Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

How important is the money your ol lady makes? I have a couple prospects, but they aren’t really “successful” they either straight up bums or Lowkey struggling.

One is tryna lock it down and get serious, but she a teacher and told me she only make 30k. I know she got some debt too because she went to a private HBCU.

But she wants me to drop $200 for a flight so she can visit me, and she wants me to fly back out to her for her graduation.

She fine as a mf but it’s just the financial aspect (among other things, like if she workouts etc) but idk.

Am I trippen too much off her profession vs some other shii? I hear about all these horror stories of women latching on to Nikkas doing aight because they’re looking for a comeup

if she's a good woman in other areas money omes money goes, anyone can lose their job tomorrow or upgrade to something better

 

[MikelArteta]

How important is the money your ol lady makes? I have a couple prospects, but they aren’t really “successful” they either straight up bums or Lowkey struggling.

One is tryna lock it down and get serious, but she a teacher and told me she only make 30k. I know she got some debt too because she went to a private HBCU.

But she wants me to drop $200 for a flight so she can visit me, and she wants me to fly back out to her for her graduation.

She fine as a mf but it’s just the financial aspect (among other things, like if she workouts etc) but idk.

Am I trippen too much off her profession vs some other shii? I hear about all these horror stories of women latching on to Nikkas doing aight because they’re looking for a comeup

if she's a good woman in other areas money omes money goes, anyone can lose their job tomorrow or upgrade to something better

 

[Cape Town JHB]

Is your wife really that thorough of a co-host?. In terms of stacking the show with people you know you might need a dynamic where you have a single mid 20s/early 30s chick who is very opinionated on shyt, then contrast all the drivel she spews with insights that your wife has.
Also are you really gonna keep it a buck with your wife around and tell her that she was first part of your hoe rotation and proved herself worthy?
The relationship shows have been done to death,Zo Williams does a terrible job at just letting dumb bytchs yap and yap, his show is only fire when Corey Holcomb is a guest to counter balance the bytchs on that show.

Also the picture of the other women is not all that. She's average and I doubt your wife is a baddie either. You need a strong 8 or above with strong opinions. I hope your other boy can play the bad cop role. Idealy your show goes like this:

You introduce a topic and let the cute bytch say her "black men ain't shyt , blah blah"
Then you let your homeboy obliterate her points and show her the stupidity in her thought process.
Then your wife gives that motherly wholesome good girl feel-good opinion then you go to the calls.
This dynamic is not possible if it's just average looking smart women, they don't rank high enough on the sexual market place for people to give a damn what they got to say.

you need an opiniated bad bytch, an Alpha Male and an average looking good girl. It's advisable to try and keep changing the cute bytchs weekly coz the listeners will quickly get sick of listening to one chick repeating herself weekly.

Patrice O'Neil had this dynamic in his best shows of the Black Phillip back in the day , Corey is also at his best in the presence of such a dynamic.

Also as far as topics if you can address things that most black people know but are scared of adressing :
-how quickly did your current girlfriend let you go RAW?
-Ladies is there a guy that you dumped in the last 5 years that you now regret and why you regret it?

-Ladies when you first had sex with your man did you show him how freaky you really are or did you hold back quite a bit?

-Fellas who excites you more , having sex with your wife or watching porn?

-would you get into a relationship with an average looking plain 6 with 1 kid or a bad chick who's an 8plus with 2 kids or more, If all else was equal.

-Ladies have you ever dated a guy that was better looking than you or are you in a relationship with a man who is better looking than you...and have them elaborate on the dynamic.

-Ladies is there an ex Boyfriend that you still hate and want nothing to do with but still miss his D.

-Is it possible to go back to spitters after dealing with a chick who shallows?

-Regular broke or working dudes what's the hottest chick you've ever bagged with Game only and how long did it last?

-what are the pros and cons of being with an ugly-average vs the pro cons of being with a hot girl.

-Have you ever had a homeboy scoop your girl and are still together to this day or do you know anyone this happened to.

-How far long in you girlfriends pregnancy did you realise you don't wanna have a baby with her?

It's gotta relatable, deep,funny and most of all unique topics compared to the usual drivel out there.
Peace breh and goodluck.

 

[J.E.T.S]

Went out with my ex last night.

Sorry brehs. Got some surf n turf... and some p*ssy.

She paid for everything.

She also got a new Audi... and a house...

Wtf...

 

[Malik1time]

My girl went to D.C with her friend and her family for a family reunion
I hit her up yesterday morning to see did she make it and she replied back so anyway i decided to not hit her up for the whole day cuz i realize i always initiate contact and lo and behold she never called me..not even a text eventually i hit her up late last night but she didn't reply and this morning she replied saying she was sleeping. Am i tripping for being annoyed with her like why do i always have to start the convo
I was thinking about checking her but am I reaching

 

[twan83]

My girl went to D.C with her friend and her family for a family reunion
I hit her up yesterday morning to see did she make it and she replied back so anyway i decided to not hit her up for the whole day cuz i realize i always initiate contact and lo and behold she never called me..not even a text eventually i hit her up late last night but she didn't reply and this morning she replied saying she was sleeping. Am i tripping for being annoyed with her like why do i always have to start the convo
I was thinking about checking her but am I reaching

Ur in a relationship should always be some communication every day especially if she ain't in town.
Now as far as u texting first all the time. You put yourself in that position so what u should of done is had serious convo bout how u would appreciate if she did the same for u. Just cuz u did it differently this time dont mean she gonna respond all different. She is use too it breh it has became a habit.

