Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[twan83]

Felt bad having to cut off a friend yesterday. She expressed that she wanted to be more than just friends and hopefully have a relationship with me, but I’m just not feeling her like that. We fukked a few times and I can tell I had her dikkmatized, but it was just sex for me . Since I told her I can’t see us having a relationship, she told me we can’t be friends anymore.

I know how u feel breh me and this one girl back in day we’re fukk buddies was feeling her but outta blue my feelings changed to just friends and she was a good woman which I was seeking but I couldn’t get past seeing her as friends so had to stop fukking and we became that
Few months later she moved
She contacted me 6 weeks later saying if ur still getting out of army u think we can try to move past friends stage again I’m making 6 digits have a nice house and a maid my son misses u and I did to miss her son and she was like u don’t have to work I’ll take care of in
But I just couldn’t get past the friend stage and declined FML breh

 

[twan83]

I say it all the time I’ve passed up literally good women rich, fine ass shyt girls that have pretty much everything I want in a women but I didn’t settle with them cuz I just wasn’t ready
Was enjoying the single game too much
Either we were fukk buddies or were dating and I stopped it cuz thought I could be ready to have a relationship
But everyone of them I came to realize I just wanna have fun

Don’t force ur self to be someone if ur not ready no matter how much she means too or how bad she is or if she gots everything u want in a female cuz ur gonna fukk it up and cheat, break up regardless cuz u ain’t ready
If it’s meant to be she will comeback in ur life later if not wasn’t meant to be

But I’m glad I enjoyed my single life to the fullest before I started to really settle down with a serious relationship

 

[Road20]

Aye coli brehs:

So me and the girl I've been talking are going to chill tomorrow, I am taking her to netherworld (all Georgia coli brehs should know)
When I asked her to go she said that's great, she hasn't been this year.


Then she turned around and invited 2 of her friends and her friends are bringing their boyfriends

When she told me that some of her friends were coming I got confused as fukk, I told her I thought we were just going to chill alone but then she told me that her and these two other chicks always go to netherworld together but hadn't gone this year yet. She also told me she was reluctant to go with them this year because their boyfriends were going and she didn't have anyone,


is this a sign she doesn't want to be alone with me?

She has started texting first by the way brehs

That's a bad sign brodie. whats gonna happen is the ladies gonna piece off and you'll be there tryin to kick it with some nikkas you don't even know. I agree with @TRUEST that's disrespectful because you at an amusement park i presume during the day. That's about as safe a date as you can get, and she still tryna bring extras. I'd cancel on her. Then i would either go alone or find some other shyt to do without her

 

[Atlrocafella]

I know how u feel breh me and this one girl back in day we’re fukk buddies was feeling her but outta blue my feelings changed to just friends and she was a good woman which I was seeking but I couldn’t get past seeing her as friends so had to stop fukking and we became that
Few months later she moved
She contacted me 6 weeks later saying if ur still getting out of army u think we can try to move past friends stage again I’m making 6 digits have a nice house and a maid my son misses u and I did to miss her son and she was like u don’t have to work I’ll take care of in
But I just couldn’t get past the friend stage and declined FML breh

I feel you breh. I’m just not the type of dude to waste a persons time like that. I could easily keep her around and sell her this fake dream of being together just so I can get my nut off, but I’m too much of a decent person

 

[TRUEST]

That's a bad sign brodie. whats gonna happen is the ladies gonna piece off and you'll be there tryin to kick it with some nikkas you don't even know. I agree with @TRUEST that's disrespectful because you at an amusement park i presume during the day. That's about as safe a date as you can get, and she still tryna bring extras. I'd cancel on her. Then i would either go alone or find some other shyt to do without her

i don't think he should go alone. he'll look like a lame. he needs to cancel on her and take another chick with him. the chick has to look good though. i read ol boy's response and i kinda smh at it because i know with 100% certainty the future that lies ahead for him with this girl.

 

[Lord Bison]

i don't think he should go alone. he'll look like a lame. he needs to cancel on her and take another chick with him. the chick has to look good though. i read ol boy's response and i kinda smh at it because i know with 100% certainty the future that lies ahead for him with this girl.

All of this could be resolved with two letters. NO. But you right, I have a feeling dude is going to waste his time and money on something that won't go anywhere.

 

[Primetime]

I say it all the time I’ve passed up literally good women rich, fine ass shyt girls that have pretty much everything I want in a women but I didn’t settle with them cuz I just wasn’t ready
Was enjoying the single game too much
Either we were fukk buddies or were dating and I stopped it cuz thought I could be ready to have a relationship
But everyone of them I came to realize I just wanna have fun

Don’t force ur self to be someone if ur not ready no matter how much she means too or how bad she is or if she gots everything u want in a female cuz ur gonna fukk it up and cheat, break up regardless cuz u ain’t ready
If it’s meant to be she will comeback in ur life later if not wasn’t meant to be

But I’m glad I enjoyed my single life to the fullest before I started to really settle down with a serious relationship

I feel the same way but it's crazy bc sometimes i do get agitated with the dating scene that i think back like "mannn, i should've just locked down this chick or that chick from way back.. "

But then i think about some of the chicks i was able to run through in my 20s and i'm like "i can't be too mad at myself" lol more so, i feel at peace with how i lived my mid-late 20s as a (relatively) single man.


