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Zeu$ said:
You wrote all that to say women give men shyt tests :ld: damn thats news in here :leon:

Flaky women who offer no recourse deserve bushes same as if it was a man. Time is a commodity that can not be regained and I will not stand for someone attempting to waste mine. In the burgeoning courtship a woman begins to ignore you I just leave her alone. whats the point, she can hit me later or not but I'm not chasing shyt. Thats pretty much what breh was getting at I believe.
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It depends on what you consider flakey & "ignoring".:patrice:

Your previous post I responded to sounds as if you think women are supposed to chase, court & pursue men. I am simply warning you that this is incredibly WRONG.

A confident woman is never going to chase, nor make herself overly available for a man who's only texting her. :wtb: Trying to get her to "come over and chill", but not actually planning dates.:camby:


If you have this mentality all you will ever have is THOTS, hood rats & backpage hoes that entertain every nicca that gives them the mildest form of attention.

Quality women will take effort. Cleverness. TIME. :ufdup:


If you're one of those guys who meets a girl Friday, then youre texting her to come over and chill Saturday, and Sunday when she hardly knows you.
You are annoying! :noah:We hate guys like y'all!
Smart women are always flakey with men like this. Con artist always move fast. We don't trust you.

If You meet a girl Friday. Call her on Sunday or maybe Monday (Don't text)

Tell her about your day. Ask her about hers. Say, "tell me about yourself..."
then Listen.

Learn what she likes. Get to know the girl. Make her feel comfortable with you, before you start trying to pull up & see her. :comeon: Or get her alone with you somewhere. Or taking her around your friends to show off. :sas2:

Don't ask to see her, or mention sex until you have somewhat gotten to know her.

After you discover a mutual interest, or something you think she will like, Mention an activity & a place y'all can go together. See how she responds.
Go from there...
 
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C.Holla said:
If a woman likes you,she wouldn't wait days to contact you,There is not that much busy in the world to not send a text.Consistency is always key
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Wrong! You don't know what's going on in her life. :camby:

Maybe she's waiting on you to contact her? Maybe she feeling you, but waiting on yo hoe fax to come back?

Sit tight..:youngsabo:
 
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A Woman's Opinion said:
It depends on what you consider flakey & "ignoring".:patrice:

Your previous post I responded to sounds as if you think women are supposed to chase, court & pursue men. I am simply warning you that this is incredibly WRONG.

A confident woman is never going to chase, nor make herself overly available for a man who's only texting her. :wtb: Trying to get her to "come over and chill", but not actually planning dates.:camby:


If you have this mentality all you will ever have is THOTS, hood rats & backpage hoes that entertain every nicca that gives them the mildest form of attention.

Quality women will take effort. Cleverness. TIME. :ufdup:


If you're one of those guys who meets a girl Friday, then youre texting her to come over and chill Saturday, and Sunday when she hardly knows you.
You are annoying! :noah:We hate guys like y'all!
Smart women are always flakey with men like this. Con artist always move fast. We don't trust you.

If You meet a girl Friday. Call her on Sunday or maybe Monday (Don't text)

Tell her about your day. Ask her about hers. Say, "tell me about yourself..."
then Listen.

Learn what she likes. Get to know the girl. Make her feel comfortable with you, before you start trying to pull up & see her. :comeon: Or get her alone with you somewhere. Or taking her around your friends to show off. :sas2:

Don't ask to see her, or mention sex until you have somewhat gotten to know her.

After you discover a mutual interest, or something you think she will like, Mention an activity & a place y'all can go together. See how she responds.
Go from there...
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@TRUEST check out this shyt.

Women are most def open to voicing their opinion in here but they stay spreading straight POISON. stop it. You pretty much outlined every thing to make a woman lose attraction for you. You're a woman, you most likely have no game and have not actively been trying to court women a majority of your life, so how you gonna come in here and speak as if your word is gospel? I don't get it.
 
