You need to carefully consider whether you are passing up a decent woman to play the field. You might have that playing itch in your system, but as many men here will attest to, when you pass up the decent ones, you go on to regret it later because you will realize real quickly that all the hoes out there are not worth having a solid woman.
Now, from what you're saying is that she won't sleep with you unless she is wifey, but she isn't interested in a relationship with you and you aren't interested in one with her. You are pretty much trying to keep her as a back-up plan and she is doing the same to you, but from your words, it seems as if she isn't really feeling you 'like that. From what you said, it sounds like she's friend zoned you and put you into that 'you'd make excellent husband material' category... so she will play that miss sweet game with you of talking about i only sleep with men who wife me up game...She doesn't want a relationship with you right now, but wants you to wait on her? Yup, friend zone... aka the real term is failure zone.
Never 'wait up' on a woman to start feeling you. If you have too much emotions, then simply move on and let her know you're not feeling the friendship thing. Never waste precious time 'waiting' on a woman to start feeling you. There's too many other women out there who actually want to see what you're about.
ive wrote this before on here
the great white buffalo yep
"and you dont know what you got till its gone"
man i remember i was like 19 and deathly sick one day and this chick took the bus over an hour to come and make me tea and soup. The sweetest girl I ever met, religious was waiting for marriage like i was at the time, wasn't a knockout but was very naturally pretty, but i was a demonic individual back then brehs I knew she liked me alot, but I,wasn't schooled in the game and all i cared about was looks and having the prettiest girl on my arm so i dumped her but she still was ok with being friends that sweet ol heart, however i remember it was just like yesterday breh the girl i just started dating told me at the time it was her or my great white buffalo and i chose her, so i stopped talking to the sweetest girl i ever met
Years later I stalked her fb and shes married now working in south america as a missionary with her husband and kids, while i'm single, living at home posting on message boards
I even messaged her a few years back and she was ah still so nice and told me to keep in touch but i never did
there is something my pastor told me last month that has been sticking with me for a while
"there will always be someone more prettier, someone with more money, someone with better education, but there will not always be someone who loves you for who you are and will treat you right and be there for you in the thick of it"
ive messed with prettier girls, girls with more money, girls with their masters and doctorate, but ive never had a girl since then who loved me for who i was and treated me right even when i was sick in bed and always cared about me