But, for example, there was this bad light skinned nigerian girl from college i was cool with, we had the same circle of friends. She was smart, great goofy personality, prepping for nursing school, slim with a big ass, etc. We went on a couple outings and she would cook for me and everyone knew she liked me, but she wasn't going to let me smash unless I was serious about dating/courting.. and i was too much of a dawg with other college chicks that the idea of putting forth effort or commitment was funny to me. Long story short, we went our separate ways, graduated, went years without contact, then just randomly being on a mutual friend's instagram page a few months ago, i saw a tagged picture of her and found out she's now engaged to some NFL player...

It was a weird feeling b/c even tho it had been years, i still felt a certain type of way for a day or two. Mixed feelings i suppose, or maybe a feeling like through all my life living, all the wifeable chicks i had ignored were being picked off.

 

[Data-Hawk]

Aye coli brehs:

So me and the girl I've been talking are going to chill tomorrow, I am taking her to netherworld (all Georgia coli brehs should know)
When I asked her to go she said that's great, she hasn't been this year.


Then she turned around and invited 2 of her friends and her friends are bringing their boyfriends

When she told me that some of her friends were coming I got confused as fukk, I told her I thought we were just going to chill alone but then she told me that her and these two other chicks always go to netherworld together but hadn't gone this year yet. She also told me she was reluctant to go with them this year because their boyfriends were going and she didn't have anyone,


is this a sign she doesn't want to be alone with me?

She has started texting first by the way brehs

Lol. I would be pissed. 1 that’s a little disrespectful to invite other people w/o asking you. Even if she did ask I personally would back out , I’m not trying to hang out w/ her friends and their boyfriend. At least not on the 1st date.

Who driving ? You supposed to take them all lol ?

The last part “ being alone w/ you “. That’s just you trying to rationalize this. Don’t

 

[DCSpinerz]

It's such a turn off when a woman is self-centered and insecure about her own delusional thoughts. She blames everyone around her circle for her own mistakes.

It's ludicrous. I don't know why my cousin would deal with an egotistical, self-centered, crazy woman.


The last woman I cut off was an egocentric woman who lied about her past.

 

[MikelArteta]

My ex found out ive been casually dating And she got mad at me

Said it's only been 5 months and she would never do that to me. I told her you dumped me , you remember giving me back the ring and saying you didn't want to be with me. What did you expect me to sit around moping hoping?

 

[Lord Bison]

My ex found out ive been casually dating And she got mad at me

Said it's only been 5 months and she would never do that to me. I told her you dumped me , you remember giving me back the ring and saying you didn't want to be with me. What did you expect me to sit around moping hoping?

This further goes to show that the only reason why she dumped you in the first place is because of outside peer pressure and not because she had a real reason on her own. Stay the course man and you'll get a full fledged apology on how she messed up and how much she wants you back.

This just goes to show you that women have far bigger egos than we do as men and you have the perfect opportunity to humble her by giving her the same cold shoulder she gave you when she dipped out on the relationship. Don't take this broad back.

 

[Goon for hire]

Lol. I would be pissed. 1 that’s a little disrespectful to invite other people w/o asking you. Even if she did ask I personally would back out , I’m not trying to hang out w/ her friends and their boyfriend. At least not on the 1st date.

Who driving ? You supposed to take them all lol ?

The last part “ being alone w/ you “. That’s just you trying to rationalize this. Don’t

Yeah she was expecting me to drive there's a whole lot more to it that happened today...hs shyt but in short...

She's bushedunless she start acting right of course

Sad because a close friend put me on with her

 

[VertigoKnight]

Yeah she was expecting me to drive there's a whole lot more to it that happened today...hs shyt but in short...

She's bushedunless she start acting right of course

Sad because a close friend put me on with her

Once again you're learning these lessons now whilst you're young Breh. Each one of these near misses is a growing experience. Lets see if she'll come correct.

It will be annoying and frustrating, but better to bush a chick early than put up with the bullshyt.

 

[John Reena]

My ex found out ive been casually dating And she got mad at me

Said it's only been 5 months and she would never do that to me. I told her you dumped me , you remember giving me back the ring and saying you didn't want to be with me. What did you expect me to sit around moping hoping?

See fellas? Reincar showing u dat "Don't chase em, Replace em" lifestyle.

 

[MikelArteta]

I am breh just found it so funny that someone can literally break up with you give you back the ring repeat over and over again we are never getting back together. And then when I finally start dating and she finds out trying to paint me as the bad person.

This further goes to show that the only reason why she dumped you in the first place is because of outside peer pressure and not because she had a real reason on her own. Stay the course man and you'll get a full fledged apology on how she messed up and how much she wants you back.

This just goes to show you that women have far bigger egos than we do as men and you have the perfect opportunity to humble her by giving her the same cold shoulder she gave you when she dipped out on the relationship. Don't take this broad back.