So i been talking to this girl that i met for about two weeks
at a college program that im trying to get into .
She's a student/staff so pretty much the middle-man between me and the college's deans.
I've caught her a few times staring at me , plus always try to get physical with me as well.
Examples: i went on a retreat with this college this last weekend and we were doing many group activities.
One was that we had to cross a river (not an actual river) and i volunteered myself as the one with an injured leg( fake injury) .
She volunteered right away so they tied one of her and my legs together so we got as close as you can possible get without the actual sex involved.
maybe im reading into that but i dont know.
Another example was that my group had to lock arms for an activity we were going to do blindfolded.
We decided to do a practice run so we locked arms , when the practice was over , her and me still kept our
arms locked for a good while ( about a 1-2 minute longer after everybody else let go).
I invited her out this saturday to a food festival which she said yes to with a smiley face on the end

So here is where the problem comes in .
This whole time i thought she was single , she never gave vibes of being in a relationship or told me.
I asked her for her instagram yesterday , i added her and found out she has a boyfriend who she been with
for a year now. I think it might be a long distance relationship since she aint from new york but been here for a
few years for college. He might be from her hometown. Not 100% sure.
Should i pretend i didnt find out she's in a relationship , go out with her on Saturday
and shoot my shot? im talking to her because im actually interested in being in a relationship with her , not just a short-term thing.
Dont know if she's just being extra friendly because she's a staff
or because she's feeling me as well??

