Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[J.E.T.S]

At what point is this evident though? The burden of initiation is always on the man so 9 times out of 10 we're initiating anyway.

After several attempts. 4 or 5 times. Stop trying and see if she hits you.

This happened to me before and I saw the chick nearly everyday. She made time to text other folks though in my face and talk about going out.

If I ain't fukking, I'm not giving no bytch the pleasure of an ego boost. I keep it moving.if they ask what happen... I'll tell them straight up, "are we fukkin?"..

 

[zerorequiem]

I wanna do all this right now

Get to it breh I'm changing my life for the better as well thanks to this thread. I won't let this knowledge go to waste.

 

[eufemism]

I’m finally getting somewhere I can’t tell yall what in case I fail and you clown me it would be the biggest L in the history of macking if I fail

Bruh I be posting the biggest L's on here opening up my soul




These bytches is cold mayne

 

[RealAssanova]

When you ask a woman what she wants in a man...9 times out 10, they'll all say shyt along the lines of loyal, honest, kind, trustworthy, generous, etc....but in reality, they get in relationships/fukk with men that are the exact opposite of everything they just said they want. So why are brehs in here getting caught up with a woman(s) words? its like listening to that nikka that you knows spews nothing but bullshyt and lies...yet you play along actin like you believe him.

same shyt with these birds. If they say something, she gotta back it up with her actions. Otherwise, ain't no difference between her and that dude.

 

[Bald Head Ba$tard]

Set up a time & place to meet a chick on the day OF. Especially if she's hitting your ass up ASAP.

Planning ahead is cool, but that shyt ain't guaranteed unless you got that shyt on lock 4REAL.

nikkaz plan ahead.....then when Friday & Sat comes, can't get a solid answer or an answer at all from a bytch on those days.....the days you KNOW a bytch trying to bool with a nikka....but then that nikka ain't you

 

[Bald Head Ba$tard]

These days, it really seems like women are going ghost on nikkaz for the most narcissistic reasons, mane.

It's amazing a nikka could be paying for a bytch hair, nails, etc and then she STILL leave the nikka....that's lets me know these bytches just want the image of a relationship without actually being in one....Then switch up on a nikka and then act like the relationship was a mistake and shyt... That's $ wasted from a nikka. Then the bytch wanna go act like nikkaz aren't treating her right. bytches that keep moving on like that and complaining def don't know their worth. nikkaz can write that shyt on these hoes pages and they'll still do dumb shyt....lol

 

[ZoeGod]

So this girl in particular I am talking about, I saw her walk in to a bar that my friend and I were eating (not drinking bar, but like a Chile's/applebees type of place). I cold approached her.

I will say this - your phone will only stay dry if you don't approach women... you have to approach them. You know that, we all know that. I for one, saw her and I had to seize the moment. I was wearing a hoodie so she really couldn't see how jacked I was until weeks later.

But yeah, know that i am more muscular, my confidence have sky rocketed... i'm not too worried about rejection, it will happen, but i know that the ball is in my court now

Word this is me. My phone is drier than Ashy Larry's ankles. This semester has got me so stressed out I don't approach. I feel like i lost my approach mojo. I just go to class from 8am-5pm. Gym,get dinner then study. All the numbers I got were at parties or from circle of friends and these shyts gone nowhere. I am in a campus filled with fine sistas. Smh I'm slacking. And I see nikkas do the online game (tinder and IG) and are sucessful. I have tried it and it went nowehere. I guess I gotta do approaching. Been a dry ass semester. I'm stressed with this program, problems at home and in a dry spell. I gotta get back approaching.

 

[Solano707]

Word this is me. My phone is drier than Ashy Larry's ankles. This semester has got me so stressed out I don't approach. I feel like i lost my approach mojo. I just go to class from 8am-5pm. Gym,get dinner then study. All the numbers I got were at parties or from circle of friends and these shyts gone nowhere. I am in a campus filled with fine sistas. Smh I'm slacking. And I see nikkas do the online game (tinder and IG) and are sucessful. I have tried it and it went nowehere. I guess I gotta do approaching. Been a dry ass semester. I'm stressed with this program, problems at home and in a dry spell. I gotta get back approaching.

Breh, you got this. You just got to walk up and open your mouth and talk. An easy going compliment goes a long way with women.

You can do it breh, we all got faith in you. Just don't let your obligations totally run your life, but don't let it unravel it either.

