Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Liquid]

Be careful about women who are constantly martyring themselves. A bigger drop later on tonight.

 

[LezJepzin]

Just back to the fact that all the women in my area are hoes and the ones who aren't are either or scooped up already. Case and point,

I went to a birthday for a co-worker at a club downtown. They had a booth, free drinks, all that. See this latina chick from the j.o.b. I've had my eye on for a while. Face ok, but she has the body of Salma Hayek and is into black dudes. Gives me a big hug and tells me , "I'm saving a dance for you" I'm thinking, , but something just isn't right. She introduces me to her roommate then keeps telling her how I'm a "NICE GUY"

She later pulls this cac from our job who was there to the floor and breaks dude off near me. I'm thinking not much about it cause dude didn't know what the fukk to do with all that, looking lost as fukk.

I pull her over to grind on the dance floor for a bit, but she pulls me back and tries to dance with me like I'm her brother or something. Tame as fukk. She goes off somewhere for five minutes before I see her grinding some random nikka and then kissing him. I'm standing by her roommate like till I remember she's planning on marrying some c00n. I'm not trying to Just wanted to get my swerve on.

I try to pull her over to dance later on like "what's up" , but she does the ol' "pull away to a friend to block me shyt" . So I go back to the VIP booth and get her roommate to follow me on to the dance floor. She was a white girl with a Taylor Swift build, but had me going breaking me off for about 20 minutes till the one who blew me off as a tease notices and gets jealous pulling her away. Not before I give the roommate a hug and thanks.

I saw both of them again as I was leaving, giving the roommate another hug and thanks when 'ol girl then asks, "where's my hug" I'm like, "sorry" , then I dipped

I'll probably see that chick again at work this weekend. Just wanna know if I handled the tease well. Hate having the "Nice Guy" rep following me around cause everyother chick wanna test you for a fool.

 

[DaRealness]

As soon as I hear "nice guy", it's a wrap.

 

[MikelArteta]

So your issue is youre worried you wont pull another?

That kind of crippling mindset is a disease that probably wasted the last 5 years of your life. Throw her in the bushes and find another woman, theyre not hard to come by. Most of them dont even get approached in real life.

men sell themselves short, folks need to read from teh beg of this thread when i said

Dump a hot girl once in your life to build up a shield and coating, as well never sell yourself short

searches for what i wrote

don't ever think you wont "find someone that beautiful again" that's simp thoughts

on fb always keep your status single, don't be one of thse brehs who changes it to in a relationship with so and so

some folks have a 3 strike rule, i have a one strike rule, set rules and let it be known from the beginning and if they are broken cut ties and move on, if not you already lost her respect.

know the signs when you are about to be dumped, and if you are walk away head held high, don't be that simp texting her how you miss her etc., trust me females show that and laugh about it with their ladies.

dont add her friends to fb and dont let her add your friends or family members.

maybe im hardcore but i dont even take pics together with girls i deal with, i don't want my face plastered on her fb and the world is so small now due to social networking you may deal with a chick in the future and she'll be like oh my 2nd cousin was best friend with your ex etc. nah none of that.

you want to know why i say about dumping a hot chick once in your life? it builds your confidence and gives you immunity, if a chick steps out of line no matter how hot, i just think about my hot latina back when i was 19, i kicked that to the curb i can kick anyone.



never send dikk pics of yourself, women have asked me back when i was in the game and i would always say "come see for yourself

never let a chick know where exactly you work and what you do, unless she's one of those rare needle in a haystack.

 

[Pill Gates]

I need some advice . How do you guys feel about ur s/o goin to the club and grinding on other guys . serious question . i need guidance

 

[MikelArteta]

I need some advice . How do you guys feel about ur s/o goin to the club and grinding on other guys . serious question . i need guidance

they wouldnt be my so after that

if im dating a girl shes not going to the clubs

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Hey brehs...hope this doesnt come across as shallow but if a woman says her favorite show is a reality tv show program (insert whatever one),is it shallow to not deal with her? Hard to take a woman serious who watches Bad Girls club.

 

[Wild self]

they wouldnt be my so after that

if im dating a girl shes not going to the clubs

Co sign to that. Dating chicks that are all about attention whoring is just

 

[sixsixtwo]

 

[RickyGQ]

I need some advice . How do you guys feel about ur s/o goin to the club and grinding on other guys . serious question . i need guidance

im not down with it... my girl goes dancing MAYBE 3 times a year with her home girls and only dances with them...

 

[rapdonttweet]

I need some advice . How do you guys feel about ur s/o goin to the club and grinding on other guys . serious question . i need guidance

That's grounds to break up. Even just going to the club in the first place and not inviting the boyfriend is suspect.

 

[sixsixtwo]

The Emotional Costs of Hooking Up - The Chronicle Review - The Chronicle of Higher Education

 

[sixsixtwo]

 

[JohnStarksMiddleFinger]

Help a breh out.

Tonight I invited a much older Spanish chick to join me at bar/ lounge.

This is the first time I ever kicked it with a chick much older then me. Especially one that's had a lot experience dealing with nikkas.

First date was good convo (she was feeling me)

We on Date 2 tonight. how should I play this in my favor?

Edit:
-Im 22
-She's 27 pushing 28
-only been living the states for 6-7 years
-no kids ( go figure)

^^^^^^^
Update:

Still looking for advice. Last night she was really feeling ya boy.

We going out at again to tonight (her treat ), I'm starting to think she's looking companion to hit the the town on the weekends.

I'm loving the older women right now, the just too smart for ya boy

 

[<<TheStandard>>]

I need some advice . How do you guys feel about ur s/o goin to the club and grinding on other guys . serious question . i need guidance

I would let my girl go to clubs and dance....At the end of the day it's just dancing. You start setting those rules on your girl and she wants to cheat....I see it all the time. Be secure and let her have her fun.

Being in a relationship doesn't mean a girl can't have her fun and hit the club and dance.

As men we have our habits that girls don't like too. ie: going to strip clubs......Can you imagine if you girl told you, you couldn't go to the strip club for your homie's bachelor party because you're in a relationship? Or you just can't go one night with all your single friends........This is one of those things you have to concede. Sometimes you just have to trust that your significant other isn't cheating. If you catch wind she is, throw her in the bushes but these small issues like this, don't sweat it.