You all in your feelings and she probably getting ready to entertain the next dude. Go out have fun, get some no strings attached sexMy ex left town for a new job.
She didn't find out the job was out of the city until the morning of her last interview. We talked, I gave her my support but I didn't think she would take it (just because it was out of her comfort zone, family, friends, etc are all in our city).
But she took it, I acted a little spicy when she did and just locked her off coz she didn't even bother calling me. She explained she didn't know how to tell me - but she wanted to be long distance (about 2hr drive/train distance between the cities) and I said nah. So since she started (its been 2/3 weeks) we had one major convo and said probably because of the time and all the travelling, she won't have as much time as she thought. So it's best of being friends until she could find her feet
I agreed, but we still agreed to talk. But since then I been hitting her up and she'd just ignore me, or give me a brief reply and not say much. I messaged her on Friday, and she read the message, she was logged in on WhatsApp until late in the evening and didn't reply (this is lame of me, I know). So I just told her I get the message, and I'm going to fall back...she stilllllll didn't reply until today (Sunday)
...So I thought something was wrong, like she was ill or something. So I called, no reply then just said if we got an issue, just give me 5 mins so I can understand.
Then I got the wall of txt saying she wanted to get her shyt sorted, she can't reply straight away because she's in a new job etc. I did understand her point, but it got to the stage I thought something had happened with her and I was worried.
Anyway, we have left it where it was. I wished her gd luck...and that's that.
Right now, I feel kindaabout the whole situation. I'm only her 3rd bf and 3rd person she even slept with (she's 34 and a bit of a prude). Was bussing raw inside her and we were super close over 6 months. But then all of a sudden, blam she's gone
. I didn't even get a phonemail, nothing. Now she acting like I'm bugging her
She did say she never expected to meet someone because she wanted to concentrate on her career and she had no intentions of falling for anyone. She said she never has been in a situation like this. And her reactions just made me feel like she got scared, upped away from her family, friends, her business and ran off. But she didn't want a family, I did. Which is the huge issue for me, especially being 32 now
..So maybe a blessing in disguise (don't worry, I didn't specifically ask about us. Just in general how she feels about kids)
2nd fukked up breakup this year. Think I need a year off and just concentrate on self. Honestly don't understand this breakup or how it went down
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My ex left town for a new job.
She didn't find out the job was out of the city until the morning of her last interview. We talked, I gave her my support but I didn't think she would take it (just because it was out of her comfort zone, family, friends, etc are all in our city).
But she took it, I acted a little spicy when she did and just locked her off coz she didn't even bother calling me. She explained she didn't know how to tell me - but she wanted to be long distance (about 2hr drive/train distance between the cities) and I said nah. So since she started (its been 2/3 weeks) we had one major convo and said probably because of the time and all the travelling, she won't have as much time as she thought. So it's best of being friends until she could find her feet
I agreed, but we still agreed to talk. But since then I been hitting her up and she'd just ignore me, or give me a brief reply and not say much. I messaged her on Friday, and she read the message, she was logged in on WhatsApp until late in the evening and didn't reply (this is lame of me, I know
Then I got the wall of txt saying she wanted to get her shyt sorted, she can't reply straight away because she's in a new job etc. I did understand her point, but it got to the stage I thought something had happened with her and I was worried.
Anyway, we have left it where it was. I wished her gd luck...and that's that.
Right now, I feel kinda
She did say she never expected to meet someone because she wanted to concentrate on her career and she had no intentions of falling for anyone. She said she never has been in a situation like this. And her reactions just made me feel like she got scared, upped away from her family, friends, her business and ran off
2nd fukked up breakup this year. Think I need a year off and just concentrate on self. Honestly don't understand this breakup or how it went down
shes your ex she owes you nothing and you owe her nothing.
I don't mean to be rude but screw her breh
I'm 32 as well, you can sit around and be
wondering what went wrong wondering what she's up, hoping for a second chanceOr you can get a new woman who actually wants to be with you
you think shes writing paragraphs on xojane about you breh? nah
Look I was engaged and got blindsided when she didn't want to be with me anymore at the end of may, went through all the motions, prayed for a second chance and all that
but those days are OVER.As I always have said and will say there are women on their hands and knees right near praying for a man like you, if someone doesn't want you their LOSS theres only one of you, FIND SOMEONE WHO DOES.
And why take a year off
. If you got fired from your job are you going to take a year off before you find another one because your sad and hoping they call you back because you were a great employee? Nah your going to hit up indeed right away and start applying.So all you have to do is concentrate on the WHAT not the why, the what is she dumped you why she did who cares. Why someone doesn't want to be with you, if you didnt cheat, abuse stop wondering why.
I was you breh a few months ago, and who am i today? I got a date with a stunning south african lawyer on friday and shes blowing up my phone every day from morning to night, will it crash and burn maybe but that just means unto the next woman, but you can either sit by your phone and wait for your ex to buzz you or you can have a new girl buzzing you all the time
my breh at @TRUEST said it the best, the best way to get over a woman is to get another one
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That's a good point man. Thanks making me feel better.shes your ex she owes you nothing and you owe her nothing.
I don't mean to be rude but screw her breh
I'm 32 as well, you can sit around and be
Or you can get a new woman who actually wants to be with you
you think shes writing paragraphs on xojane about you breh? nah
Look I was engaged and got blindsided when she didn't want to be with me anymore at the end of may, went through all the motions, prayed for a second chance and all that
As I always have said and will say there are women on their hands and knees right near praying for a man like you, if someone doesn't want you their LOSS theres only one of you, FIND SOMEONE WHO DOES.
And why take a year off
So all you have to do is concentrate on the WHAT not the why, the what is she dumped you why she did who cares. Why someone doesn't want to be with you, if you didnt cheat, abuse stop wondering why.
I was you breh a few months ago, and who am i today? I got a date with a stunning south african lawyer on friday and shes blowing up my phone every day from morning to night, will it crash and burn maybe but that just means unto the next woman, but you can either sit by your phone and wait for your ex to buzz you or you can have a new girl buzzing you all the time
my breh at @TRUEST said it the best, the best way to get over a woman is to get another one
Rice'N Beckford
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You gotta put the ball in the female’s court. I usually send text messages to women that end in them having to reply if they wanna go out or not.
No “idk” or “maybe” get em to say yes
Edit: this makes no sense fuggit tho. It makes ENOUGH sense
No “idk” or “maybe” get em to say yes
Edit: this makes no sense fuggit tho. It makes ENOUGH sense
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My girl getting distant, and whole vibe is off when we spend more than a few days apart 
Talking about moving to different cities and shyt like I ain't got a life were I'm at
I'm all for change but it has to be under my terms. She doesn't know what she want but wants me to follow her
Talking about moving to different cities and shyt like I ain't got a life were I'm at
I'm all for change but it has to be under my terms. She doesn't know what she want but wants me to follow her
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Sorry to say breh but sounds as if the relationship may be in its death throes, if it keeps happening she could be pushing and pushing in the hope you dump her.My girl getting distant, and whole vibe is off when we spend more than a days apart
Talking about moving to different cities and shyt like I ain't got a life were I'm at
I'm all for change but it has to be under my terms. She doesn't know what she want but wants me to follow her