Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

I still need to get that out of my system

you can do it, i always remember what fully got me to a point of cutting off and never going back, i was on and off with this girl, i would say thats it, then in a few days later id be back claling and texting, then one day i got pissed at her and said im never talking to you again, and she laughed in my face and told me yeah right you always say that and come back, ever since that day my word is my word, and every female that knows me knows it. Once I cut someone off that's it, its done, never looking back, never calling, never texting. Even with a chick if were talking and i text, and she comes back hours later how shes busy?

thats it done, nothing terrifies a chick more than a guy who will just go

 

[sixsixtwo]

Working Out Favors Men

 

[MikelArteta]

Working Out Favors Men

im skinny, and i dont mind it at all, never had a problem getting women who are in shape, my dads skinny his dad was skinny and im going to carry this skinny ass gene

and i refuse to be unequally yolk when these oversized broads try and talk to me, like i said i have no kids why should i be with someone with kids? im skinny why should i be with someone who is overweight?

 

[Illuminatos]

The Power of Makeup

But even at 11am on a Sunday, you can tell that she has something special about her. The smile, the eyes, those are real.

Is this guy serious?

 

[Two Stacks]

I'm 26 (27 in july, nikka, im old! ), and I have a fast metabolism. I've started exercising. I'm 6'1, 155 pounds. I'm doing this shyt so I can keep the fast metabolism, not look flabby and sick, and most importantly for MYSELF. I refuse to be one of those skinny fat nikkas. fukk a bytch.

 

[kevm3]

This one right here applies to you younger cats more than anyone.

ALWAYS handle your business ahead of pursuing women. It can get real easy to get into that zone to where you make pursuing women your focus and start neglecting other areas of your life. Make sure your finances are straight and you are continually pursuing your education. Don't be one of those lame guys who spend all their money buying clothes to impress women. That doesn't mean not to upgrade your wardrobe, but work within a budget.

As cliche as the saying is, women don't bring the money, money brings the women. When you DO get money, don't go flashing it around or showing it off. What that saying DOES mean is that having money and having your business together will give you an added boost of confidence since your business is in order as well as give you extra funds to dress even sharper or to take trips or whatever you decide to do.

You really don't want to be one of those guys who spent all of their early days chasing women and neglecting education and now they are stuck. These women will be here for you whenever you find time to get at them. The added benefit of focusing on your business is that it removes the thirst factor from you. You're able to plant your seeds and hit up whatever woman and you won't be sitting around all day hoping they return your calls or texts.

 

[kevm3]

Another thing. One of the reasons why women never commit is because dudes give them all the benefits of being in a relationship without them having to be in one. Cats are out here fixing their cars, fixing their computers, giving them conversation whenever they demand it, etc. If you're doing all that, there really is no reason for a woman to commit. Women need to start being under the impression that they have to show dedication and loyalty to a man before they start receiving all of those benefits.

 

[George Gooney]

This one right here applies to you younger cats more than anyone.

ALWAYS handle your business ahead of pursuing women. It can get real easy to get into that zone to where you make pursuing women your focus and start neglecting other areas of your life. Make sure your finances are straight and you are continually pursuing your education. Don't be one of those lame guys who spend all their money buying clothes to impress women. That doesn't mean not to upgrade your wardrobe, but work within a budget.

As cliche as the saying is, women don't bring the money, money brings the women. When you DO get money, don't go flashing it around or showing it off. What that saying DOES mean is that having money and having your business together will give you an added boost of confidence since your business is in order as well as give you extra funds to dress even sharper or to take trips or whatever you decide to do.

You really don't want to be one of those guys who spent all of their early days chasing women and neglecting education and now they are stuck. These women will be here for you whenever you find time to get at them. The added benefit of focusing on your business is that it removes the thirst factor from you. You're able to plant your seeds and hit up whatever woman and you won't be sitting around all day hoping they return your calls or texts.

 

[CrossBones]

Brehs not sure if this had been brought up but "Mode One" is a dope read, i'd recommend it to all (especially if you are familiar with the gawds Patrice's philosophy). Pretty much emphasized the attitude of being honest and upfront when dealing with women. Here is a vid on the author with a synopsis of the book.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RlIZlbsmOqc

I did find this link if someone wants the book


and thanks, Im going to check it out. the thing thats best about honesty, is that you never have to hide anything, everyone knows where youre coming from, and you never get that feeling like youre going to get caught for something.

Spoiler

DepositFiles

 

[re'up]

let me run this one by the experts, known this girl through work for about a year and a half, always was attracted to her never talked or saw each other for more then 5 min, felt like after time there was a small chemistry.

