Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Figure i drop this for all you virgin ass nikkas still on that 3 day phone rule

when ever you get a girl number son

never hesitate to hit her up

i usually hit her up that day

you cant expect to be the only nikka chasing that bytch lol

in 3 days she prolly

1. met another nikka
2. forgot ya fukkin name
3. lost interest

women get approached on the daily son
The problem with your approach isn't the approach its the attitude behind it. your vantage point is "I better get with her asap or I lose." its impossible to lose something you never had in the first place. if you lose the opportunity to have her then you still lost nothing because the opportunity isn't the same as actually having her.

the better attitude to have is so what if she met another nikka? so what if she forgot your name? so what if she lost interest? there's so many women out here that she has no real value as an individual. if she gets drop she can be replaced the same day. even if you do lose her it doesn't really matter.
 

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One thing about a woman you like is....the less you talk,the less she sees you the BETTER it is. When you become too common to her,she loses interest. Women love mystery,if you have a mysterious vibe you have a chance. Women love to ask themselves "Where is so and so" "Where has he been". In other words stop calling these girls EVERY DAY,stop having long coversations with them. When you think about it,there isnt much you can talk to a woman about and the quieter you are the more she falls for you.
 

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The problem with your approach isn't the approach its the attitude behind it. your vantage point is "I better get with her asap or I lose." its impossible to lose something you never had in the first place. if you lose the opportunity to have her then you still lost nothing because the opportunity isn't the same as actually having her.

the better attitude to have is so what if she met another nikka? so what if she forgot your name? so what if she lost interest? there's so many women out here that she has no real value as an individual. if she gets drop she can be replaced the same day. even if you do lose her it doesn't really matter.

nikka what you talkin bout son lol

lmaooooooooo

it doesnt matter if i lose her

but if i want her i show interest
 

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So much knowledge dropped in here but I'm here to give my two cents about women. A simple rule of thumb, if you will.

If you ain't fukking, you better be ducking.

Remember that, brehs.
 

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nikka what you talkin bout son lol

lmaooooooooo

it doesnt matter if i lose her

but if i want her i show interest
There's a couple ways of looking at it.

way one is you approach a woman because she caught your eye and you wanna see if she's worth talking to. you approach her looking to see if she's cooperating. you get the digits and call whenever you're free. maybe you exchange numbers and tell her to call you when she's free.

way two is you approach her and you show her you're interested in her. you get her number and you call her that same day cause you don't wanna lose your shot at her and have another nikka beat you to her.

way one you have power. way two she has all the power. in both approaches she still has to choose you too but the first way you're making her qualify herself as well in the second way you just hoping to get chose.
 
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Figure i drop this for all you virgin ass nikkas still on that 3 day phone rule

when ever you get a girl number son

never hesitate to hit her up

i usually hit her up that day

you cant expect to be the only nikka chasing that bytch lol

in 3 days she prolly

1. met another nikka
2. forgot ya fukkin name
3. lost interest

women get approached on the daily son

If it only takes a day for her to regret giving you her number, she wasn't worth hooking up with in the first place. Who the fukk would want to be with someone who forgot your name in 3 days? If she hit it off with you and was actually feeling you, the door will be open for a little bit. If not, you never had her attention in the first place.
 

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If it only takes a day for her to regret giving you her number, she wasn't worth hooking up with in the first place. Who the fukk would want to be with someone who forgot your name in 3 days? If she hit it off with you and was actually feeling you, the door will be open for a little bit. If not, you never had her attention in the first place.

nevermind man

yall some embrace debate ass nikkas lol
 

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I dont know if anybody covered the online dating thing. Brothas if you in an online relationship make sure you have Skyped or met the woman. The Mante Teo is enough said.IM not here to knock anyone in online relationships,but just be safe....feelings are being played with out there and at the end of the day nobody cares about a man's feelings!Sad but true
 

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I say call her whenever you doggone well feel like it and if she ignores you because you called too soon or too late, can her and move on to the next broad. Cats are giving broads too much control by making rules when to call. If you feel like calling day one, call day one. If you feel like calling day three, call day three. If she doesn't like it, kick her to the curb and keep it popping with the next woman who doesn't play these corny little games. A woman that really likes you will pick up the phone on day one just as she will on day 3... the only thing I will recommend against is waiting TOO long to where she doesn't even think you're interested anymore.

The whole notion behind the 3 day rule behind calling is not to appear thirsty, but as a man, you should be so occupied by your activities and higher priorities that that non-thirst comes natural to you. Real talk, screw all those little rules and games. If she is going to disqualify you on something as trivial as when you initially call, she's a woman not worth your time.
 

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:win: nikka i been winning since 1990

im not bout to debate nikkas about some petty shyt

nikkas always wanna debate lol

real nikkas dont got time for that
lol @ calling yourself a real nikka when people on here strive to be better MEN. LOL @ "nikkas always want to debate" but "real nikkas don't got time for that." Which "nikka" are you :troll:

This thread changed lives. Agree with the thread or move on. No need to ruin it for everyone.
 

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nevermind man

yall some embrace debate ass nikkas lol
No...we are actively sharing information based on what we have learned dealing with women.

The only thing you have contributed so far is that you acknowledge that women get approached every day. A 13 year old could have told me that.
 
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