Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Torrez]

Do you like how you feel right now? Do you want to keep dealing with this?

I really don’t see the point in having breaks. What is that supposed to do?

If you have any type of break, I’d say a week or 2 the most. Not months.

What are you gonna be doing for these months? What is she doing?

Don’t know if I missed it, but why is she acting distant?

IMO if a girl wants to leave, let her leave. Why be with someone who doesn’t want you?

The only time I could say to persist is if you didn’t fukk a girl yet because you don’t have that emotional attachment.

But you already had her, now she’s acting distant talking about taking breaks.

I honestly would just keep it movin, if you want to keep her around you can call her and talk, but I focus on other things.

I need a chick to be with me 100%!!

In terms of how I feel, half the time when I think about her I am just pissed and have negative feelings because I can't believe that she may be sabotaging our relationship.

She is acting distant, she says, because she just has so many things going on in her life from work to personal things, also she had some issues with me too. Problem is she won't share the personal stuff going on with her, with me. She said she prefers to deal with them herself.

I kind of understand how the distancing can happen. I mean she works two jobs, one during the day and one at night, so from Monday - Thursday, she has no time, she gets home at 9 at night. Her only time is Friday evening, Saturday afternoon, and Sundays, it's just that thus far more often than not it seems she prioritizes hanging with her brother, or a friend from work than with me, and as a result we don't go out for long periods of time.

Because of the distance I asked her point blank if she wants a relationship, if she wants to be with me, if she has lost interest, if she found someone else, I told her if she wants to end it don't bother to string me along because that will just annoy me more, etc... and she said she does still want to be with me, and wants a relationship with me. But right now she feels with everything going on she can't give me the time, so I offered the break as an option, I made a concession even though she has been the one acting funny. At the time I felt she was sincere. But it has been about month since that convo and I am just thinking why did I allow this. The break option only came up because I started asking questions and then offered it as an option.

She is going on vacation this month I was thinking of giving her a deadline as an ultimatum soon after she comes back.

 

[Balla]

In terms of how I feel, half the time when I think about her I am just pissed and have negative feelings because I can't believe that she may be sabotaging our relationship.

She is acting distant, she says, because she just has so many things going on in her life from work to personal things, also she had some issues with me too. Problem is she won't share the personal stuff going on with her, with me, she said she prefers to deal with them herself.

Because of the distance I asked her point blank if she wants a relationship, if she wants to be with me, if she has lost interest, if she found someone else, I told her if she wants to end it don't bother to string me along because that will just annoy me more, etc... and she said she does still want to be with me, and wants a relationship with me. But right now she feels with everything going on she can't give me the time, so I offered the break as an option, I made a concession even though she has been the one acting funny. At the time I felt she was sincere. But it has been about month since that convo and I am just thinking why did I allow this. The break option only came up because I started asking questions and then offered it as an option.

She is going on vacation this month I was thinking of giving her a deadline as an ultimatum soon after she comes back.

I’m sorry bro, but this doesn’t sound like she wants to stay, and it’s been a whole month already?

What have y’all been doing? A month is more than enough time for a break.

I could never imagine myself having to deal with this in a relationship, if a chick is doing all of this to me, she can leave.

Men get into relationships to not deal with shyt like this.

At this point bro, I’ll tell you to do what you feel is right, but know that this might be over.

Don’t have any regrets, so do what you think will work.

But this sounds like it’s over, why are you waiting so long? Why wait until after vacation? Who the fukk knows what she’s doing on vacation?

I know it can be hard, I was really feeling a chick I didn’t even meet and still mad I didn’t get to smash.

Emotions really fukks up our heads.

I want you to do what makes you feel happy. If you want to wait then ask her what she wants do, but you have to realize what is going on and how all of this sounds.

Try reading what you wrote here, and take yourself out of it, imagine your friend was telling you what you wrote on here in your last two messages and tell me what you would tell him.

 

[Torrez]

I’m sorry bro, but this doesn’t sound like she wants to stay, and it’s been a whole month already?

What have y’all been doing? A month is more than enough time for a break.

I could never imagine myself having to deal with this in a relationship, if a chick is doing all of this to me, she can leave.

Men get into relationships to not deal with shyt like this.

At this point bro, I’ll tell you to do what you feel is right, but know that this might be over.

Don’t have any regrets, so do what you think will work.

But this sounds like it’s over, why are you waiting so long? Why wait until after vacation? Who the fukk knows what she’s doing on vacation?

I know it can be hard, I was really feeling a chick I didn’t even meet and still mad I didn’t get to smash.

Emotions really fukks up our heads.

I want you to do what makes you feel happy. If you want to wait then ask her what she wants do, but you have to realize what is going on and how all of this sounds.

