Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Malta]

My Best-Friend Saved me from Marriage « dannyfrom504

Eh, this dude was in love with her and considering marriage after 3 months

 

[Malta]

brehs if you can please go on vacation, i did it a week away only cost me 700 plus another 300 i took in spending money, seeing the world is the BEST THING you can do as a man it opens your eyes

I agree wholeheartedly, also, you can do it for even cheaper with resources like Airbnb or Hostel.com. You can literally spend a month in another country and depending on where it is you may not even crack $200 on room for the month.

I posted it in another thread, but this

Is $165.....for the month.

 

[winb83]

Man, real talk im thinking about hitting my ex up, I havent had any contact with her since last April, but with my current relationship on the rocks im thinking about hitting her up

What should I do coli peeps

Just a suggestion but before dealing with any woman ever again take some time off and learn how to be alone. your attitude reeks of "I have to have a woman in my life" and you never wanna come from that standpoint dealing with them.

When you become comfortable being single you won't want to do things like hit up an ex because you'll know that an ex isn't worth the trouble. Honestly its always better to go out and start fresh than try to dig up something out of the grave and relive it.

 

[MikelArteta]

as many of you know i went to cuba

i had teh time of my life seeing a different culture, a culture that hasn't been rocked with feminism. A culture where barely anyone has the internet, where most folks have no idea what twitter or instagram is.

Where the women are in shape, where all races are just cuban.

And it made me realize why im i here in canada?

every day in cuba i saw beautiful women who had to work to make ends meet, scrubbing floors, serving food, dancing, driving taxis, stuff entitled "beautiful" women in canada would never do

 

[MikelArteta]

You need to carefully consider whether you are passing up a decent woman to play the field. You might have that playing itch in your system, but as many men here will attest to, when you pass up the decent ones, you go on to regret it later because you will realize real quickly that all the hoes out there are not worth having a solid woman.

Now, from what you're saying is that she won't sleep with you unless she is wifey, but she isn't interested in a relationship with you and you aren't interested in one with her. You are pretty much trying to keep her as a back-up plan and she is doing the same to you, but from your words, it seems as if she isn't really feeling you 'like that. From what you said, it sounds like she's friend zoned you and put you into that 'you'd make excellent husband material' category... so she will play that miss sweet game with you of talking about i only sleep with men who wife me up game...She doesn't want a relationship with you right now, but wants you to wait on her? Yup, friend zone... aka the real term is failure zone.

Never 'wait up' on a woman to start feeling you. If you have too much emotions, then simply move on and let her know you're not feeling the friendship thing. Never waste precious time 'waiting' on a woman to start feeling you. There's too many other women out there who actually want to see what you're about.

ive wrote this before on here




the great white buffalo yep

"and you dont know what you got till its gone"

man i remember i was like 19 and deathly sick one day and this chick took the bus over an hour to come and make me tea and soup. The sweetest girl I ever met, religious was waiting for marriage like i was at the time, wasn't a knockout but was very naturally pretty, but i was a demonic individual back then brehs I knew she liked me alot, but I,wasn't schooled in the game and all i cared about was looks and having the prettiest girl on my arm so i dumped her but she still was ok with being friends that sweet ol heart, however i remember it was just like yesterday breh the girl i just started dating told me at the time it was her or my great white buffalo and i chose her, so i stopped talking to the sweetest girl i ever met

Years later I stalked her fb and shes married now working in south america as a missionary with her husband and kids, while i'm single, living at home posting on message boards

I even messaged her a few years back and she was ah still so nice and told me to keep in touch but i never did




there is something my pastor told me last month that has been sticking with me for a while

"there will always be someone more prettier, someone with more money, someone with better education, but there will not always be someone who loves you for who you are and will treat you right and be there for you in the thick of it"

ive messed with prettier girls, girls with more money, girls with their masters and doctorate, but ive never had a girl since then who loved me for who i was and treated me right even when i was sick in bed and always cared about me

 

[Ohene]

One thing about a woman you like is....the less you talk,the less she sees you the BETTER it is. When you become too common to her,she loses interest. Women love mystery,if you have a mysterious vibe you have a chance. Women love to ask themselves "Where is so and so" "Where has he been". In other words stop calling these girls EVERY DAY,stop having long coversations with them. When you think about it,there isnt much you can talk to a woman about and the quieter you are the more she falls for you.

said something like this way back props

 

[sixsixtwo]

I cheated on my sweetheart of a husband for 3 years with my violent, abusive ex. This is the one secret I am taking to my grave : confession

 

[MikelArteta]

I cheated on my sweetheart of a husband for 3 years with my violent, abusive ex. This is the one secret I am taking to my grave : confession

that happaned to me, dated a chick for 3 months and she cheated on me with her abusive ex, i only found out because of a keylogger, this was a guy who hit her so bad she ended up in the hospital and had to go to a women shelter, and threatened to kill her family

but i was "boring, predictable, didn't raise my fist":



jsut reading that should remind every man why especially you shouldn't wife single moms, they all got horrible "exes", guys who are losers who are deadbeats abusers etc. but guys who still tingle their spine.


be careful men women out there want the thugs, they want the bruises, to have low self esteem, to live a drama filled life so they can chat with thier girls about it, they get impregnanted by these losers then expect quality men to raise someone else mistakes.

