Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

Interesting brehs.

Only in my first relationship was i say totally open, and totally myself.

As a person I'm mellow, laid back, always willing to lend a helping hand. As well I'm respectful, faithful, quiet, I'd rather listen than talk. As well I rarely get angry, avoid drama and confrontation. I'd rather be home chilling reading a book watching a movie than clubbing, drinking, going out. I loathe attention, and talking to like 20 different females at once. I quickly learned in my youth this was a recipe for disaster dealing with women I'd be manipulated ad used, viewed as boring, reliable not giving them that thrill.

So my alter ego ws born will continue........

Sent from royalty breh

So i became a Man who didn't care, showed no emotion, no care, I'd treat women like the gum under my shoes, and they'd come back offering that thrill that unpredictable, that mean ness. I ran through a gauntlet of chicks. Always a empty feeling. Then I changed, I'd rather be me and just live my life.

Sent from royalty breh

 

[CASHAPP]

If you guys were engaged or married to a woman and you got fed up with her constant disrespect, if you were part of the rare 20 to 30% of men who initiate the end of the engagement or marriage......how would you handle the situation with the ring?

Would you let her keep it or would you ask for it back? Either case would humble her and bring her back down to earth in some way, but which option would you choose?

Obviously this isn't anythimg I am going through personally, I'm just curious what are your feelings on the matter?

 

[kevm3]

Let her keep it. Just because you go through something with someone doesn't mean you sacrifice your principles. In fact, you standing on your principles is what makes your principles REAL to you. If you give someone a gift, it's theirs period. Don't be vindictive and try to take the ring back. Letting her have it says a lot about you as a man.

 

[CASHAPP]

Yeah I figured that would be the general consensus pretty much. Just wanted to get an idea if i ever end up in a situation like this one day. If I have a son one day I will make sure to teach him the same.

 

[George Gooney]

I can't co-sign that breh... I wouldn't let her keep the ring. The ring was our promise to one day be married but if things don't work out i'm taking it back...

 

[MikelArteta]

If you guys were engaged or married to a woman and you got fed up with her constant disrespect, if you were part of the rare 20 to 30% of men who initiate the end of the engagement or marriage......how would you handle the situation with the ring?

Would you let her keep it or would you ask for it back? Either case would humble her and bring her back down to earth in some way, but which option would you choose?

Obviously this isn't anythimg I am going through personally, I'm just curious what are your feelings on the matter?

I let my ex keep it

Sent from royalty breh

 

[Turbulent]

If you guys were engaged or married to a woman and you got fed up with her constant disrespect, if you were part of the rare 20 to 30% of men who initiate the end of the engagement or marriage......how would you handle the situation with the ring?

Would you let her keep it or would you ask for it back? Either case would humble her and bring her back down to earth in some way, but which option would you choose?

Obviously this isn't anythimg I am going through personally, I'm just curious what are your feelings on the matter?

what matters is not if you keep the ring or not but rather why you choose to keep it or not. As long as the thought behind your action is consistent with your code, you're good. The same action could have a different personal meaning from one individual to the next.

 

[CASHAPP]

I can't co-sign that breh... I wouldn't let her keep the ring. The ring was our promise to one day be married but if things don't work out i'm taking it back...

When you think about it, it actually makes sense.....in either case. If she is hesitant about getting the ring back or genuingly sorry(lol yeah right) for how she acted that led to you leaving her....then she knows she will look like a fool or be embarrassed when around her friends and family.

On the other hand if she is not remorseful in anyway and is pleased about getting her ring back and shoves it in your face, talking trash and everything........eventually she realizes she is looking pretty idiotic having a ring and not even being wifed by anyone at all.

 

[Scustin Trillberlake]

"Well most attractive women don’t start to really understand how the world works until they start losing their looks. Most of them are truly oblivious to the fact that their looks have opened probably 95% of the doors in their lives. I’m guessing the chick in the video was oblivious too when she was 22. This is why she is talking about it NOW and not THEN. If you told her this crap back then she probably would have called BS.

Now that she is past her “prime” she has realized her looks meant everything in her life. Once her looks deteriorate, she will be tossed out of the industry like yesterday’s donuts and be invisible to most men of dignity.

Once the bloom of youth starts to fade and stuff starts to sag.. its a real wake-up call for most women. For the first time in their lives everyone is not kissing their ass. For the first time in their lives they have to pay a speeding ticket. For the first time in their lives they actually have to be qualified or connected to get a job. For the first time in their lives, men are not drooling over them. For the first time in their lives they face the harsh reality that all men face from adulthood onward = Be useful or perish.

Entitled women who figure this out early get knocked up ASAP so they can mooch off the state as an insurance policy should they not find a willing man to serve them financially.

If you spend your life in delusion exploiting men and thinking you can live that way forever, its a harsh wake up call when you find yourself in your 40′s with no skills, no money, no kids and no men to take care of you. Scary stuff."

- Playherman, Rational Male Blog.

