Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

SATAN

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You're trying way too hard to find something negative in something that only has positives.

I thought you guys were on some player shyt but instead you'd rather push your insecurities onto everyone else.

You're so narrow-minded that "getting ass" is all you care about :mjlol: I never even tried to, I simply asked her out on a date once when I first met her. For me, sex is not the end goal of dating a woman.

I don't even know what one-itis is, sounds like some incel shyt. If I Google the term leads me to The Red Pill sites. I'll pass...

I'm laying out a wealth of information, y'all can either dap fish and starve or start listening and eat
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I'm speaking facts based on experience, this shyt is like a cheat code. Other women don't have to know whether you're fukking some chick, as long as the chick is hanging out with you, other women will be curious about what makes you worth her time.

Just open up a bit and give some thought to it, brehs
 

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You're trying way too hard to find something negative in something that only has positives.

I thought you guys were on some player shyt but instead you'd rather push your insecurities onto everyone else.

You're so narrow-minded that "getting ass" is all you care about :mjlol: I never even tried to, I simply asked her out on a date once when I first met her. For me, sex is not the end goal of dating a woman.

I don't even know what one-itis is, sounds like some incel shyt. If I Google the term leads me to The Red Pill sites. I'll pass...

I'm laying out a wealth of information, y'all can either dap fish and starve or start listening and eat
:yeshrug:

I'm speaking facts based on experience, this shyt is like a cheat code. Other women don't have to know whether you're fukking some chick, as long as the chick is hanging out with you, other women will be curious about what makes you worth her time.

Just open up a bit and give some thought to it, brehs

Why don’t you want to fukk her ?
 

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Anyone ever turn a longtime friendship into a relationship?

I don’t mean friendzone sh1t where the friendship was just a way for you to try to eventually get with her I mean a legit longtime friendship where feelings started unexpectedly?

When we hangout we both get very intimate and touchy feely with each other and both of us have strong feelings for each other but not sure if we want to make that leap.

She’s a loyal ass homegirl and one of my best friends and I know how fickle relationships are and how most of them don’t end well

Im worried that if we ever got into
A relationship then broke up it would ruin our friendship and she means too much to me.
 

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Anyone ever turn a longtime friendship into a relationship?

I don’t mean friendzone sh1t where the friendship was just a way for you to try to eventually get with her I mean a legit longtime friendship where feelings started unexpectedly?

When we hangout we both get very intimate and touchy feely with each other and both of us have strong feelings for each other but not sure if we want to make that leap.

She’s a loyal ass homegirl and one of my best friends and I know how fickle relationships are and how most of them don’t end well

Im worried that if we ever got into
A relationship then broke up it would ruin our friendship and she means too much to me.

Define long term. I had chicks I was friends with and I would just make moves on them, but I always made moves on them and we did shyt.

bytches be crazy so I stop talking to them, never cared for them to that extent, so you gotta be able to not care.

I mean, who’s knows what’ll happen. What do you want more? Her friendship or love?
 

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You're trying way too hard to find something negative in something that only has positives.

I thought you guys were on some player shyt but instead you'd rather push your insecurities onto everyone else.

You're so narrow-minded that "getting ass" is all you care about :mjlol: I never even tried to, I simply asked her out on a date once when I first met her. For me, sex is not the end goal of dating a woman.

I don't even know what one-itis is, sounds like some incel shyt. If I Google the term leads me to The Red Pill sites. I'll pass...

I'm laying out a wealth of information, y'all can either dap fish and starve or start listening and eat
:yeshrug:

I'm speaking facts based on experience, this shyt is like a cheat code. Other women don't have to know whether you're fukking some chick, as long as the chick is hanging out with you, other women will be curious about what makes you worth her time.

Just open up a bit and give some thought to it, brehs

Bruh they dont know...

Women friends can save you from plenty of pitfalls and easily break ice with other women...

I would easily befriend women for networking purposes etc...
 

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For me, sex is not the end goal of dating a woman.” - @RRTANGENTABACUS

Breh.......:comeon:

What other reason do you have for approaching a woman you find attractive & asking her out on a date? :comeon:
Breh don't believe that bullshyt himself. But we know he trynna save face after he got friend zoned. like any chicks she could potentially introduce him to won't ask ol girl if he ever tried to talk to her before. :mjlol:


Bruh they dont know...

Women friends can save you from plenty of pitfalls and easily break ice with other women...