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

that happaned to me, dated a chick for 3 months and she cheated on me with her abusive ex, i only found out because of a keylogger, this was a guy who hit her so bad she ended up in the hospital and had to go to a women shelter, and threatened to kill her family

but i was "boring, predictable, didn't raise my fist":



jsut reading that should remind every man why especially you shouldn't wife single moms, they all got horrible "exes", guys who are losers who are deadbeats abusers etc. but guys who still tingle their spine.


be careful men women out there want the thugs, they want the bruises, to have low self esteem, to live a drama filled life so they can chat with thier girls about it, they get impregnanted by these losers then expect quality men to raise someone else mistakes.

As a woman that has experienced abuse personally and ill treatment, It is not something anyone "wants", but it is something you are expected to experience. Most girls are taught men aint shyt from birth, so when these aint shyt nyggas grow up to be aint shyt men, females arent surprised when they get abused, mistreated, ect. And a lot of times, the women come from abusive or dysfunctional homes themselves so the bullshyt they are dealing with is only a reflection of what they know and have gotten used to.

This is a complex issue, but I will say this bruhs... be careful and be patient. There are still good women out there who want to have and develop healthy relationships. They just arn't the majority.

 

[Swing]

One girl I was dating a while back came from an abusive household, her ex beat the shyt outta her...

I didnt think of it at the time but one time she told me, she had touched my arm and I gave her a look like I was "gonna slap her"... and when she said that her eyes lit up like Id bought her a ring...

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

As a woman that has experienced abuse personally and ill treatment, It is not something anyone "wants", but it is something you are expected to experience. Most girls are taught men aint shyt from birth, so when these aint shyt nyggas grow up to be aint shyt men, females arent surprised when they get abused, mistreated, ect. And a lot of times, the women come from abusive or dysfunctional homes themselves so the bullshyt they are dealing with is only a reflection of what they know and have gotten used to.

This is a complex issue, but I will say this bruhs... be careful and be patient. There are still good women out there who want to have and develop healthy relationships. They just arn't the majority.

I appreciate, and commend your words Bonita. Your closing statement is essentially the crux of this thread. We recognize that there are still quality women out there but finding one requires more diligence. Regardless of what people outside of this thread think we don't hate women. If that were the case the past 500+ pages would be for naught. Some women lack your insight and refuse to acknowledge that these are real issues. They'd rather marginalize what we're saying and call us bitter or my favorite, misogynists.

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

I appreciate, and commend your words Bonita. Your closing statement is essentially the crux of this thread. We recognize that there are still quality women out there but finding one requires more diligence. Regardless of what people outside of this thread think we don't hate women. If that were the case the past 500+ pages would be for naught. Some women lack your insight and refuse to acknowledge that these are real issues. They'd rather marginalize what we're saying and call us bitter or my favorite, misogynists.

Your welcome love. I lurk in here from time to time so I know you guys don't hate us, but are more frustrated than anything else.

I have made many mistakes to get to the place I am now when it comes to insight. And also maturity helps put a lot of things in perspective. Some women just dont want to grow up and deal with the issues at hand. It's always easier for them to blame men for everything.

 

[CASHAPP]

Your welcome love. I lurk in here from time to time so I know you guys don't hate us, but are more frustrated than anything else.

I have made many mistakes to get to the place I am now when it comes to insight. And also maturity helps put a lot of things in perspective. Some women just dont want to grow up and deal with the issues at hand. It's always easier for them to blame men for everything.

I'm not trying to shyt on you Bonita in any way but didn't you have a post the other day ridiculing a guy eating you out and sucking at it as a joke?

 

[CASHAPP]

@kevm3 @Sharp @HisExcellenceReincar I found a Very wifeable female out there who may have alot of competion. Try to be civilized in your competing for her attention with your boys..



https://www.facebook.com/officialalyssapage?group_id=0#!/officialalyssapage?group_id=0

It got taken down on facebook

some girl getting fukked by her dog to become facebook famous [NSFL]

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

I'm not trying to shyt on you Bonita in any way but didn't you have a post the other day ridiculing a guy eating you out and sucking at it as a joke?

The other day? Naw

If I have a post it was probably about a month ago.