there it is right there.
the fact that you even get to a third date says that the girls like you enough...which means with a few tweaks, you could hit on the first date consistently.
sounds like you got your mouthpiece together so all you need to do is turn the flirting on TEN. most flake because they are wondering why you arent making that move. and they move onto the next nikka who will.
you gotta turn on that sex appeal. shyt needs to be dripping off you.
breh...flirt with the broads. tease them. touch them. tell them how good they look. talk about lighthearted topics that can lead towards sex. maintain that eye contact.
i damn near look at these broads like this...

lol
you need to turn up the sex appeal to the point where she says "if im alone with this nikka, theres no doubt hes fukkin me"