Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Poh SIti Dawn]

She actually ended up texting me the next day (yesterday), apologized and gave me a somewhat believable excuse on why she didn't call me back. I gave her the benefit of the doubt because she's acted cool towards me since the beginning and also i admit because im kinda feeling her. She gave me her number first without me asking, i gave her mine back in exchange. She's the first one who texted, first one who called, first one who talked about meeting up, I told her we'd go see a movie, I arrived at the movie place a little tight time-wise and she was already there. she told me she already bought the tickets i'm like I told her next time is on me. She's been super cool with me and i feel like she earned the benefit of the doubt for this incident. Is she playing a deep game of trying to get me all :inlove: over her and then switch it up on me?? who knows. (and again i admit i'm starting to catch feelings...) All i know is that as long as she's cool with me, i'll be cool with her. If she switches up, i'll stop feeling her because it won't be "the one i was feeling" anymore...

I had no idea why she did it and i tried not to worry or think about it because it's out of my control. For all i know, maybe she told the truth or maybe she was out at some bloke's flat in Peckam...had she not called yesterday i would have waited til today and called her just to make sure she's not at the hospital or anything like that and then throw her in the bushes, fukk an explanation.

Sounds like you really like this chick, when did you guys meet? See that's the funny thing about liking a girl and such, it seems as if we're supposed to be like Engineers, what WE do is easy, a girl likes us, then we like them back. We don't think about this shyt that we talk about, we maintain and stay true to ourselves, but once she slips up, just like an Engineer we figure out how to solve the problem, or we find a solution that can be used to solve this problem. That's what I feel like this thread is. It's used to better ourselves, single selves, and putting ourselves in a state to where if shyt goes sour we're so good that it won't really bother us and we're so good we're easily on to the next one.

What's up this chick, you think she's wifey material? I wanna hear more about her, give me the deets lol

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Monsier must have got a job at a jewelry store...


cuz he dropping gems on us now.





:PikDatAzz:


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get outta here

 

[George Gooney]

Tbh I don't think it's R&B, I listen to R&B often. It has something to do with you and handling your business. Not to sound like I'm some kind of pro, but you shouldn't be having text conversations with women in the first place unless it's extremely short lived (a question). Also you shouldn't even notice that she takes longer to respond, you should be focusing on you and if you wanna talk then call her on the phone and organize a date.

You're right you don't sound like a pro... I always text chicks i'm feeling because that's free practice for your verbal game so that when y'all finally do chill you know what to talk about with her and how to operate her cerebral... And I keep track of all data it's just a niche of mine...Analysing numbers and times, dates is the best way to know if a female really about trynna chill. It's worked numerous times in the past for me I notice a chick intentionally ignoring my texts(by observation) she goes straight to the bushes hitting me up 3 months later after I've forgotten about her I come through her spot and she be acting real different and pleasant...I guarantee a chick won't even pick up the phone for your calls if you've never even had her laughing over funny thought provoking texts...This is chess not checkers my dude check my track record...

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

You're right you don't sound like a pro... I always text chicks i'm feeling because that's free practice for your verbal game so that when y'all finally do chill you know what to talk about with her and how to operate her cerebral... And I keep track of all data it's just a niche of mine...Analysing numbers and times, dates is the best way to know if a female really about trynna chill. It's worked numerous times in the past for me I notice a chick intentionally ignoring my texts(by observation) she goes straight to the bushes hitting me up 3 months later after I've forgotten about her I come through her spot and she be acting real different and pleasant...I guarantee a chick won't even pick up the phone for your calls if you've never even had her laughing over funny thought provoking texts...This is chess not checkers my dude check my track record...

