Agree. Expectations will always fukk you over. Looking back at this year I counted that I've messed with at least 50 women. Of those I'll say only 12 I still speak to as we had other stuff in common than just fukking. So we're helping each other with creative stuff, work etc.
I've learnt so much about women this year. The fast and fickle nature of modern dating. I know my value now. Women are chasing me. Asking me out to dinner. I stop messaging and they hit me up to see how I am.
I'm finally in a don't care mindset. I have an abundance of women now. And more will always be along each week. One drops off now. I don't care. She'll come round at some point. That's if I'm still interested. Any chick thinks I'll chase now. She'll be waiting for ever.
It’s literally like Netflix out here with these broads. Sometimes they will binge on you and when it’s over so fast you don’t see what’s happening. Sometimes they take it nice and slow but the end result usually the same.
There is zero reason to chase any women when there’s a gazillon of them out there.
Unless you’re the cream of the crop an employer will rarely chase a potential employee and most these chicks just average
And that mindset is a winner if she’s here cool if she’s not well someone else will be or I’ll be just fine.
80 percent of these chicks i talk to wouldn’t have pissed on me 10 years ago.
But now that I’m a black man with no kids and a good income the tables have turned