Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Brehs, I have a female friend who I’m not attracted to, but she’s in love with me. She keeps trying to hang out all the time, showering me with gifts even when I tell her not to(Took me to a few Falcons games this year too with great seats :ehh:) now she wants to take me to the Hawks game when The lakers come in town.

I don’t lead her on and she knows exactly where I stand as it relates to our friendship. I’m not trying to take it any further, nor am I trying to hit. But I low key feel bad letting her continue to do all these things when I know it’s never going to go anywhere. Maybe she thinks I’ll succomb to the gift giving and be her boyfriend or something, Idk, should I cut off the friendship? Or be like whatever, she already know what’s up :yeshrug:?
 

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Why do I try to reignite old shyt?! I was naive to think people have a set time to grow(fukked up on my end) but she’s still on her bullshyt. Still deflecting and not taking accountability for shyt. :snoop:


Bushes status. :francis:

Yep. I was tempted to message one of my ex chicks. To say happy xmas. But then came to my senses and said for what?
 

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Brehs, I have a female friend who I’m not attracted to, but she’s in love with me. She keeps trying to hang out all the time, showering me with gifts even when I tell her not to(Took me to a few Falcons games this year too with great seats :ehh:) now she wants to take me to the Hawks game when The lakers come in town.

I don’t lead her on and she knows exactly where I stand as it relates to our friendship. I’m not trying to take it any further, nor am I trying to hit. But I low key feel bad letting her continue to do all these things when I know it’s never going to go anywhere. Maybe she thinks I’ll succomb to the gift giving and be her boyfriend or something, Idk, should I cut off the friendship? Or be like whatever, she already know what’s up :yeshrug:?

Hit it once w lackluster effort

What could go wrong? Is she hideous?
 

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Brehs, any advice on getting your Glow back when a girl you were feeling dumps you out of the blue?

Feel like i've lost that drive for a min. Ya know when you have that appeal that other girls can sense and the vibe you give off... It's like it ain't there no more :mjcry:


Back then it seemed so easy, like i'd notice a plethora of girls open to me moving in but now it's like i can't find none or ones that are responsive.
 

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Brehs, any advice on getting your Glow back when a girl you were feeling dumps you out of the blue?

Feel like i've lost that drive for a min. Ya know when you have that appeal that other girls can sense and the vibe you give off... It's like it ain't there no more :mjcry:


Back then it seemed so easy, like i'd notice a plethora of girls open to me moving in but now it's like i can't find none or ones that are responsive.
Same here, breh. Same here. We gon be ayt :to:
 

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Brehs, any advice on getting your Glow back when a girl you were feeling dumps you out of the blue?

Feel like i've lost that drive for a min. Ya know when you have that appeal that other girls can sense and the vibe you give off... It's like it ain't there no more :mjcry:


Back then it seemed so easy, like i'd notice a plethora of girls open to me moving in but now it's like i can't find none or ones that are responsive.

Take a few weeks out breh. Chicks will sense your energy and avoid you. When my one dumped me back in Jan. I was cut up for a few weeks as she was at that time special to me. I put too much emotion and care into her and I was kinda pushing for a relationship and being a soppy lame and she pulled back.

Take three weeks out then jump back into the game.
 
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Posted in that Tinder thread but met a sexy thai chick last night who invited me out for a drink and to hangout at like 10.45pm. I love chicks that are forward about pursuing.

Got to her hotel downtown and we went for a drink and a small snack and chatted she works as an import export executive, she told me that she DL'ed Tinder before she arrived. Apparently some white simp she was chatting to offered to come pick her up from the airport and take her to dinner. She said there was no spark though and he was suggesting they go back to his house so she said she was tired and went to her hotel.

