Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[DaRealness]

Brehs, I like this one chick and friend of mine says that we really get on really well. Problem is that she's got a boyfriend, and they are doing long distance. He travels from a different country to meet her here once in a while. Not going to lie brehs, I've caught feels for her. I'm angry af and sad that she's got a boyfriend. I swear all the cute and chill bytches are taken, because this is becoming a regular occurance. she's dope af and am annoyed I can't have her. I'm getting tired of this shyt. How you brehs deal with something like this because I really want her to be my girl?

Dude, she's no more special than anyone else. Guaranteed if you got with her tomorrow and spent some time with her closely you'd realise this. We always build up the things we can't have in our minds until we finally get them and then we get disappointed. For all you know, the box could be trash or she could be some kind of lunatic that would switch up on you once she has you. Not saying that's the case, but the grass isn't always greener.

 

[DaRealness]

You should take it as a personal insult. She’s saying you can’t get p*ssy elsewhere like that. Women are intensely competitive with fellow women, and if she believed that you’d get yours elsewhere she’d act accordingly

Exactly. When women know that you're in demand the game changes, I don't care what they say. Why do you think they fukk around with dudes who they know have several babymamas but get pregnant for him anyway? That video I posted already expressed how women are very competitive with other women.

I've mentioned it here before, but if you got WhatsApp on your phone, just as a test put a profile picture up of you with any broad - whether it be a friend or even a relative of similar age - and watch all the chicks whose numbers you have start coming out of the woodworks with "hey! she's nice is that your girlfriend?" - even if they haven't hit you up for months. I've been in places where a chick has ignored me until another broad I know came to the party and started hugging me up and talking to me (this happened just last night) now all of sudden the bytch finds her tongue and wants to have convo.

It never fails, trust me.

 

[Soundbwoy]

Ever been with a chick that's doing too much to please you I don't want to sound ungrateful but I was out with some friends on Friday and one of my friends said she was dating a guy that was starting to get on her nerve because he was doing too much to please her and it made me think about the current chick I'm seeing she really goes out of her way to please me. Like tonight she offered to cook for me she asked what I wanted, I told her to surprise me and she seems really anxious about it

 

[DaRealness]

Ever been with a chick that's doing too much to please you I don't want to sound ungrateful but I was out with some friends on Friday and one of my friends said she was dating a guy that was starting to get on her nerve because he was doing too much to please her and it made me think about the current chick I'm seeing she really goes out of her way to please me. Like tonight she offered to cook for me she asked what I wanted, I told her to surprise me and she seems really anxious about it

It's common that some people do too much too soon.

I'm sure she has good intentions, but just tell her while you appreciate the efforts it's OK to pump the brakes a lil bit.

 

[Balla]

Exactly. When women know that you're in demand the game changes, I don't care what they say. Why do you think they fukk around with dudes who they know have several babymamas but get pregnant for him anyway? That video I posted already expressed how women are very competitive with other women.

I've mentioned it here before, but if you got WhatsApp on your phone, just as a test put a profile picture up of you with any broad - whether it be a friend or even a relative of similar age - and watch all the chicks whose numbers you have start coming out of the woodworks with "hey! she's nice is that your girlfriend?" - even if they haven't hit you up for months. I've been in places where a chick has ignored me until another broad I know came to the party and started hugging me up and talking to me (this happened just last night) now all of sudden the bytch finds her tongue and wants to have convo.

It never fails, trust me.

What video?

And what’s the big deal of what’s app? I never used it, but people always talk about it? Isn’t it just another texting app?

 

[Balla]

I met this bbw like a week ago we clicked and all
First night took her to my place but she ddnt want to fukk
We talk everyday on the phone (text + videocall)
2nd time we chill somewher but she ddnt want to go 2 my place
She sayin im scare im gonna you the p*ssy
If i do that you will run away from me

We both like each other and i want to fukk
So what shuld i do ??

@Professor Griff @The Odum of Ala Igbo @Soundbwoy @JOHN.KOOL @DaRealness @Babymama Magnet @Silkk
@FireDwaneCasey @Balla

I would only go out with her if she comes over your place or hers.

