Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Hung out with a girl last night.

We made out.

She's cool, met her Sunday, hit her up Friday, she seemed happy that I called her.

Texted me on Saturday to see if we were still on. Waited till like 1130 to see me after work.

Lives in the same apartment complex as me.

Is talking about she wants to go into social care, and cares about people

Calling me beautiful, works full time.

Doesn't smoke weed. Likes hiking, like me.

When we left my building she grabbed my hand to hold it. She's a Capricorn and I'm a Sagittarius.

Parents are together.

Has traveled.

Only thing is she's 19, and I'm 25
 

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off topic..

If there are some underlying issues that you have, don't be afraid of going to a therapist and letting out all your pains in life..its very nurturing to talk to a neutral party about things you wouldn't tell your close fam or friends

Whatever is hindering you at the subconscious level is gonna fukk around with your whole vibe...

Mental health is very important which goes beyond women...
i need to get my mental health checked somehow....the shyt's drving me crazy, and my lack of ability to meet women/interact/gain some kind of rapport is making it worse and worse everyday.....
 

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Hung out with a girl last night.

We made out.

She's cool, met her Sunday, hit her up Friday, she seemed happy that I called her.

Texted me on Saturday to see if we were still on. Waited till like 1130 to see me after work.

Lives in the same apartment complex as me.

Is talking about she wants to go into social care, and cares about people

Calling me beautiful, works full time.

Doesn't smoke weed. Likes hiking, like me.

When we left my building she grabbed my hand to hold it. She's a Capricorn and I'm a Sagittarius.

Parents are together.

Has traveled.

Only thing is she's 19, and I'm 25
dont fucck this up by bringing up ur ex. this girl is showing signs of very strong interest. dont fuccck this up. and dont d1ck around playng mr. cassanova. fucck her as soon as she allows it.
 

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i need to get my mental health checked somehow....the shyt's drving me crazy, and my lack of ability to meet women/interact/gain some kind of rapport is making it worse and worse everyday.....

Some women stay within their social circle...if they live in a big city, they can really set up shop there..

If you roll solo, you def gotta put yaself out there and see what sticks...

Try to pay attention to detail..

Do you walk fast?
Is your face relaxed?
Posture good?
Breathing properly?
 

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Hung out with a girl last night.

We made out.

She's cool, met her Sunday, hit her up Friday, she seemed happy that I called her.

Texted me on Saturday to see if we were still on. Waited till like 1130 to see me after work.

Lives in the same apartment complex as me.

Is talking about she wants to go into social care, and cares about people

Calling me beautiful, works full time.

Doesn't smoke weed. Likes hiking, like me.

When we left my building she grabbed my hand to hold it. She's a Capricorn and I'm a Sagittarius.

Parents are together.

Has traveled.

Only thing is she's 19, and I'm 25


Close this deal ASAP. That woman wants you. Age difference is ok. Im 30, I dated women ranging from 20-28
 

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Some women stay within their social circle...if they live in a big city, they can really set up shop there..

If you roll solo, you def gotta put yaself out there and see what sticks...

Try to pay attention to detail..

Do you walk fast?
Is your face relaxed?
Posture good?
Breathing properly?

I actually do walk pretty fast naturally....it's not something I do on purpose.....

I suppose my face is relaxed...I have a natural poker face....

Hmmm...idk....it migh tno tbe perfect, but I don't exactly slouch around....

I notice my breathing is kind of off though.....
 

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Hung out with a girl last night.

We made out.

She's cool, met her Sunday, hit her up Friday, she seemed happy that I called her.

Texted me on Saturday to see if we were still on. Waited till like 1130 to see me after work.

Lives in the same apartment complex as me.

Is talking about she wants to go into social care, and cares about people

Calling me beautiful, works full time.

Doesn't smoke weed. Likes hiking, like me.

When we left my building she grabbed my hand to hold it. She's a Capricorn and I'm a Sagittarius.

Parents are together.

Has traveled.

Only thing is she's 19, and I'm 25
as someone whose the same age as you and prior experience with this gap

HELL THE fukk NO
 

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I actually do walk pretty fast naturally....it's not something I do on purpose.....

I suppose my face is relaxed...I have a natural poker face....

Hmmm...idk....it migh tno tbe perfect, but I don't exactly slouch around....

I notice my breathing is kind of off though.....

It's a domino effect..

If your breathing is off, it affects ur face muscles...
A poker face is a non relaxed face..
I walk fast naturally as well, but it sends the message that u are in a hurry
 

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Do you go out?
i honestly try to, I'm just always strapped for cash due to bills and other shyt....main problem is that most of the people in my circle don't really go out like that naymore (due to having kids, work, etc.), I'm like one of the only ones that doesn't have a seed, and the older you get the harder it is to meet women (I'm 33)....

It's a domino effect..

If your breathing is off, it affects ur face muscles...
A poker face is a non relaxed face..
I walk fast naturally as well, but it sends the message that u are in a hurry

Maybe that's it....never knew that honestly....
 

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i honestly try to, I'm just always strapped for cash due to bills and other shyt....main problem is that most of the people in my circle don't really go out like that naymore (due to having kids, work, etc.), I'm like one of the only ones that doesn't have a seed, and the older you get the harder it is to meet women (I'm 33)....



Maybe that's it....never knew that honestly....

I'm around the same age, and I'm experiencing the same scenario. Honestly at this age you have nothing to lose. As far as cash strapped, can you at least put aside 20 bucks to treat yourself
 

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I’m dealing with a legit crazy chick. I’m not fond of the name game but I am legit seeing the effects of this chick having PARENTS issue.
 

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I'm around the same age, and I'm experiencing the same scenario. Honestly at this age you have nothing to lose. As far as cash strapped, can you at least put aside 20 bucks to treat yourself
Yeah, I'm thinking I'm gonna just have to not limit myself to a certain age...

20 dollars I can afford...
 

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Yeah, I'm thinking I'm gonna just have to not limit myself to a certain age...

20 dollars I can afford...
Take a risk. You have no family, so you don't have to worry about that spectrum. If financial problems are bothering you get an extra job. The only way to get over your anxiety is to walk up to most beautiful woman ever, and try to get her number. So what if she rejects you, the point is you took a risk.
 
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Take a risk. You have no family, so you don't have to worry about that spectrum. If financial problems are bothering you get an extra job. The only way to get over your anxiety is to walk up to most beautiful woman ever, and try to get her number. So what if she rejects you, the point is you took a risk.
Indeed. Another problem of mine was that i would never want to take risks, I never wanted to take that leap into the unknown for anything....that's the only thing left to do now...
 
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