So you're feeling this chick then? Why are you trying to play her off as just some sort of jump off then? Is that why you're catching feelings so easily over texts? Well maybe that's your problem, if you're on a phone all day with a chick, is she really going to value your conversation once you're hanging out in person with her? Probably not. And tbh that seems your problem, you're putting too much effort into a woman that's not yours, are you insecure? You shouldn't be focusing on what she's doing, but instead on what you've got to do. Grown men who sit on their phone analyzing texts are just as bad as grown men who are on twitter/Facebook simping. I'm 21, I'm sure you're older than me, I don't have twitter not Facebook, and I just use Instagram because I genuinely like taking pictures. Not following no models, or fine chicks, just family and friends. And that's the thing, I'm concerned with MY life, not others. And I'm pretty sure they will, any chick that's mature enough to know how to talk on the phone at least. It's like this, if you get a chicks number, and you hit her up automatically see if she wants to chill. Who the fukk gets a feel for a woman through texting her all day and trying to make her laugh, if she gives you her number that should mean=I automatically want to kick it, and if it doesn't then becoming her text buddy isn't going to better things. Well at least for you.

 

[George Gooney]

So you're feeling this chick then? Why are you trying to play her off as just some sort of jump off then? Is that why you're catching feelings so easily over texts? Well maybe that's your problem, if you're on a phone all day with a chick, is she really going to value your conversation once you're hanging out in person with her? Probably not. And tbh that seems your problem, you're putting too much effort into a woman that's not yours, are you insecure? You shouldn't be focusing on what she's doing, but instead on what you've got to do. Grown men who sit on their phone analyzing texts are just as bad as grown men who are on twitter/Facebook simping. I'm 21, I'm sure you're older than me, I don't have twitter not Facebook, and I just use Instagram because I genuinely like taking pictures. Not following no models, or fine chicks, just family and friends. And that's the thing, I'm concerned with MY life, not others. And I'm pretty sure they will, any chick that's mature enough to know how to talk on the phone at least. It's like this, if you get a chicks number, and you hit her up automatically see if she wants to chill. Who the fukk gets a feel for a woman through texting her all day and trying to make her laugh, if she gives you her number that should mean=I automatically want to kick it, and if it doesn't then becoming her text buddy isn't going to better things. Well at least for you.

I should've wen't into a little more detail...I've known this chick since JR.High she found me on facebook back in 2010 when I still used it Notice how my page doesn't have any pictures in the screenshot I linked meaning it's no longer in use(You should've been Observing). Also we both work very busy schedules and she texts me too see when i'm free during the week and we're never really open on the same days There won't be any need for convo once we finally meet up at my place if you catch my drift because she'll already know enough about me and I her. You sound the dinner and a movie type taking a girl out to a fancy restaurant just for some conversation then she goes home and gets her back blown out by a nikka who's never even taken her to subway, you have to calibrate a female before you even consider "going out" and spending "YOUR MONEY" I'm only 3 years older than you but age don't really matter when it comes to manhood. And I know you're lacking that because you're using female shaming tactics by asking if i'm "immature" nah I just don't like my time wasted. Was brother reincar insecure for saying he uses keyloggers or brilliant enough to deduce the need for proof before making executive decisions with these female... You sound like you're coming on here trying to prove some shyt to yourself. In my post I said the code is everlasting and anyone can slip up. You really need to fall back tho cause I know my roster >>>>>>> yours with all due respect.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

I should've wen't into a little more detail...I've known this chick since JR.High she found me on facebook back in 2010 when I still used it Notice how my page doesn't have any pictures in the screenshot I linked meaning it's no longer in use(You should've been Observing). Also we both work very busy schedules and she texts me too see when i'm free during the week and we're never really open on the same days There won't be any need for convo once we finally meet up at my place if you catch my drift because she'll already know enough about me and I her. You sound the dinner and a movie type taking a girl out to a fancy restaurant just for some conversation then she goes home and gets her back blown out by a nikka who's never even taken her to subway, you have to calibrate a female before you even consider "going out" and spending "YOUR MONEY" I'm only 3 years older than you but age don't really matter when it comes to manhood. And I know you're lacking that because you're using female shaming tactics by asking if i'm "immature" nah I just don't like my time wasted. Was brother reincar insecure for saying he uses keyloggers or brilliant enough to deduce the need for proof before making executive decisions with these female... You sound like you're coming on here trying to prove some shyt to yourself. In my post I said the code is everlasting and anyone can slip up. You really need to fall back tho cause I know my roster >>>>>>> yours with all due respect.

