Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[twan83]

Good God, I got back on POF today and the amount of ugly/entitled bytches with multiple kids/trannys are there in abundance

shyt really makes me wanna just stay single. I enjoy my space, quiet time and can get p*ssy without attachments.

I need to delete this POF app asap. bytches 25+ that don't know how to write a normal sentence without major errors. Wtf.
Damn I didn't know it was THAT bad out there. Disgusting.

fukking opposite out here on tender my area booming and then nice as shyt abundance of nurses too and I'm schooling my breh and he uses what I tell him and then I have to tell his dumbass dont repeat exactly what i say or copy my text cus they gonna be like u seem diff than when we talked cuz that already happened too him.
He was like I could eat well but God damn as fine as some of these are they still ain't shyt and I hear the stories too and I be like breh if I wifey ever I dont wanna even be bothered at all
It's so bad out there and my patience is too damn low for their shyt

 

[TRUEST]

@Supreme Leader Reinscarf

breh, i'll be honest with you, unless you really not that attracted to that girl who sent you the long text, then, i think youre being unnecessarily tough here. i strongly advice you to get off that "you pissed me off, so fucck u forever" type mentality. unless a girl cheated on you, or did something along those lines, u should give chances. u never know how they can be of help to you in the future. u just need to be firm with her. thats the vibe im getting from her texts.

 

[MikelArteta]

@Supreme Leader Reinscarf

breh, i'll be honest with you, unless you really not that attracted to that girl who sent you the long text, then, i think youre being unnecessarily tough here. i strongly advice you to get off that "you pissed me off, so fucck u forever" type mentality. unless a girl cheated on you, or did something along those lines, u should give chances. u never know how they can be of help to you in the future. u just need to be firm with her. thats the vibe im getting from her texts.

I'm not zero attraction

 

[Bless't]

the decent women on pof delete their account in a few days, for the most part its just attn whoring for these chicks, you can sign back up a year from now and its the same chicks, ugly, bottom of the barrel for the most part expecting the top of the top

This is the key to all dating apps. Message the "good ones" early on and see if it goes anywhere because they definitely delete their accounts fast.

 

[Deafheaven]

How do I transition from a coffee date to physical escalation. This chick usually only has time in the morning to do shyt and Ive never had to seduce in the morning.

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

How do I transition from a coffee date to physical escalation. This chick usually only has time in the morning to do shyt and Ive never had to seduce in the morning.

That’s easy breh. When you’re out with her, put your arms around her shoulders or grab her around the waist and pull her close to you. If you’re out at a coffee shop, sit facing her with one of your legs between hers and rub her thigh. Maintain strong eye contact and don’t act nervous. Even if she’s caught off guard she’ll roll with it as long as you’re confident.

 

[Deafheaven]

That’s easy breh. When you’re out with her, put your arms around her shoulders or grab her around the waist and pull her close to you. If you’re out at a coffee shop, sit facing her with one of your legs between hers and rub her thigh. Maintain strong eye contact and don’t act nervous. Even if she’s caught off guard she’ll roll with it as long as you’re confident.

Ive already kissed ol girl so it should be easy to go farther and farther in public. I just have never dated a new woman not at night time. Its a different dynamic completely

 

[Lhark]

Ok so the girls im trying to talk to keep flaking on me. I was supposed to go on a date yesterday but she never responded to my reminder text. It was the day she chose to go as well.

Does that mean they just don't fw me?

 

[Rice'N Beckford]

Ok so the girls im trying to talk to keep flaking on me. I was supposed to go on a date yesterday but she never responded to my reminder text. It was the day she chose to go as well.

Does that mean they just don't fw me?

Think logically...

-the date was yesterday
-she didnt reply to the reminder text yesterday
-she didnt text you today

 

[Lhark]

Think logically...

-the date was yesterday
-she didnt reply to the reminder text yesterday
-she didnt text you today

 

[sfgiants]

i got a bad habit of planning shyt with bytches then i lose interest and dont wana see them when i plan on it
bytches like "so we still on today" and im like "nah i got sick"

thats how i got bushed after valentines day told that bytch i was sick and the following weekend i was "in sacramento visiting family"

bytch gave me the and i lost out on effortless sex

 

[Lhark]

Think logically...

-the date was yesterday
-she didnt reply to the reminder text yesterday
-she didnt text you today

Anyway to ensure that doesn't happen again? Or at least less often?

 

[Rice'N Beckford]

Anyway to ensure that doesn't happen again? Or at least less often?

bag more women and lower expectations .

You gotta setup multiple dates with multiple women. All these chicks have men talking to them everyday. They literally have the pick of the litter. You gotta either be the flyest nikka outta the bunch, or, the most aggressive.


What I usually do is weed out waste of time bytches by putting the decision in their hands. For example, I tell a woman Im talking to HMU because I wanna get to know em outside of the text messages. If they agree, I put the ball in their court again by saying "let me know where we are going". If they setup a place I ask em "what day/time". They give me the time/date and I see if it aligns with my schedule. But, I still keep a lil note in my brain that the chick gonna flake

Cats be trying too hard to be the "leader" and overworking themselves in this thread for these time wasting chicks by sweating on how they gonna plan where to go. When you can just have her do all the work. Seriously, what chick you know dont like planning shyt? They more down to go out with you if they took the time out to think on what to do since they gotta plan ahead. Now they thinking "well I dont wanna waste my time"

Spoiler

But, tbh, you gotta train your brain to understand that women dont owe you shyt so you


shouldn't expect shyt.

 

[Lhark]

bag more women and lower expectations .

You gotta setup multiple dates with multiple women. All these chicks have men talking to them everyday. They literally have the pick of the litter. You gotta either be the flyest nikka outta the bunch, or, the most aggressive.


What I usually do is weed out waste of time bytches by putting the decision in their hands. For example, I tell a woman Im talking to HMU because I wanna get to know em outside of the text messages. If they agree, I put the ball in their court again by saying "let me know where we are going". If they setup a place I ask em "what day/time". They give me the time/date and I see if it aligns with my schedule. But, I still keep a lil note in my brain that the chick gonna flake

Cats be trying too hard to be the "leader" and overworking themselves in this thread for these time wasting chicks by sweating on how they gonna plan where to go. When you can just have her do all the work. Seriously, what chick you know dont like planning shyt? They more down to go out with you if they took the time out to think on what to do since they gotta plan ahead. Now they thinking "well I dont wanna waste my time"

Spoiler

But, tbh, you gotta train your brain to understand that women dont owe you shyt so you


shouldn't expect shyt.

Thanks for putting me on game

 

[EatingGoodNow]

So back I’m September/October, my girl went out to take pictures with this friend/photographer. I wasn’t totally cool with it to begin with bc it was a late night ordeal. She apparently met him at a bar where he was grabbing food and drinks before they went to the this outside spot where the “photos” were taken (shyts turned out wack af and look like they were just phone camera pics. So with it seeming fishy I check out dude IG story and there’s a boomerang video of her walking up some steps like

So I question her about it and she says it was a shot for a video he was working on (still never seen it) and that they were at a girlfriend of hers place. I told her nah that was foul and she needs to find a new photographer. She agreed and said ok if he makes me uncomfortable.
Fast forward to this week...she mentions that a DJ friend of hers is moving to NYC and wants her to promote his gigs. So she’s going out with him tomorrow night to this as a possible business opportunity. I asked her who is this DJ friend and all she gives me is DJ lemonade. I’m like well surely his momma ain’t name him that, he ain’t got a real name? She never told me and I guess expected me to ask explicitly. She doesn’t know thatI know it’s the same photog guy from before.