Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Silkk]

I mean I hope you joking, but I know youre not which makes this so alarming lol.

Shouldn't be if you keep your dikk exclusive

 

[Lord Bison]

The problem with women purposely ignoring texts like that is that a real nikka aint going to stick around and keep putting himself out there to get played like a fiddle. It sets the precedent that she's going to set traps and tests for the duration of the relationship.

Ignoring texts intentionally for a response is playing games, plain and simple. Real nikkas aint got time for that.

 

[RealAssanova]

brehs....forget the attractive, social, outgoing, loose kinda women....the girls you least expect can be about that B.S.

that one that seems innocent, wholesome, lacks experience, a virgin and shyt.....yea....that one can switch up in an instant and ghost you.

 

[Uno Venova]

How ya'll nikkas dress? especially now that the winter is coming up

Especially the younger crowd can answer..... tech suits? buttons ups and polos? chelsea boots? peacoats?

 

[VertigoKnight]

Going for drinks with a cool Punjabi Canadian chick I've been chatting to for the last two weeks. She says she doesn't mess with guys in relationships, yet she's coming out with me tonight and has told me she's gone home to get changed to come and meet me. At a bar near her place that she's chosen.



This is actually the second attempt at this as she invited me out for a "night walk" as she was in my area last week, but I got her text too late.

We'll see how it goes. Her body is banging though.

 

[PuffTheMagicDragon]

Question for those of you who use dating apps/ sites: What type of pics do you use?

I typically have a selfie + 2~4 random other pics. I don't upload pics w/ friends or family because I don't want them focused on anyone else in the photo. I've also been thinking of going to the dog park and taking pics w/ random dogs cuz apparently a lot of women like dog pics for some odd reason.

 

[Rice'N Beckford]

Lurking, and logged in just to say this.

The bolded is not true, and very bad advise! And this is coming from a woman!

I hope no guy on this site took the bolded advise you gave. How old are you, 18?

Listen...
Women fear being overly available, and showing too much interest out of fear of being used, and the guy losing interest. Women who are given real game by men are taught to do this to vet a mans interest in her.

Most smart women KNOW not to respond to every text. (No matter how much she likes you) smart women know not to be overly available for a man doing NOTHING to earn your time, but a "good morning beautiful" text.

So a woman not being at your whim is not a lack of interest. It's confidence. Standards, and awareness.
Besides... if a woman is THAT easy for you. What makes you think that special? You're not.



-A woman could be madly in love with you, and not respond to a text. Just to see how you react. Or because she doesn't want to come off thirsty on desperate.
-A woman can be madly in love with, and decline on a date or linking up, because her hair ain't done or She has nothing to wear, and wants to look her best for you. Because she likes you THAT much.


The trick is knowing women. Once you understand women, you will know things aren't as black & white with them, and judge each situation/moment individually.and don't assume Anything.

All of this bird logic


If a woman replying late, cancelling dates, and not replying at all Im supposed just sit there and not go after soneone who’s not playing games?

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Looking at joining the air force.

 

[Deafheaven]

Looking at joining the air force.

i'm a veteran. don't. kbye.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

i'm a veteran. don't. kbye.

Naw it's a good escApe that can shoot me out. Get my education for free and save money

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

i'm a veteran. don't. kbye.

Naw it's a good escApe that can shoot me out. Get my education for free and save money

 

[twan83]

im not gonna lie. she's right though. yeah, if what ur trying to go for is to have sex asap with a chick, then, u can try to get her to come chill and see if she will. like she said, only thots, and unscrupulous/scandalous chicks are the types to be down to come to ur crib asap, send u thotty pics etc. a girl who's wifey material wont be doing any of that. she'll do just enough to let u know she likes u but will get turned off if she finds out ur one of those dudes that like to bang as soon as possible.

but everything is within reason. from the time u meet a girl, to the time u bang her, it shouldnt be more than 2/3 weeks. its nice to meet a girl and bang her in under 24 hours. but imagine dating a girl like that and yall break up. the breakup will be much harder for u when u start to realize damn "i got her in under 24 hours". that means, during yall breakup, the next man can. that's emotional torture.