Try reading what you wrote here, and take yourself out of it, imagine your friend was telling you what you wrote on here in your last two messages and tell me what you would tell him.

Yeah, I know how it sounds, that's why I asked her directly multiple times what she wants, but she said she does want to stay with me.

It will be a month from that convo next tuesday. I have mostly been ignoring her at work other than sharing hellos and goodbyes.

I was going to wait until after the vacation, so I could say that I truly gave her ample time to figure shyt out.

She is going on vacation to see the vatican (as I said she is religious).

But yeah you are probably right, thanks man.

 

[Balla]

Yeah, I know how it sounds, that's why I asked her directly multiple times what she wants, but she said she does want to stay with me.

It will be a month from that convo next tuesday. I have mostly been ignoring her at work other than sharing hellos and goodbyes.

I was going to wait until after the vacation, so I could say that I truly gave her ample time to figure shyt out.

She is going on vacation to see the vatican (as I said she is religious).

But yeah you are probably right, thanks man.

No prob, but do what you think is right, that way you felt you did the right thing in your own way.

 

[OSUBaneBrowns]

Yeah, I know how it sounds, that's why I asked her directly multiple times what she wants, but she said she does want to stay with me.

It will be a month from that convo next tuesday. I have mostly been ignoring her at work other than sharing hellos and goodbyes.

I was going to wait until after the vacation, so I could say that I truly gave her ample time to figure shyt out.

She is going on vacation to see the vatican (as I said she is religious).

But yeah you are probably right, thanks man.

Actions speak louder than words. Walk away and if she really wants you, she is going to make a effort to find and keep you around.

 

[VertigoKnight]

Got talking to this chick yesterday at a volunteer radio job I do occasionally.

Her BF is from Jersey which is an island between the UK and France anyway she told me that then said, I'm going to be dumping him soon.

She said it so matter of factly it caught me off guard. My man must be thinking everything is sweet and she's already done with him.

 

[Max.]

I sent a female 3 texts in a week n she told me i was too needy after i called her out for being on okc (she told me she was down for fwb) same chick that was super high n i didnt smash

She said that she accepted that her dad raped her n thats why shes actn like this


Wtf lol weirdo bytch

 

[Nuke Dukem]

Does anyone in here follow AMS ?

As far as dating coaches I feel like he’s the most entertaining, and I feel like he puts in the most work with uploading videos ...

Anyone else watch his vids @ me... I wanna chop up some of his theories

 

[Him]

Get drunk af at a party and text another chick tryna flirt while your girl is next to you brehs

 

[Sad Bunny]

 

[Balla]

Does anyone in here follow AMS ?

As far as dating coaches I feel like he’s the most entertaining, and I feel like he puts in the most work with uploading videos ...

Anyone else watch his vids @ me... I wanna chop up some of his theories

We all do for the most part, but holla @ me my nikka.

 

[Balla]

Does anyone in here follow AMS ?

As far as dating coaches I feel like he’s the most entertaining, and I feel like he puts in the most work with uploading videos ...

Anyone else watch his vids @ me... I wanna chop up some of his theories

We all do for the most part, but holla @ me my nikka.

 

[Nuke Dukem]

We all do for the most part, but holla @ me my nikka.

How do you balance out his advice?

What I mean is you have


Corey Wayne<———————— >AMS

Do you try to find a middle ground

Or like AMS said if you’re looking for that relationship shyt take ur ass over to Corey Wayne’s

 

[360dagod]

It's crazy how my adr3naline completely changes for the nightlife

If I only had it for the day shyt

 

[Balla]

How do you balance out his advice?

What I mean is you have


Corey Wayne<———————— >AMS

Do you try to find a middle ground

Or like AMS said if you’re looking for that relationship shyt take ur ass over to Corey Wayne’s

Lol I don’t watch Corey or even the Justin dude.

AMS is a funny entertaining nikka that has his own style.

Tariq was like that back in the day, but AMS is way more thorough about women than Tariq was because this dude made a video everyday about women for a fukkin year and he’s unfiltered as fukk.

It also helps that people can reach him and talk to him a lot more easy than it could have been back in the day. You could email him or leave a comment and he would answer it in a video almost all the time. He got burned out from that now, but he made a video everyday for a year.

I just balance his advice with what I don’t like from what I like.

I actually found him from here, and thought at first he would be some corny pua, but he really is a funny dude to watch and gives good advice for the most part.

He does help me think about not loving these hoes, which I have to be reminded of daily.

Some of the stuff I don’t agree with, but it’s very far few and between.

Dude actually just released a second book and has a clothing line now lol. The grind don’t stop.