I'll also back track and say this u didnt txt or call a whole day just to prove a point and it backfired in a sense too cuz she didnt reply.
I dont choose sides but she could of easily been like y didnt he call or txt me like usually so she said fukk em I'll respond when I'm ready too and she did.
Gotta have that talk cuz obviously it's been bothering u for awhile u start all the convos which idk y u do
For mines she does majority time but I do start it at times too. Its always gonna be someone who does more than the other in a relationship.

 

[Malik1time]

Ur in a relationship should always be some communication every day especially if she ain't in town.
Now as far as u texting first all the time. You put yourself in that position so what u should of done is had serious convo bout how u would appreciate if she did the same for u. Just cuz u did it differently this time dont mean she gonna respond all different. She is use too it breh it has became a habit.

I'll also back track and say this u didnt txt or call a whole day just to prove a point and it backfired in a sense too cuz she didnt reply.
I dont choose sides but she could of easily been like y didnt he call or txt me like usually so she said fukk em I'll respond when I'm ready too and she did.
Gotta have that talk cuz obviously it's been bothering u for awhile u start all the convos which idk y u do
For mines she does majority time but I do start it at times too. Its always gonna be someone who does more than the other in a relationship.

I get what you're sating and yeah its partial my fault but the fact is shes traveling and didnt even shoot me text mid day telling me she's fine type shyt
Im not needy at all but it irks me that if i did the same shyt to her she would of blow up

 

[Lord-Yosh]

I get what you're sating and yeah its partial my fault but the fact is shes traveling and didnt even shoot me text mid day telling me she's fine type shyt
Im not needy at all but it irks me that if i did the same shyt to her she would of blow up

You right and got a point and so do he. Have the convo with her but deff point that shyt out so it don't happen again.

 

[ApolloStark]

it depends

you gotta have a cnversation at some point between the plans being made and been carried out

its tuesday and you set a date on saturday ...better holla at her on thursday or friday just to shoot the shyt , see how her week is going etc. not a lot, cause u want something to talk about during the date but you gotta check in . other wise these girls will "forget"

No, you don't. That's what most dudes would do, you take my route and she's thinking "he's a busy guy, he's got other sh1t on" and to a b1tch that fukks with their mindset. Not saying this sh1t for the sake of it this is tried and tested

If you wanted to go conservative, instead of that tx on the DAY, just send it the night before. But everything else remains the same

 

[ApolloStark]

Ur in a relationship should always be some communication every day especially if she ain't in town.
Now as far as u texting first all the time. You put yourself in that position so what u should of done is had serious convo bout how u would appreciate if she did the same for u. Just cuz u did it differently this time dont mean she gonna respond all different. She is use too it breh it has became a habit.

I'll also back track and say this u didnt txt or call a whole day just to prove a point and it backfired in a sense too cuz she didnt reply.
I dont choose sides but she could of easily been like y didnt he call or txt me like usually so she said fukk em I'll respond when I'm ready too and she did.
Gotta have that talk cuz obviously it's been bothering u for awhile u start all the convos which idk y u do
For mines she does majority time but I do start it at times too. Its always gonna be someone who does more than the other in a relationship.

Not trying to troll, but this is bad advice
Really bad advice, not sure why nikkas is dapping it too

Whatever you read in this post, do the opposite

 

[twan83]

I get what you're sating and yeah its partial my fault but the fact is shes traveling and didnt even shoot me text mid day telling me she's fine type shyt
Im not needy at all but it irks me that if i did the same shyt to her she would of blow up

Ya like @Lord-Yosh said she should of too that way u know she is doing ok but gotta have that talk with her breh

 

[twan83]

Not trying to troll, but this is bad advice
Really bad advice, not sure why nikkas is dapping it too

Whatever you read in this post, do the opposite

Your entitled to your opinion breh but being in a relationship u want some form of communication period. You think playing the same game as a single breh talking on occassion is good that's you.
You chose her and she chose you so act like it. Nobody saying blowing up their phone either just some form of communication. If u go with I'll talk to her when I feel like then she go step out u got no one to blame but yourself cuz u dont even talk to your own girl. While it's TRUE she can still do it if u do communicate dont be the cause or reason to do it either living with that regret.

 

[Lord-Yosh]

Your entitled to your opinion breh but being in a relationship u want some form of communication period. You think playing the same game as a single breh talking on occassion is good that's you.
You chose her and she chose you so act like it. Nobody saying blowing up their phone either just some form of communication. If u go with I'll talk to her when I feel like then she go step out u got no one to blame but yourself cuz u dont even talk to your own girl. While it's TRUE she can still do it if u do communicate dont be the cause or reason to do it either living with that regret.

Dudes really don't understand the power communication has in a relationship

 

[twan83]

Dudes really don't understand the power communication has in a relationship

Ya it can make and break a relationship.
People are entitled to their own opinion I ain't gonna knock it but I'll disagree. That's their life not mines

 

[ApolloStark]

Your entitled to your opinion breh but being in a relationship u want some form of communication period. You think playing the same game as a single breh talking on occassion is good that's you.
You chose her and she chose you so act like it. Nobody saying blowing up their phone either just some form of communication. If u go with I'll talk to her when I feel like then she go step out u got no one to blame but yourself cuz u dont even talk to your own girl. While it's TRUE she can still do it if u do communicate dont be the cause or reason to do it either living with that regret.

Nah, wasn't referring to communicating every day that makes sense...

But that whole "have a talk with her to cry because you're always texting first" is straight p*ssy behaviour. Seriously. He'd come across as insecure and needy