Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Agree. Expectations will always fukk you over. Looking back at this year I counted that I've messed with at least 50 women. Of those I'll say only 12 I still speak to as we had other stuff in common than just fukking. So we're helping each other with creative stuff, work etc.

I've learnt so much about women this year. The fast and fickle nature of modern dating. I know my value now. Women are chasing me. Asking me out to dinner. I stop messaging and they hit me up to see how I am.

I'm finally in a don't care mindset. I have an abundance of women now. And more will always be along each week. One drops off now. I don't care. She'll come round at some point. That's if I'm still interested. Any chick thinks I'll chase now. She'll be waiting for ever.

It’s literally like Netflix out here with these broads. Sometimes they will binge on you and when it’s over so fast you don’t see what’s happening. Sometimes they take it nice and slow but the end result usually the same.

There is zero reason to chase any women when there’s a gazillon of them out there.

Unless you’re the cream of the crop an employer will rarely chase a potential employee and most these chicks just average

And that mindset is a winner if she’s here cool if she’s not well someone else will be or I’ll be just fine.


80 percent of these chicks i talk to wouldn’t have pissed on me 10 years ago.

But now that I’m a black man with no kids and a good income the tables have turned
 

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This chick I know gonna try and rant to me about her exes and I just told her straight up I don't do the whole canoodling Dr Phil bullshyt.

FOH. You ain't gonna "nice guy" me. Try that shyt with that hustling, mangina simp Derrick Jaxn whatever his name is. :camby:
 

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This chick I know gonna try and rant to me about her exes and I just told her straight up I don't do the whole canoodling Dr Phil bullshyt.

FOH. You ain't gonna "nice guy" me. Try that shyt with that hustling, mangina simp Derrick Jaxn whatever his name is. :camby:
:salute:More brehs should be doing this
 

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Online dating sucks sometimes.

This cute cute chick, for the past week,we texted, had phone calls, video call, texted some more, I asked to meet for a first date, she don't respond:francis:
thats doing too much breh. it shouldve been one quick phone call or just a few texts to schedule the date and thats it

keep that phone shyt scarce. only use it to set up the date
 

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:salute:More brehs should be doing this

Yeah. Because:

1)It's not your problem
2)They go back to the same type of guys they complain about because they love the drama which they won't admit.
3)When they do that shyt it's a test to see how beta you are and actually a subtle form of disrespect.

After the 10th dude, you still ain't learned your lesson? :childplease:

Take that shyt elsewhere. I honestly don't give a fukk about female's problems ever since my eyes have been opened and seen firsthand how much of a waste they really are. Most dudes if we're being honest grew up being the victim of one big scam because our fathers weren't around to put us on game and the women around us and society as a whole fed us some bullshyt that simply wasn't true.
 

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but check it....

this is how frivolous and flakey these hoes are. when a chick tells you "lets text more or facetime more before we meet. im not comfortable meeting a total stranger." you think, ok that makes sense, you do just that, and she still ghosts on you.

on the flipside, you stick to ya guns and you keep the phone shyt minimal...and she still ghosts on you. :pachaha:

you can do everything right, straight textbook and things still wont go your way. dont worry about it...just know these broads are born flakey. sooner brehs understand that, youre good.

they literally have no rhyme or reason, and simply do whatever feels good in the moment. (which is good if you really know what youre doing) but even the lowest of mammals dont operate like this lol.

if you just remember two things in 2019 and beyond, youre 90% of the way there:

girls are flakey

and

you are the prize
 

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Is there a man on this planet who opened up to a woman about his fears and insecurities and not end up getting bushed for "different reasons" shortly afterwards :francis:
 

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Yeah. Because:

1)It's not your problem
2)They go back to the same type of guys they complain about because they love the drama which they won't admit.
3)When they do that shyt it's a test to see how beta you are and actually a subtle form of disrespect.

After the 10th dude, you still ain't learned your lesson? :childplease:

Take that shyt elsewhere. I honestly don't give a fukk about female's problems ever since my eyes have been opened and seen firsthand how much of a waste they really are. Most dudes if we're being honest grew up being the victim of one big scam because our fathers weren't around to put us on game and the women around us and society as a whole fed us some bullshyt that simply wasn't true.

You can sneak your way into the p*ssy if you play it right..

It's an advanced form of shyt testing that requires a more long term approach...

These bytches want comfort on their terms and will justify giving up the p*ssy for it...

You just gotta have other shyt going for yourself and make them subtly aware of it..

They only care about the experience you provide for her when you and her are together...

Women create all kind of categories with all kind of benefits when they want convo and dikk:mjlol:..

I have heard this shyt 1st hand...

These bytches will find different nikkas to fill different needs...
 
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Keeping her interested consistently is key.

Having hobbies are key.

nikka, balancing your life period is key to holding on to a woman.

Basically, if you’re not handling your $ flow, working out, traveling, or doing some miscellaneous hobby, you’re playing yourself. Be there for a woman, but don’t be there all 24/7 for her. She should be more anxious to see u than you are, mane :mjgrin:
 
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