad. My grad program is like 90% cac. :camby: This morning while getting breakfast b4 class there was this fine thick sista with glasses :noah:looking at me and looked at her back but I had to rush to head to my 8 o'clock class that I'm in right now. Brehs next time I see her make a move or is that coming off way too thirsty? :jbhmm:
Shoot your shot next time. But another nicca may have scooped that since you let that opportunity go :manny:
 

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I got turned down today.
Its been a min since this happened.
I guess girls leave me on read all the time.
but when you talking to them in person and they turn you down shyt a different feeling.

Oh well dust your shoulders off and try it again with someone else.

the positive of all this is that im trying
 

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I got turned down today.
Its been a min since this happened.
I guess girls leave me on read all the time.
but when you talking to them in person and they turn you down shyt a different feeling.

Oh well dust your shoulders off and try it again with someone else.

the positive of all this is that im trying
Facts keep your head up and keep firing from the hip.

All us young KINGS gon make it :wow:
 
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