I was moreso speaking on the her saying men should be chasing women not the other way around. In my life that has only lead to getting bushed and I'm sure its the case for most brehs. I've never slept with a chick date one because I'm usually not into letting some random into my crib that early. But I'll be damned if I'm blowing up a womans phone unprovoked and not receiving the inverse for it. that is what shes insinuating here.

I ain’t blowing up no damn female phone if i don’t know for 100% sure she that into me even then I still don’t i don’t function that way I will let it be known I’m hella interested in my own way don’t get it twisted
Sleeping on the first date or just first time meeting someone I’ve done too many times to count and just look at it as shyt happens we both feeling each other at time chemistry off chain at that moment and we fukk but I ain’t trying to make u my girl just cuz of that shyt I tell em straight up afterwards had fun keep the fun times rolling and we’ll see what happens later down the line u do u I do me
U gotta earn ur worth to get at ur boy simple as that
Nor do I believe cuz someone wifey material u can’t smash quickly either shyt literally just happens u be surprised what chain reaction can cause u to be in a smash situation that quickly and years later like damn i smash my girl or fiancé or wife quick as shyt

I don’t believe in chasing a female but i do believe in if u see something u like go for it shoot ur shot worse gonna happen is u miss or she say No
I have a strict policy of dont live life With What If
Cuz u just don’t know and worse than a NO was a YES if u just talked to her come find out later she was really feelin u and just wanted u to talk to her

The problem with women purposely ignoring texts like that is that a real nikka aint going to stick around and keep putting himself out there to get played like a fiddle. It sets the precedent that she's going to set traps and tests for the duration of the relationship.

Ignoring texts intentionally for a response is playing games, plain and simple. Real nikkas aint got time for that.

Imma say this ignoring text shyt won’t fly with guys who are like me we are likely to u or put ur ass back of the line and then when u decide to respond tell u well u didn’t seem interest so I was enjoying life instead
1 or 2 things will happen u will be butt hurt to where u don’t wanna even talk again in which we already decided u ain’t worth our time already so u got beat to the punch in that area
Or u gonna make extra sure all of a sudden u interested to make u be top priority in which A. U gonna end up getting hit it or quit scenario cuz we still think u playing games
B. Some cases not many u work ur ass off to show your worth and u end up being worth value to go next step relationship wise







Overall this notion that a smart female will make u do so much work is true and false
True she may make u work to an extent but at same time she will let it be known she is very into at same time
She isn’t that damn stupid to play games to where u gotta jump thru so many hoops and if she does she ain’t a smart or a good female in the first place
A smart one may make u wait to have a first date a few days or a week but will still contact u often enough to let it be known she feeling u to a extent but also not thirsty for u
If she on that bullshyt she probably has a roster already even the good one still can have that
Hell we do too it comes down to positions
Who is top dog and worth ur time the most
And the guys and girls who don’t have a roster gonna make damn sure u even worth a damn to be making time for if they smart nobody trying to put all their eggs in a basket that easy or quickly unless they a simp or not that experience or desperate
Now once ur in a relationship all bets are off then

 

[ViShawn]

Man...hilarious. A girl that told me she has no romantic interest in me has been liking every comment on mine on FB after I've started to unfollow her and completely ignore her. Hilarious.

She wants to date other people. Cool. I've been on two dates going on three this week.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Got a girl in my class. She has a bf But passes me notes. Told her about my break up and she said let's smoke some time and gave me her number.

I'm not hitting her up tho

But what do you think she wants?

 

[VertigoKnight]

Got a girl in my class. She has a bf But passes me notes. Told her about my break up and she said let's smoke some time and gave me her number.

I'm not hitting her up tho

But what do you think she wants?

Attention. The annoying kind where she'll let you get to a certain point of flirting then back off.