 

[Singh]

Props to all the dudes contributing in this thread, the last two months of reading shyt in here was knowledge & GOLD. I've been slowly rewiring myself over the last three months and it's Been feelin' real brand-new lately

I've come to the conclusion at 26 years of age that I've become over "westernized" (a little too much for my own good). Subsequently, I learned to engage in a lot of lame behaviors in terms of western dating such as playing games and tolerating bullshyt for the sake of having sex (irony being once I gain the career I desire, I'll more than likely go back home and marry a traditional girl). Somewhere in my past I forgot how to be a man and instead turned into a dude following a "script" to get p*ssy.

It's weird because my pops would say shyt slightly along the lines of the insight that kevm3 drops but less detailed however I used to ignore my dad's logic because I thought he was just some old motherfukker talkin about his heyday.

Anyway thanks again fam

 

[CASHAPP]

http://www.the-coli.com/locker-room/88761-some-*****-my-class-submitted-my-work-hers.html

^shyt like this makes my blood boil.

 

[sixsixtwo]

xoJane

 

[Singh]

http://www.the-coli.com/locker-room/88761-some-*****-my-class-submitted-my-work-hers.html

^shyt like this makes my blood boil.

I just graduated last Dec from SJ State and I still saw dudes simpin' out to help a broad with her assignments, exams, and reports.

Dudes need to learn to not to a pretty bish

Happened to me once when I was 18 & @ community college. only had myself to blame for lacking the dignity to say "I ain't going to let you snatch up my hard work and pass it off as your own".

Anyway hopefully the LADodgersFitted dude will learn from that and not let that shyt happen again.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

One thing yall need to stop doing is saying the term "She is out of my league". Thats like putting a woman on a pedestal or above you. NO WOMAN on this earth is better then you.It's like this.... Muhammad Ali wasnt the biggest,the fastest boxer of his day but he is the greatest.He didnt become the greatest thru skill only it it was mainly because of his CONFIDENCE you guys see what im say. You may not be the best looking,richest or have the best game but no woman is out of your league.You should have confidence that if Beyonce was single you could bag her. Also every woman is expendable....you shouldnt have to beg or plead with them. "Baby baby i cant live without you" etc...its time for us men to take back the power.

 

[CASHAPP]

I just graduated last Dec from SJ State and I still saw dudes simpin' out to help a broad with her assignments, exams, and reports.

Dudes need to learn to not to a pretty bish

Happened to me once when I was 18 & @ community college. only had myself to blame for lacking the dignity to say "I ain't going to let you snatch up my hard work and pass it off as your own".

Anyway hopefully the LADodgersFitted dude will learn from that and not let that shyt happen again.

Not sure if you saw my post on here ages ago explaining my own situation. But I definitely learned from it. Im 21 right now btw and this occured during the previous semester when i was 20.

its a shame you will tell a girl you will have the 2 chapters for the take home test and meet her a certain time at 4pm and u both agree(the open book test was easy cuz most was online and i got help from tutoring)....

u get some bullshyt about "thank u so much i really appreciate it". by the way the reason i was doing this was because previously although im the one who usually helped with lab work, one time when i asked her to send me certain calculations, i did not hear any response and thought i was being ignored...

which pissed me off because there were 1 or 2 times where she would ask for a certain thing about the work and if i did not respond in an hour or 2 she would say somethng demanding through text "helooooo"

so the next morning she is asking me when i see her if i got the work she sent me.and i think she is just playing games when she takes her phone to show me....and i just ignore her.

i then found out later in the week for some reason it got sent to my spam folder and i saw 2 emails in there(i had asked her to send it again cuz i never got anything).

anyway i apologized cuz it was my mistake and i helped her out with that final take home test(everyone pretty much copied from each other )

as i explained before after everyone handed in the take home test on the last day...we were then all given the final exam...

again ppl were copying off each other, and i helped her out......

now a common misconception on here was that i decided to shun her to the side becuz of the cheating....

basically i did not find out till later from an email from the professor when i asked him how i got an F, where he told me we had identical answers. when i asked her wat her final grade was for the class ...she told me a C minus and i told her i had gotten an F and she asked me how was that possible when i did the take home test, all the labs,etc.

i then told her idk and she messaged me something like "Smh well i can't believe i have to stay back one more semester cuz i need a C or better and the school i attend doesn't accept C minus"

I then forward the email the professor sent about ____and me cheating.....and she responded about how "WHy are you using my name to him. it was the OTHER people in the class who were cheating. Ask him about yourself not me!!!"

now obviously she thought i was throwing her under the bus or something when i forwarded the email, and i had to let her know____ i never used her name.....that was just the email the professor sent when i asked how i failed.

Her response.........










"K"








Then several days later i just say in a sarcastic way "your welcome too"


Days later when the new semester starts(january 28) she sends me an email asking "u have the textbook still"(the same textbook i had already given her the pdf version of last year already)

I then message her back "Dont contact me. Thanks" and so far so good

But man its good guys like me and you learned real real quick about these broads out there. just straight up demons. u ignore me but all of a sudden u want a favor im worth talking to?

gtfo. as i said already i ran into her about a week ago and she turned her head to the side and obviously knew she cant break me anymore