I'm using "female tactics" yet you're the one getting defensive. Okie dokie, whatever.

 

[kevm3]

When it comes to texting, there's nothing wrong with it, but don't be her 'text buddy' aka the reliable guy she hits up when she's bored and she complains to about everything. If you bust some smooth conversation during the texts and then set something up, that's cool. It's basically like the difference between having an everyday general 'friendly' conversation with a woman in real life and a conversation in which you know it's going somewhere.

 

[George Gooney]

I'm using "female tactics" yet you're the one getting defensive. Okie dokie, whatever.

Just defemdimg my stance is all breh. Me being defensive does not = me being offensive to you...Its ok breh we all in this together Lighten the fukk up If you're Black I got love for you (No homo)

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Just defemdimg my stance is all breh. Me being defensive does not = me being offensive to you...Its ok breh we all in this together Lighten the fukk up If you're Black I got love for you (No homo)

Tbh I'm not the type to take a chick to a movie or dinner, both things are tacky to do when you're just getting to know someone btw. But hey if texting is your thing then cool, but unless in in a relationship I don't think I'll do it.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Speaking on texting, last night I even told the girl I hungout with that I respected my time and others and I even set pace by telling her I'd call her on Wednesday to schedule a date on Thursday. I think by doing something like that I've done well, I am able to have my space, as I need it for school but at the same time let her know that I'm interested enough to hangout again. Taking things slow whether it be for sex or a relationship I can take my time.

 

[George Gooney]

Tbh I'm not the type to take a chick to a movie or dinner, both things are tacky to do when you're just getting to know someone btw. But hey if texting is your thing then cool, but unless in in a relationship I don't think I'll do it.

I see why we got mixed up... You thought I was wasting time texting some chick I thought of as a jumpoff. Not at all this girl was a friend of mine since JR.High and I think she had feelings since back then. But she is also attractive and we know how simps can gas those types up so I just had let her know who was in control and who was being suited And share some more philosophy with the thread. I'm basically just going through the motions tho... I'm celibate and don't even really take these females serious unless I feel im being insulted then I gotta switch up on them feel me???

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

I see why we got mixed up... You thought I was wasting time texting some chick I thought of as a jumpoff. Not at all this girl was a friend of mine since JR.High and I think she had feelings since back then. But she is also attractive and we know how simps can gas those types up so I just had let her know who was in control and who was being suited And share some more philosophy with the thread. I'm basically just going through the motions tho... I'm celibate and don't even really take these females serious unless I feel im being insulted then I gotta switch up on them feel me???

I guess man, I just figure it being simple like this, if 2 people want to see each other than they will, if they're too busy, they'll still find a way to hangout. And like they say, he who cares the most....I forgot the rest but it's something about the more you care the least power you have. You shouldn't have a dependency on a chick, and if she's not your gf you should careless about whether she stays or goes, as things are meaningless until you give them a meaning and if she hasn't got a meaningful title then therefore she must be meaningless, right?

No I get you, I'm just saying man for me at least, if a chick can't go a few days without talking to you and not get sidetrack from another man, then is she REALLY worth being with? And does she really value working for things, or being patient? If you can't go a few days without talking to me without getting sidetracked then I don't want you. Forgot where I was going with this tbh brb

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Brw if this girl gives me a second date then great, but one thing that I'm going to work on is being patient. I feel like people rush into relationships too fast, without getting to know one another too well and that's why they often fail miserably. I will not be doing that and I advise must guys and girls not to.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

At the age of 21 relationships shouldnt be in your vocabulary.Relax,go out,have some fun.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Another thing I got to put you cats on is the "maybe" game. I expose this in a woman's game the other day. I asked her a ? and she said maybe.She then immediately changed to a yes but thats another topic. When a woman uses the word maybe its a substitute for Yes or NO. Never tolerate the word maybe.Women are smart and they know before you open your mouth if its a yes or no for you.Here is an example

Male: Movies tonght?
Female:maybe