Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Expanding on this a lil bit more,
What do yall think about seeking advice/opinions on matters involving women from another woman?
Someone who you have no interest in (A female friend or relative)?
Idk about yall, but in my experiences they've given me some (what I thought to be) left field advice that turned out to have some truth to it. Who better to see through the hints than another woman right
A majority of the time when we ask for advice, we're really not asking for advice. We're really just looking for enough people to confirm what we already think or know.
Women will tell you how to make another women happy, but that won't necessarily help you be happy in that situation. Even though I do appreciate a woman's point of view, I like to hear different perspectives before I make a decision.
Poh SIti Dawn
Staying Positive, Getting Better Everyday. Holler!
Respect my man. sigh I know exactly what you're saying, the song has a good beat, the lyrics; meh I honestly didn't stick around long enough to hear him get them all out, as I felt like he was reaching with his singing. My point is this, taking advice from a guy who (I've heard for a third time) just broke up with his girlfriend (Rihanna), and keep in mind this is the same guy who said something about if you want to control your girl fukk her good (Reincar remembers what he said because he commented on it) and now they've broken up. What I'm exactly trying to say is whether he's right or not and whether he's giving a good message or not, I would not take advice from this guy whether it's right or not simply because of his credibility. You wouldn't watch Space Jam to see how basketball is played, you wouldn't watch Grey's Anatomy to learn how to perform a surgery or some shyt. What I'm saying is that credibility is everything, and this mans credibility is down the toilet, fukk if his words are correct, he's not shyt and he's not to be taken serious when it comes to him giving advice.
Does that make sense?
Poh SIti Dawn
Staying Positive, Getting Better Everyday. Holler!
Just met a girl today, was telling Reinaldo earlier. She's cool, she's white, tall somewhat slender, comes from a well off family (or so it seems). One thing that bothered me was she seemed sort of prejudice towards Mexicans. We spoke about her ex, but it's only because I asked. Got her number, I lead which was cool. I asked for her number, but instead she gave me hers, the funny thing is what she did is she texted me "hiiiiii" while we were still talking before I was going to say goodbye. So it makes me wonder, should I text her back because she's wanting me to have a text conversation with her or because she just wanted to let me know what her number is.
btw she's a cool girl, only decent thing is that, I'm 21, this girl is 19, age difference bothers me. but not that much.
btw she's a cool girl, only decent thing is that, I'm 21, this girl is 19, age difference bothers me. but not that much.
Mr Hate Coffee
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Life is crazy... Went from feeling swaggerless to having booku options. I got a cute lil dentist (black of course) crushing on me hard right now.
She's patient too cuz I'm not ready. No more entering relationships for the hell of it.
She's patient too cuz I'm not ready. No more entering relationships for the hell of it.
Rocket Scientist
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I dont know who said this but can one of yall cats explain women subconciously picking up on whether your an alpha or beta male
Any knowledge on worsome females? I've got one who bugs the sh*t out of me as if the both of us don't have school/work. Always wants to spend time, talk on the phone, and just be around me on some cloud 9 type sh*t. We dated, but I just can't even vibe with her unless it's sex, barely that nowadays. She's a good girl for the most part, just annoying as f*ck. smh
That's what I'm saying breh.
I can go without a woman, hell, I've been single before for a loooooong time.
BUT, I cant go without p*ssy
That's just crazy talk right there.
I dont know who said this but can one of yall cats explain women subconciously picking up on whether your an alpha or beta male
You know, I think this alpha/beta stuff is nonsense, but two things I live by are:
-don't do anything special for a female you want to fukk if you haven't fukked her yet
-don't do things for people in an effort to get them to like you, do things because you want to do them
I see an alpha male as someone is who strong, loyal, respectful to everyone, assertive but not an a$$hole, helps others when needed, is passionate about his own personal success/goals, puts family and friends first, and always has an air about him that he can and will get very serious (or fight, whether physically, or legally, or whatever) if he has to. It's not an "I don't give a fukk" attitude it's an "I only give a fukk if you've earned it" attitude.
Mr Hate Coffee
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Sounds like a regular woman that likes you.
That's what women do. They like a guy with goals/ambition and then complain when he's not available due to aforementioned ambition.
I meet a lot of women in ATL but I lose interest very fast. Many of them are just not exciting and have no desire to try new things. I still have friends with benefits that scratch my itch so getting p*ssy when i want it is not a problem. I've been off the dating scene for months and I am loving all the extra money, time and energy I have to pursue new adventures.
Has anyone else took themselves off the dating market and enjoying life more?
Has anyone else took themselves off the dating market and enjoying life more?
Expanding on this a lil bit more,
What do yall think about seeking advice/opinions on matters involving women from another woman?
Someone who you have no interest in (A female friend or relative)?
Idk about yall, but in my experiences they've given me some (what I thought to be) left field advice that turned out to have some truth to it. Who better to see through the hints than another woman right
You have to be careful about taking advice from a woman. I would take advice from a woman on discerning another woman's actions, but not necessarily in determining how to handle a situation. You CAN occasionally get valid advice from a woman, but you have to filter it through your critical thinking and see if that advice puts you in a position of strength or weakness.
28 right now. I don't know everything, but the things I do want to know, I make sure I know very well. Warren Buffett described a concept called a circle of competence. You would do well to find your key attributes and stay within the confines of that. When you start knowing a little bit of everything about anything is when you start becoming mediocre because your knowledge is too spread out.