Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Finally met up with this geeky but hot Chinese chick I've been trying to meet the last two weeks. She turned up on her bike, Looking fine. We had an awkward hello and then had lunch at this Chinese spot. which went much better. Then I enticed her over to my place as she needed a wrench for her bike seat and I needed to grab a jacket. Couldn't quite read her so didn't try anything.

Anyway we went to see Black Panther and afterwards we walked back to my place as she left her bike there. So she was getting her bike ready to go home and we hugged, I was like damn, no play this time, but as I opened the door to her I just kissed her and she returned the kiss. I was like stay 10 mins and closed the door, led her her to my living room, this chick was on top of me instantly. Had her titties out.

Anyway 10 mins turned into me taking her to my bedroom where she was adamant we were not going to have sex on a first date. I was like that's cool. :shaq:

20 mins later she was totally nude and we played around, I told her to spend the night as it was late. We spent the whole of Sunday in bed fukking and talking. Chick is fine as hell, I noticed when she turned up on Saturday she had on no makeup at all and still looked sexy. Not many chicks can rock that and feel confident about their skin. She's in marine science which explains why she's not too concerned with the over making her self up every day.

Meeting her again this Tuesday. So far I'm feeling her general vibe.


dad prob a billionaire in china you winning out chea
 

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Yeah so doctor chick totally did a ghost move. bytch IS 37 WTF. Wants a serious relationship, no hookups according to her profile lol. She was riding my dikk on the third date which is actually a long waiting period considering how many women give it up easily.

Basically called her up... (it's been about 4-5 days since we conversed. I wasn't being needy) no answer. See her updating shyt on IG. Then BAM see her back on Bumble (location shows activity).

I know where she lives and know where she works. Tempted to just go :demonic: right now SMH
 

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See the games never stop. I know you playing about going to her house my g.

Unless you meant go cold blooded, if so then yeah.


Yeah so doctor chick totally did a ghost move. bytch IS 37 WTF. Wants a serious relationship, no hookups according to her profile lol. She was riding my dikk on the third date which is actually a long waiting period considering how many women give it up easily.

Basically called her up... (it's been about 4-5 days since we conversed. I wasn't being needy) no answer. See her updating shyt on IG. Then BAM see her back on Bumble (location shows activity).

I know where she lives and know where she works. Tempted to just go :demonic: right now SMH
 

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Yeah so doctor chick totally did a ghost move. bytch IS 37 WTF. Wants a serious relationship, no hookups according to her profile lol. She was riding my dikk on the third date which is actually a long waiting period considering how many women give it up easily.

Basically called her up... (it's been about 4-5 days since we conversed. I wasn't being needy) no answer. See her updating shyt on IG. Then BAM see her back on Bumble (location shows activity).

I know where she lives and know where she works. Tempted to just go :demonic: right now SMH

Eh why? :yeshrug: You got yours just move on...she totally played herself vs her profile so now you know....she is literally the next nikka's problem. Don't call her or anything and just get at more females who are into you
 

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Yeah so doctor chick totally did a ghost move. bytch IS 37 WTF. Wants a serious relationship, no hookups according to her profile lol. She was riding my dikk on the third date which is actually a long waiting period considering how many women give it up easily.

Basically called her up... (it's been about 4-5 days since we conversed. I wasn't being needy) no answer. See her updating shyt on IG. Then BAM see her back on Bumble (location shows activity).

I know where she lives and know where she works. Tempted to just go :demonic: right now SMH

Breh... it happens. You weren’t what she was looking for. Just learn from the experience. You had quite a few of us in here letting you know things were trending in this direction. Just because you corrected course over a few days doesn’t erase past missteps or transgressions.

If you go do anything spiteful to this woman you’re only cementing the notion of being low value in her mind. We’re above that. We’re above them.
 

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Yeah so doctor chick totally did a ghost move. bytch IS 37 WTF. Wants a serious relationship, no hookups according to her profile lol. She was riding my dikk on the third date which is actually a long waiting period considering how many women give it up easily.

Basically called her up... (it's been about 4-5 days since we conversed. I wasn't being needy) no answer. See her updating shyt on IG. Then BAM see her back on Bumble (location shows activity).