 

[True Blue Moon]

lol...nikkas is always blaming men
nah man...we gotta hold women to a higher standard


lmao again! men blaming men!!

yall need to stop doing that shyt man. it isnt always the man's fault. How could his energy or approach be off if he said the shorty was interested up UNTIL he showed interest

Breh, I'd tell a chick the same thing if she ALWAYS finds dudes that are a$$holes or is ALWAYS getting pumped and dumped. If that's all a person is experiencing then they're probably missing some blind spots

In a thread where nikkas are blowing up their exes phones or over pursuing to the point where multiple brehs are literally throwing their hands up and saying "You're not gonna listen, you on your own breh " it doesn't help to just point fingers at the chick.

You're talking "blame" and "fault". I'm talking strategy and solution.

I'm not even saying that homie that I responded to is an extreme case like that, but his frustration is palpable through the screen.

In a world where p*ssy is falling out the sky when you're on your shyt, enforcing boundaries and knowing when to mash and when to fall back, when to build and when to bush -- then yeah breh, I'm gonna assume that homie is approaching the situation in a way that is turning chicks off or misreading signs.

A chick that is genuinely showing you interest becomes borderline dumb and will legit start liking shyt that you like because you like it unless and until you lose control of the situation

And you should also be equipped to pick up on when a chick isn't interested without it costing you a grip of energy.

Since we're the hunters and they're getting hunted, it's up to us to know their nature and keep the ones that we vibe with and bush those that don't. Mold the ones that we keep instead of even worrying about those that don't act accordingly.

And aside from all of that, blaming the chick could be 100% true but is fruitless and unhelpful if it's a constant problem and not something that just happens every now and then.

Objectively speaking, anytime a dude is on the outs and getting bushed, rather than doing the bushing, he's not on his G like he could be. Period.

 

[Shadow King]

Relearned that getting a number doesn't mean a damn thing.

 

[<<TheStandard>>]

Annoyance:

When a female that you've been with for a while and introduced her to new things... starts a new job or go to a new school. She then makes new female friends and then she change. Wants to be single and "be free" all of a sudden... or start doing things that she didn't normally do. With a personality that you've basically molded.

Women are followers.

Let her go and be thankful you found out the deal earlier rather than later.

I take it you're in your late teens, early 20's......you shouldn't be that stuck over a joint anyways.

 

[FakeNews]

When will you guys understand that women aren’t men. You’re expecting communication that you would get from another man. It isn’t going to happen. Very rarely will a woman tell you exactly, in explicit terms, what she really means. If she does it’s usually because she’s exasperated with you not taking the hints she’s giving you.

Sounds to me that she told you exactly what it was, based on ACTIONS. That was on you for not picking it up fast enough.

Breh I feel what you're saying.....but I'm gonna say is it really on me though in this case? Some women just be on that bullshyt we know that.

before she cancelled she literally gave me no hints that she was not interested. She seemed excited, we were chatting every day, and truth be told a few months beforehand she was choosing on me initially, but I couldn't bust any moves at the time because I was seeing someone.

But let me expand a little bit more on how it went. She cancels the night before the date. I actually plan not to even respond but I do message her back the next day. Letting her know if she wants to reschedule we can if not I will just KIM. I told her that! She responds immediately saying yes for another time. We trade a few more messages and finally I tell her to call or text me sometime(because to me if she is really interested she will hit me up) and that was it.

I agree a woman's actions tells you everything. I was not expecting her to communicate like a breh. But from the way things were going I was also not expecting her to give me the run around guess I was wrong, but whatever

 

[FakeNews]

Some of y’all need to face reality it’s a cold world out there
U either adapt or u fail

Any female that don’t show enough interest in u to your liking her or out at bottom of roster as a hit and quit status

Nobody got time for the damn games
If a female is feeling u enough she will make the time to call, txt, and set up dates too see u often enough
Even if she has a job that has lots of hours sure it might not be tons of the big 3 call, txt, and dates but u will see enough and the effort from her

Cuz I know damn well if another dude catch her eye she would make sure she make that time for u

It’s like that joe song ALL THE THINGS (flip script and make a female version)

She will do all the things another women wouldn’t do just to get that dude locked down that’s a fact


We tell u brehs the things U NEED TO HEAR NOT WHAT U WANT TO HEAR

It’s ultimately ur choice if u choose to listen or not

Great post

Hell yeah I truly believe the bold

All these excuses some of these women make about being too busy, etc.. is just BS. No one is too busy to not put forth enough effort for someone they like

 

[Benjamin Sisko]

Man what’s up with chick be flaking, first she always make s priority to txt back, now she don’t wanna text at all.

 

[Deafheaven]

Let ol girl pursue you, makes life easier.