expand on this creh
I'm trying to improve my closing speed on tinder. not trying to see these broads too many times before closing
Well i'd say ultimately the chick chooses you but what you can do is put yourself in the best position to be great. i really just do 3 simple things that come natural but that's through experience.
So in my situation, i stay in the middle of a big city area surrounded by restaurants and bars that are like 2min walking distance. So 1.) i always propose a bar in my area, so i can walk there. B/c at the end of the night when i walk her to her car, if things went well she's going to offer to drive me back to my spot lol. Now if that's not an option and i gotta drive, i always just pick a spot i feel familiar with and that isn't a restaurant or anything fancy/expensive. A spot laid back that i feel comfortable in where to sit, what to ask for, etc.
Now for me, 2.) during the actual date, again yall are going to vibe (or not vibe) one way or another, but i always have a few things in the holster as far as what i'm gonna say, and these things should come natural to you. i.e. if a chick asks you how your day was... that should be easy work for you to answer and respond in a way where you're showing great energy, humor or jokes. Or "tell me a bit about yourself" or "what do you do?" "What do you like to do?" Easy work to drop a few sentences about that [and if it's not, work on it], then flip it on her and pretend like you give a fuk lol. I might ask a follow up question, then i might chime in about how i can relate/emphathize or whatever, but i keep a cool positive energy throughout. smilling, grinning, looking attentive, acting surprised, etc.
3.) If she drops me off bc i walked there, or even if i had to drive somewhere and i've just walked her to her car, i always go for the hug and then kiss. If things went well, she's going to kiss you back, and that's where i play it by ear as far as how much more i go with it. In my case with the earlier chick, i was still in her car when i hugged/kissed, and she kept on kissing back, so i grabbed a titty, we kept at it, i told her lets go inside, she was like no she can't bc we just met, i said aight but i kept on kissing, caressing for another few mins, unhooked her braw, and i said again, lets go inside, and this time she was like yea let's do that lol.
Mind you, there were times with other chicks where i didn't fukk that same night but bc she was feeling me we were still in the parking lot making out, me grabbing ass, titties, etc. And so next "date" was a "netflix n chill" or come over to the pool at my spot thing lol. But then there were ones who only gave me a quick peck back, and with those i didn't force the issue bc i already knew they weren't talking about it. Mind you, i don't really have the intention of fukking the first night, it's more so just a quick gauge and then playing it by ear.
her ass cuz I still would if she don’t get her shyt together
she thinks horoscopes play a role in compatibility 
maybe I'm over thinking this but should have I ended the convo early on
I'm struggling with these, I don't even have that many thoughts on a daily basis 