I know where she lives and know where she works. Tempted to just go :demonic: right now SMH
Take it from a nikka women don't like.
She liked enough to smash on date 3.
You got what you want, you won :manny:
 

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Eh why? :yeshrug: You got yours just move on...she totally played herself vs her profile so now you know....she is literally the next nikka's problem. Don't call her or anything and just get at more females who are into you

I swear these bytches must be on some self hate sometimes. All a nikka wants is to fukk you right, eat your ass, spoil you and be your man. bytches just want to fukk around SMH. I just want a ride or die.

BUT I should have known. Late 30s and single. Gave me this lip service about dealbreakers, relationships rah rah on some bullshyt.

Anyways I'm setting up something with this other chick Tues or Wed. Not really my type but I'll feel it out.

Breh... it happens. You weren’t what she was looking for. Just learn from the experience. You had quite a few of us in here letting you know things were trending in this direction. Just because you corrected course over a few days doesn’t erase past missteps or transgressions.

If you go do anything spiteful to this woman you’re only cementing the notion of being low value in her mind. We’re above that. We’re above them.

How the fukk do you not know after 5 dates and talking for a month is what mindfukks me. I can screen out women I'm into within a date or two.

Take it from a nikka women don't like.
She liked enough to smash on date 3.
You got what you want, you won :manny:

That's true but daaaamn I want more :noah: She's a tall bytch and actually rode my dikk. Haven't had a bytch that knew how to do that in years.

But you right :myman:

Just at this point in life I'd rather have someone I'm into than casual sex.
 

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See the games never stop. I know you playing about going to her house my g.

Unless you meant go cold blooded, if so then yeah.

Ha yeah I was joking about the house stuff. Not obsessed but I'm not gonna lie that part of my psyche wants her to tell me face to face WTF is up. Or tell her to give me back my three muh'fukking condoms I left there :russ:
 

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Where u meet her at?

Ha yeah I was joking about the house stuff. Not obsessed but I'm not gonna lie that part of my psyche wants her to tell me face to face WTF is up. Or tell her to give me back my three muh'fukking condoms I left there :russ:
 

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I swear these bytches must be on some self hate sometimes. All a nikka wants is to fukk you right, eat your ass, spoil you and be your man. bytches just want to fukk around SMH. I just want a ride or die.

BUT I should have known. Late 30s and single. Gave me this lip service about dealbreakers, relationships rah rah on some bullshyt.

Anyways I'm setting up something with this other chick Tues or Wed. Not really my type but I'll feel it out.



How the fukk do you not know after 5 dates and talking for a month is what mindfukks me. I can screen out women I'm into within a date or two.



That's true but daaaamn I want more :noah: She's a tall bytch and actually rode my dikk. Haven't had a bytch that knew how to do that in years.

But you right :myman:

Just at this point in life I'd rather have someone I'm into than casual sex.
I can respect that :ehh: you seem to be a high value cat so it'll happen.
 

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Where u meet her at?

I met her on Bumble. I'm starting to dislike online dating though as a whole because behavior like ghosting is acceptable. The thing is you meet someone and you're getting to know them. Traditional dating you may know of the person, be in their social circle then romance happens. Not sure. I think online dating is good on paper but the human condition fukks it up.

I can respect that :ehh: you seem to be a high value cat so it'll happen.

Thanks breh. I've met some interesting women since being single and doing online dating the past year. Thing is I'm 34 man and want a family. I'm not in a hurry but I'm dating with intention. There's a certain point where you realize casual sex is FUN as in I'll take it or leave it but it's not sustainable when you want to enter the next phase of life.

I know I will probably get tired of fukking my wife too. Again, human condition.
 

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Yeah it's stressful my G, but this is the modern dating game. It's a shoppers market, especially for women. But when you're looking for something serious it can sting when these chicks are on the game playing.

The sick thing is I tell all these chicks I meet I'm out of a long relationship and so I'm not looking for anything serious and they're all over me. Like you would think that would turn them off. But nope.
 

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I’m 31 and I want a family too but I’ll be damned if I give a woman a position she doesn’t deserve because of my own impatience/fear. So if it doesn’t happen for me, then I’ll be fine. There are a million other things that I can find joy in.

So until then, I’ll keep lifting, keep learning, and keep living.
 

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I thought it was pimp 4 life


I’m 31 and I want a family too but I’ll be damned if I give a woman a position she doesn’t deserve because of my own impatience/fear. So if it doesn’t happen for me, then I’ll be fine. There are a million other things that I can find joy in.

So until then, I’ll keep lifting, keep learning, and keep living.
 
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