Learnt her ex was a black guy from london who cheated on her. So I already knew what time it was. Anyway she payed her half and we walked back to hers I said can I come up? And she agreed. We chat for 10 mins then start kissing and she was like do you want to stay the night? I was like yeah. then she goes but no sex, ok? I was like of course
:shaq:

She goes to get changed in the bathroom and comes back in shorts and this vest top gets into bed and we carry on talking. 1 hr later we fukking. This is my third thai chick and the p*ssy was again out of this world. something about Thai women pussies, that shyt grips for real. If you're not on your purpose with mental fortitude they'll have you bussing in 1 min. Her body was toned. Not a big ass, but a cute one, squats have helped firm that up, some of the best tittes I've seen this year.

Got lost in the moment and went raw, it was too good Brehs.
:wow:

She's back here in march and she says I should come out to Thailand as she has beachfront property I can stay at.
 

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I have a dilemma brehs, When I was in basic training I got a letter from a chick I smashed that said it might be a small possibility that the child she’s pregnant with might be mines

Again a slim possibility, but I try to keep in contact just in case.

Lately she’s been avoiding my messages or giving me short answers.

Usually I’ll delete the number with the quickness but with a kid in the picture it changes things.

Stuck between a rock and a hard place
 

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Brehs, I have a female friend who I’m not attracted to, but she’s in love with me. She keeps trying to hang out all the time, showering me with gifts even when I tell her not to(Took me to a few Falcons games this year too with great seats :ehh:) now she wants to take me to the Hawks game when The lakers come in town.

I don’t lead her on and she knows exactly where I stand as it relates to our friendship. I’m not trying to take it any further, nor am I trying to hit. But I low key feel bad letting her continue to do all these things when I know it’s never going to go anywhere. Maybe she thinks I’ll succomb to the gift giving and be her boyfriend or something, Idk, should I cut off the friendship? Or be like whatever, she already know what’s up :yeshrug:?

If she know what type of time you on, its nothing you can do..

Somewhat in a similar situation..

Reiterated to this joint I'm not looking to commit..

She been after me for years....

She got a lil tipsy and started kissing me..I have a strong feeling she leveraging the p*ssy, but I'm not folding...

I even showed her my phone with the different women:lolbron:

It's like if I dont fukk, she'll probably think I'm gay or somethin..if I do, I know the relationship push is gonna come afterwards..:francis:..
 

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Brehs, I have a female friend who I’m not attracted to, but she’s in love with me. She keeps trying to hang out all the time, showering me with gifts even when I tell her not to(Took me to a few Falcons games this year too with great seats :ehh:) now she wants to take me to the Hawks game when The lakers come in town.

I don’t lead her on and she knows exactly where I stand as it relates to our friendship. I’m not trying to take it any further, nor am I trying to hit. But I low key feel bad letting her continue to do all these things when I know it’s never going to go anywhere. Maybe she thinks I’ll succomb to the gift giving and be her boyfriend or something, Idk, should I cut off the friendship? Or be like whatever, she already know what’s up :yeshrug:?

This is actually the same thought process women go through when faced with an unattractive but generous simp. Throw that broad some half assed dikk to make sure the gifts and outings keep flowing. Fake an orgasm if you have to. That's the same game a woman would play when faced with that dilemma.

Brehs, any advice on getting your Glow back when a girl you were feeling dumps you out of the blue?

Feel like i've lost that drive for a min. Ya know when you have that appeal that other girls can sense and the vibe you give off... It's like it ain't there no more :mjcry:


Back then it seemed so easy, like i'd notice a plethora of girls open to me moving in but now it's like i can't find none or ones that are responsive.

You probably made the mistake of committing 100% to the last woman. You should have had a few brehettes that you were at least talking to on the side that you could hop on to at a time like this. Best bet for you now is to try to focus on elevating your grind somewhat. If that goes well it'll restore the "don't care" vibe that you're talking about
 

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so that girl who asked if i love her and is aid no I never did and she said never to talk to her again, sent me this long ass msg :dahell:

(BTW we were never in a relationship, all we literally did is have sex and then she asked to be official and I said no)

sent me

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And then I said
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and then she said

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and that was that
 
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