There’s this thing if you don’t hit and you have a chance to, she won’t see you again.

She still seeing you so you’ve got a chance, try getting her to come through and make sure to calm her nerves.

 

[Balla]

Brehs, I like this one chick and friend of mine says that we really get on really well. Problem is that she's got a boyfriend, and they are doing long distance. He travels from a different country to meet her here once in a while. Not going to lie brehs, I've caught feels for her. I'm angry af and sad that she's got a boyfriend. I swear all the cute and chill bytches are taken, because this is becoming a regular occurance. she's dope af and am annoyed I can't have her. I'm getting tired of this shyt. How you brehs deal with something like this because I really want her to be my girl?

Damn you got it bad bruh lol, you said girlfriend not even fukk her.

First, why do you want to make her your girl ? What makes her so special?

Why don’t you just wanna hit?

She got a man and you got feelings? I’m not understanding, what is she telling you to make you fall for her?

What are y’all talking about? You told her you like her?

Need more details mane.

Lastly, to get rid of the feelings you have to get at other women, you have to my nikka.

 

[Silkk]

Ever been with a chick that's doing too much to please you I don't want to sound ungrateful but I was out with some friends on Friday and one of my friends said she was dating a guy that was starting to get on her nerve because he was doing too much to please her and it made me think about the current chick I'm seeing she really goes out of her way to please me. Like tonight she offered to cook for me she asked what I wanted, I told her to surprise me and she seems really anxious about it

Enjoy it while it lasts.

She also could be one of those desperate clinger chicks or she could see you as that much higher value than her.

 

[Silkk]

Damn you got it bad bruh lol, you said girlfriend not even fukk her.

First, why do you want to make her your girl ? What makes her so special?

Why don’t you just wanna hit?

She got a man and you got feelings? I’m not understanding, what is she telling you to make you fall for her?

What are y’all talking about? You told her you like her?

Need more details mane.

Lastly, to get rid of the feelings you have to get at other women, you have to my nikka.

Definitely in a scarcity mindset.

 

[Balla]

Definitely in a scarcity mindset.

“Abundance mindset!! fukk that bytch!!”

 

[DaRealness]

What video?

And what’s the big deal of what’s app? I never used it, but people always talk about it? Isn’t it just another texting app?

This one

It's a messaging app but it's good for calling and messaging abroad and while you're abroad and to set up general chat groups with anybody.

 

[Balla]

This one

It's a messaging app but it's good for calling and messaging abroad and while you're abroad and to set up general chat groups with anybody.

I think I saw that one.

 

[Lhark]

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[Rell Lauren]

Downloaded Tinder again for the first time in a long time. Just bullshytting for the most part. Thing that sticks out the most are how there aren't many Blacks and Latinas on the app in NYC of all places. Probably going to axe my account tomorrow.

 

[DaRealness]

We haven't spoken on other stuff in this thread for a while, so I'm going to highlight something: Look after your health.

I was just watching the interview with Officer Vlad and BG Knockout when they were discussing the death of John Singleton and how he died so young at 51. Vlad mentioned an example he heard that if you were given a really nice car but it was the only one you could ever own for the rest of your life, then you'd be taking super care of it everyday. Likewise, your physical body is way more valuable.

Black men especially need to take care of themselves. I had a thorough private healthcheck that I paid for the other week and received the results by email on Friday. My health overall is good, but my metabolism could do with some work. I'm gonna intensify my workout regime and improve on what I'm already doing and start doing more walking and start juicing more fruits and raw vegetables.

Sickness is a reality, but a lot of deaths are preventable. I've seen brothas have health issues they shouldn't be suffering from when they haven't even reached 40 yet. EVERYBODY has the time to do some exercise unless they're bedridden 24/7. It's also good for your mental health which is another thing that many black men tend to neglect.

Spend the money on herbal, organic supplements and/or anything else you need for your health. If you can afford that 65 inch OLED flat screen TV you got the money to look after yourself.

EDIT: I'm still waiting for this, but I ordered this Ultra Push system thing for upper body workouts:

The Ultra Push (9-in-1 System)

Ideal addition to your regular gym workouts when you're at home listening to music.