My ex left town for a new job.
She didn't find out the job was out of the city until the morning of her last interview. We talked, I gave her my support but I didn't think she would take it (just because it was out of her comfort zone, family, friends, etc are all in our city).
But she took it, I acted a little spicy when she did and just locked her off coz she didn't even bother calling me. She explained she didn't know how to tell me - but she wanted to be long distance (about 2hr drive/train distance between the cities) and I said nah. So since she started (its been 2/3 weeks) we had one major convo and said probably because of the time and all the travelling, she won't have as much time as she thought. So it's best of being friends until she could find her feet
I agreed, but we still agreed to talk. But since then I been hitting her up and she'd just ignore me, or give me a brief reply and not say much. I messaged her on Friday, and she read the message, she was logged in on WhatsApp until late in the evening and didn't reply (this is lame of me, I know
). So I just told her I get the message, and I'm going to fall back...she stilllllll didn't reply until today (Sunday)
...So I thought something was wrong, like she was ill or something. So I called, no reply then just said if we got an issue, just give me 5 mins so I can understand.
Then I got the wall of txt saying she wanted to get her shyt sorted, she can't reply straight away because she's in a new job etc. I did understand her point, but it got to the stage I thought something had happened with her and I was worried.
Anyway, we have left it where it was. I wished her gd luck...and that's that.
Right now, I feel kinda
about the whole situation. I'm only her 3rd bf and 3rd person she even slept with (she's 34 and a bit of a prude). Was bussing raw inside her and we were super close over 6 months. But then all of a sudden, blam she's gone
. I didn't even get a phonemail, nothing. Now she acting like I'm bugging her
She did say she never expected to meet someone because she wanted to concentrate on her career and she had no intentions of falling for anyone. She said she never has been in a situation like this. And her reactions just made me feel like she got scared, upped away from her family, friends, her business and ran off
. But she didn't want a family, I did. Which is the huge issue for me, especially being 32 now
..So maybe a blessing in disguise (don't worry, I didn't specifically ask about us. Just in general how she feels about kids)
2nd fukked up breakup this year. Think I need a year off and just concentrate on self. Honestly don't understand this breakup or how it went down
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on me sometimes due to the fact I can spit mean game and just laidback n chill. They think i have ulterior motives when really I just wanna get fly and have a shorty who fly too on the side
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