Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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The past few weeks I've been talking to this Nigerian broad that's new at our workplace(im actually her supervisor). She's very down to earth, slim thick(used to run track), and cute as hell. We seem to vibe with each other very well and constantly communicate with each other outside of work.

We've actually knew each other since college but we weren't close back then compared to recently.

Whenever we go on lunch break she's always asking me very personal questions about my background and lowkey making flirts at me. She once said she barely recognized me from college when she saw that I put on some muscle mass and cleared up my acne the past 2 years since I've seen her.

She today asked if we could chill together alone at Botanical Gardens this weekend. I'm pretty mixed on this because I used to have interest in her during school but I chickened out back then since I was a shy skinny dude and she was very outspoken and assertive. I'm a long way from the person I was back then but my skills at courting a female are rusty.

You her supervisor:merchant:
 

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The past few weeks I've been talking to this Nigerian broad that's new at our workplace(im actually her supervisor). She's very down to earth, slim thick(used to run track), and cute as hell. We seem to vibe with each other very well and constantly communicate with each other outside of work. She's clearly made it obvious she's been feeling me.

She sounds hot, but if you're her supervisor, I can see the multitude of ways this shyt can unfortunately go south.

Personally I'd keep it work casual and leave it at that.
 

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Some women really are crazy

this chick wrote me like 300 words sent a text and then a whats app message calling me a demon and how i'll never be happy. And that she got cleansed at church today out of the "hold" i had on her life :dahell:

get this and its all because she wanted to be in a relationship and I told her nah lets just be friends

First chick I blocked in a long while, haven't even seen this chick since december 2017
 

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As you get older, the looks thing kind of takes a back seat to having a woman's company that you really enjoy... and that's really difficult to do here in the west. I remember reading your story on dealing with women out in Africa when you went out there and really being in demand. These women in the west have most of our minds skewed. When you deal with women in a culture not full of thirsty simps, you really get a taste of what made women so intoxicating in the past. Feminism and thirsty simps have made modern women so toxic that men here are almost avoiding them.

The looks always get us. We visual creatures of habit. A fine woman in our minds equals to good p*ssy, good mother, freak and all that but it’s really not true. If I had a penny for every fine girl that had critical faults I’d be rich. I mean can’t make a basic meal, can’t fukk, won’t suck a dikk, don’t know basic hygiene (automatic release) and no common sense. Yet still we chase and gravitate to these skanks who think looks will get the bag. Nah dogg. fukk that
 

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lot of turnover in my 2018 roster due free agency/expiring contracts. just signed two free agents in the past two weeks though...got a lot more cap room, too :mjgrin:



but side note on a 3rd I'm working on: man, the stereotype of light skin girls not texting back promptly is so true

but when i stop texting her, then she blows up my phone :mjlol:

i usually have the upper hand in terms of the tempo and having the girl more interested in me...but it's funny how some women will try to dangle a carrot in front you just to keep playing games. as :noah::noah::noah: as she is (shawty a legit 8.5-9), I'm going to be disciplined and just ghost her, lest I keep playing this cat/mouse game with her
 

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Some women really are crazy

this chick wrote me like 300 words sent a text and then a whats app message calling me a demon and how i'll never be happy. And that she got cleansed at church today out of the "hold" i had on her life :dahell:

get this and its all because she wanted to be in a relationship and I told her nah lets just be friends

First chick I blocked in a long while, haven't even seen this chick since december 2017

:picard:
 

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That is also another reason I'm mixed on her offer. I just recently got this position and I'm afraid going further than this will jeopardize it.
Nothing you can do. Either you get someone else to be her supervisor or stay professional
 
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