I would easily befriend women for networking purposes etc...
You just admitted that you're currently in a long drought. I've never been in a drought but Ima let y'all nikkas live. If you need other women to "break the ice" for you you got issues that a random nikka on a web forum can't help you with so do your thang. you and Mr Friend zone.
 

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What’s funny today remember that Somali chick I told y’all I matched with on hinge and we work together.

So I didn’t hear or see her for a while so when I did my purge of numbers a few weeks ago she was a casualty. Anyways today I’m at the other hospital site going for lunch and the elevator opens and gusss who comes on.

She looks at me like :krs: and says hi and then goes to texting on her phone

Two hours later my phone buzzes and it’s her
 

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“For me, sex is not the end goal of dating a woman.” - @RRTANGENTABACUS

Breh.......:comeon:

What other reason do you have for approaching a woman you find attractive & asking her out on a date? :comeon:

Patty cake breh


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These young brehs in middle and high school are way too vocal in public about their experiences with women.

:scust: some of the shyt they say around other people is insane. Like 15 years old cursing every sec calling girls your age bytches, thot,etc. Being a chatty patty about who is sucking whose dikk. These young dudes be way too feminine all on the phone. Acting all loud and gossipy like they in the salon

Those nikkas act like such try hards :scust:
Yeah I know we can get called hypocrites because of us being all up in JBO but I know how to act in public

I emphasize this a lot but we need more young men from a young age to get into boxing, Muay Thai, judo, hunting...
 

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You just admitted that you're currently in a long drought. I've never been in a drought but Ima let y'all nikkas live. If you need other women to "break the ice" for you you got issues that a random nikka on a web forum can't help you with so do your thang. you and Mr Friend zone.

A female can literally pull you into another social circle(opportunities)in one night just by being a cool female and knowing people..circles that you wouldn't be able to get in because they have no need for you...:ufdup:

A female friend is an easy vetting process for most networking purposes...

Your missing our point because it has nothing to do with p*ssy...:heh:
 

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So this dude doesn’t think he’ll get more bytches if he had muscles?

I mean yeah focus on your career, but he makes it sound like it’s the end all be all. Plenty of dudes with good careers get no where with women.

Maybe he just means older men because women last 22 still want dudes for their looks, older women look for providers, but they still fukk the dude who looks good to them.
 

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So this dude doesn’t think he’ll get more bytches if he had muscles?

I mean yeah focus on your career, but he makes it sound like it’s the end all be all. Plenty of dudes with good careers get no where with women.

Maybe he just means older men because women last 22 still want dudes for their looks, older women look for providers, but they still fukk the dude who looks good to them.
Different things works for others I guess. I do agree one should strengthen that confidence to the highest degree. Breh @DarianaGrande has said he's in shape but unfortunately still got some self esteem issues to work out.
 

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So I talked to my female friend to get more clarity about everything I discussed with yall.

She said that I am her only male friend, and that there are so many positives that come from hanging out with me compared to her girlfriends or the guys she's dating.

When she's with her girlfriends, she feels like they are very envious and competitive with her. If something good happens in her life, her female friends are not very supportive, or they have a passive-agressive comment that shows they are not happy for her. She says she has to bite her tongue sometimes when something good happens in her life because her girlfriends are insecure or will be upset about it. Before she became friends with me, she used to worry about her female friends abandoning her. But since she has met me, she doesn't worry about that anymore.

With people she's dating, she can't be too friendly all the time and has to focus more about being romantic and not platonic. Also they tend to get jealous and they try to control her somewhat. For example, she likes to dance salsa but the guys she's dating feel insecure and don't want her dancing with other guys, even though it's her passion and hobby.

When she hangs out with me, she days it's a lot more simple. She can be 100% open and be herself without worrying, she doesn't have to worry about me being envious or jealous, there is less pressure. She can relax and be herself without having to bite her tongue or cater to anyone. I don't have any ulterior motive so she doesn't have to hide anything. Also she can hang out with me without being put on a pedestal and that I don't hit on her or flirt with her. She admits that by having me nearby, I am also blocking guys from trying to get at her, she says she's annoyed by guys trying to ask her out all the time. The only time she can go to the gym without getting hit on is when she goes to the gym with me, and I'm serious about working out, training, and that's it.

Why don’t you want to fukk her ?

We've been on a strictly platonic level of friendship for long enough that I just don't see her as a potential sexual or romantic partner. I see her on the same level as I would a female cousin, if that makes any sense.
 
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