In the last few months, I see her she invites me out, I don't make it, texts get more 'personal', she sends me a few texts for Christmas, New Years, then shortly after that initiates a text conversation, sends me a picture of herself. Few weeks ago, see each other tells me what she's been up to, says she's single 100% now, wants to hang out sometime spend more then a few minutes, I say the same thing, (and genuninely feel the same way).

Texts me again a few days later, then a week later she asks me to go out to eat with her. We meet up, have a good time for a few hours. She texts me later in the night. I'm being naive, or things or as they appear? What, if anything aren't I seeing? What should I look for? Appreciate any advice/feedback.

 

[CrossBones]

let me run this one by the experts, known this girl through work for about a year and a half, always was attracted to her never talked or saw each other for more then 5 min, felt like after time there was a small chemistry.

In the last few months, I see her she invites me out, I don't make it, texts get more 'personal', she sends me a few texts for Christmas, New Years, then shortly after that initiates a text conversation, sends me a picture of herself. Few weeks ago, see each other tells me what she's been up to, says she's single 100% now, wants to hang out sometime spend more then a few minutes, I say the same thing, (and genuninely feel the same way).

Texts me again a few days later, then a week later she asks me to go out to eat with her. We meet up, have a good time for a few hours. She texts me later in the night. I'm being naive, or things or as they appear? What, if anything aren't I seeing? What should I look for? Appreciate any advice/feedback.

Im going to say, I think that you can cut all of the games and wondering just by persuing it - if YOU feel like persuing it, that is. damn all that waiting on the right signal, or for her to outright tell you. you have to go and get what you want. no ones going to do that shyt for you.

and if you do pursue it, and she says no, then big deal. now you know. and if she says yes, then you did it.

just lead the way and go after what you want. its really not more than that.

 

[re'up]

I do want to pursue it, I'm not into playing games at all, I hardly know how to. And thanks. I'm more wondering if her moves seem genuine, it seems like she's interested in me, but maybe I'm missing something someone else can point out, or something to watch for. No one here knows every specific detail about it, but people have on point/interesting analysis/opinions. Don't want a charity case, or someone that sees me as a free meal, or a new purse, whatever, don't think I've exhibited that at all though.

 

[CrossBones]

I do want to pursue it, I'm not into playing games at all, I hardly know how to. And thanks. I'm more wondering if her moves seem genuine, it seems like she's interested in me, but maybe I'm missing something someone else can point out, or something to watch for. No one here knows every specific detail about it, but people have on point/interesting analysis/opinions. Don't want a charity case, or someone that sees me as a free meal, or a new purse, whatever, don't think I've exhibited that at all though.

na its cool, I think I see more where youre coming from. as far as knowing what she really wants and thinks ... only way to really get that answer, right?

I say straight up tell her that you want to take her out. if she flakes, then let her be. if shes down, then you know its time for phase 2. take her out, then start playing her a little more close than you have been. feel no pressure, just have fun with her. THEN, make a move. youll see what shes really about and what she is down for. I think its more important to see what a woman does, than dissect what she says.

 

[Oye]

you can do it, i always remember what fully got me to a point of cutting off and never going back, i was on and off with this girl, i would say thats it, then in a few days later id be back claling and texting, then one day i got pissed at her and said im never talking to you again, and she laughed in my face and told me yeah right you always say that and come back, ever since that day my word is my word, and every female that knows me knows it. Once I cut someone off that's it, its done, never looking back, never calling, never texting. Even with a chick if were talking and i text, and she comes back hours later how shes busy?

thats it done, nothing terrifies a chick more than a guy who will just go

Yeah I did all that and eventually folded under responding to her email oneday and it won't happen again. After a year she still had my number while I completely forgot hers. Even when we were talking I told her I had no intentions of being her friend I don't know why I responded to be perfectly honest but it was around Christmas when I did. After that though it got annoying especially getting a text so early from someone with nothing else said but your name. So much of what she said just annoyed me and I was honestly glad that we broke up cause I couldn't imagine being with her for the rest of my life anymore. Especially not now when I'm in great shape while she has no plans of going tot he gym

She won't delete my pictures either and I think she's subscribed to my youtube channel.

 

[re'up]

fukk I know, it's what I want to avoid, but I can't be a bytch if I'm really interested, and don't want this to fall by the wayside like a few others have. She put herself out there with me, I should do the same. From my perspective, she has to see that I like her, but from another...I've never texted her once, only responded. It's not that I'm not interested or too cool, it's just insecurity, makes me seem like some nonchalant a$$hole.