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1thouwow said:
Talk about shyt that she’s interested in. Sad to say, but women don’t really care what we like. When you in the beginning phase of meeting a chick you should have her do at least 65-75% of the talking, and u only chiming in every so often.
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Smart women know this is a classic tactic of a pimp or con artist. Trying to learn everything about you, but giving surface information about theyself.

It won't work. Let the conversation be ginuine and flow naturally. If it's not, y'all don't have much in common and aren't hitting it off.
 
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What's poison? :rudy:
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If brehs god forbid listen to what you are saying they gonna have nothing but confusion and heartache in their future wondering why they can't keep a woman interested for more than a few dates. Its poisonous rhetoric. Women chase. Its a feminine trait. Would you prefer a nikka up under you all day you just met texting you good mornings and shyt while you have not earned this attention? Youd think he was unsuccessful with women, thirsty, and needy. Unless he was your physical nonpareil :shaq: then all the caca you talking goes out the window about wanting him to play coy and such. You not even being congruent in your walls of text so KIM >.>

this why this thread a million pages with nikkas still fumbling beginner concepts. so much misdirection ever few dozen pages or so then we have to get back on track.
 
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Zeu$ said:
If brehs god forbid listen to what you are saying they gonna have nothing but confusion and heartache in their future wondering why they can't keep a woman interested for more than a few dates. Its poisonous rhetoric. Women chase. Its a feminine trait. Would you prefer a nikka up under you all day you just met texting you good mornings and shyt while you have not earned this attention? Youd think he was unsuccessful with women, thirsty, and needy. Unless he was your physical nonpareil :shaq: then all the caca you talking goes out the window about wanting him to play coy and such. You not even being congruent in your walls of text so KIM >.>

this why this thread a million pages with nikkas still fumbling beginner concepts. so much misdirection ever few dozen pages or so then we have to get back on track.
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WTF are you talking about? I advocated for none of what you posted.

Women with confidence and self respect do not chase men. Period.
 
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Zeu$ said:
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@TRUEST check out this shyt.

Women are most def open to voicing their opinion in here but they stay spreading straight POISON. stop it. You pretty much outlined every thing to make a woman lose attraction for you. You're a woman, you most likely have no game and have not actively been trying to court women a majority of your life, so how you gonna come in here and speak as if your word is gospel? I don't get it.
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im not gonna lie. she's right though. yeah, if what ur trying to go for is to have sex asap with a chick, then, u can try to get her to come chill and see if she will. like she said, only thots, and unscrupulous/scandalous chicks are the types to be down to come to ur crib asap, send u thotty pics etc. a girl who's wifey material wont be doing any of that. she'll do just enough to let u know she likes u but will get turned off if she finds out ur one of those dudes that like to bang as soon as possible.

but everything is within reason. from the time u meet a girl, to the time u bang her, it shouldnt be more than 2/3 weeks. its nice to meet a girl and bang her in under 24 hours. but imagine dating a girl like that and yall break up. the breakup will be much harder for u when u start to realize damn "i got her in under 24 hours". that means, during yall breakup, the next man can. that's emotional torture.
 
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im not gonna lie. she's right though. yeah, if what ur trying to go for is to have sex asap with a chick, then, u can try to get her to come chill and see if she will. like she said, only thots, and unscrupulous/scandalous chicks are the types to be down to come to ur crib asap, send u thotty pics etc. a girl who's wifey material wont be doing any of that. she'll do just enough to let u know she likes u but will get turned off if she finds out ur one of those dudes that like to bang as soon as possible.

but everything is within reason. from the time u meet a girl, to the time u bang her, it shouldnt be more than 2/3 weeks. its nice to meet a girl and bang her in under 24 hours. but imagine dating a girl like that and yall break up. the breakup will be much harder for u when u start to realize damn "i got her in under 24 hours". that means, during yall breakup, the next man can. that's emotional torture.
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I was moreso speaking on the her saying men should be chasing women not the other way around. In my life that has only lead to getting bushed and I'm sure its the case for most brehs. I've never slept with a chick date one because I'm usually not into letting some random into my crib that early. But I'll be damned if I'm blowing up a womans phone unprovoked and not receiving the inverse for it. that is what shes insinuating here.
 
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