Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Cynic]

Haven't been on here in a minute but I walked up the street to the store and ran into this Latina skater chick asking if she could use my snapchat to send her friend her location or some shyt. I was thinking man she has a nice bubble and pretty good looking for a skater then realized that there's a high school a couple mins from here she left her user in the snap login, said thanks and told me to have a good day. I feel like I should add her to my Snap but then again she might be a High Schooler (even though she didn't look like it) and it seems weird since I didn't ask for her name. Any thoughts?

Edit:

I added her and she added me back. Don't know what to send her though since she doesn't know my name...

Update: Hit her up and she was gonna block me because she didn't know who I was but let's see if she hit's me back. It's not looking likely but then again I sent her a message around 11pm

 

[Brandeezy]

Your pic is broken

 

[Cynic]

Your pic is broken

You mean like your moral campus ?

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Ex hmu yesterday on some hope you're doing well. I hit her back today. But then called her and told her to cease communication then we got into it and I told her I missed her and still loved her. But then said I needed my space. I feel a lot better even tho I feel kinda foolish and crazy

 

[MikelArteta]

I keep telling you do the opposite

She needs space to find someone new.

The best thing you can do is nothing.

And never mention your feelings or talk about the relationship bl

Ex hmu yesterday on some hope you're doing well. I hit her back today. But then called her and told her to cease communication then we got into it and I told her I missed her and still loved her. But then said I needed my space. I feel a lot better even tho I feel kinda foolish and crazy

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

I keep telling you do the opposite

She needs space to find someone new.

The best thing you can do is nothing.

And never mention your feelings or talk about the relationship bl

Okay.

 

[Rice'N Beckford]

Should I dead this or still try and f*ck..??



This female at work.. I've been working on it for about a month...


I took her out on a first date maybe 3 weeks ago & it went really good (didn't crack or anything but it was cool)



So this is where shyt got goofy....



We had a date setup for last Friday after work (she lives 40 mins away so she was just gonna bring a second pair of clothes) we were just gonna kick it n do whatever ..



She tells me she forgot her change of clothes & would rather do it Saturday ....


Now I had a first time tinder date setup but figured date two with this chick would be better so I cancelled on my Saturday and made the co worker date for that date...



So Saturday rolls around and I text her

• Me-what time you free tonight
• Her- Later
• Me- okay later when
• Her- after 9

• couple text about what we might do

Then I text her around 7pm

• Me- are you free at 9 or after 9..?

I didn't get a whole reply until Sunday at 9:30pm



Now tell me if I handled it right or wrong



HER- Hey


Me- yeah


Her- nvm have a good night


Me- right you were the one on bs the other night but you got the attitude


Her- okay


Me- okay, lose my f*ckin number then


Her- okay


Me

I can tell she got a funky ass attitude.

Here’s what you did wring brother...

1. You sounded hurt and emotional. One thing you gotta realize is that a woman got 10+ nikkas all on her asking her to go out nshyt. They have options. It dont matter how yall hit it off. You gotta remember that if a broad feelin you she gonna make it a priority to not sound like she got an attitude

2. After she sent that “Later” text... you should have known she wasnt in the mood and was being bytchy. I would have cut contact right there and not even reply.

3. Why did you cancel on the tinder date? You already had met up with shorty and she cancelled the night before. I woulda put the ball in her court and wait for her to hit me up.

 

[Iceson Beckford]

About to go to the biggest house party I’ve been to in years.

Gonna shoot some shots but main focus is having fun with my boys and getting high af

 

[Rice'N Beckford]

You can find a woman’s friendzone graveyard on her IG. All the nikkas she has on her IG with flower filters on they heads and BFF quotes.

Feels good when you smash and dont end up on they page looking like a simp.

nikkas needa make it known they not tryna be “friends first” FOH.

 

[Brandeezy]

You mean like your moral campus ?

???? You mean compass? Are you ok breh

 

[Cynic]

???? You mean compass? Are you ok breh

It was late ... Now tell us about your high school sweetie

 

[Brandeezy]

It was late ... Now tell us about your high school sweetie

She's not in HS tho

But she didn't reply back to my message another L

 

[360dagod]

off topic..

If there are some underlying issues that you have, don't be afraid of going to a therapist and letting out all your pains in life..its very nurturing to talk to a neutral party about things you wouldn't tell your close fam or friends

Whatever is hindering you at the subconscious level is gonna fukk around with your whole vibe...

Mental health is very important which goes beyond women...

 

[MikelArteta]

My cousin called me i haven't talked to dude in years, last i heard he got married and moved like 4 hours away.

He got married to a woman and she ended up sending for all of her family from jamaica, none of them wanted to walk and dude got tired of paying for everyone and everything and his wife wasn't understanding so they broke up.

Dude sounds defeated, hes saying he's in a 4 bdrm 2 washroom house all alone, has no friends nothing in his area and was looking for my number to talk to me.

He kept saying to keep your head above water

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

No he needs to keep his head above water. He lost his identity and doesn’t know what to do. That’s on him.