Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Sharp]

Expanding on this a lil bit more,

What do yall think about seeking advice/opinions on matters involving women from another woman?
Someone who you have no interest in (A female friend or relative)?

Idk about yall, but in my experiences they've given me some (what I thought to be) left field advice that turned out to have some truth to it. Who better to see through the hints than another woman right

A majority of the time when we ask for advice, we're really not asking for advice. We're really just looking for enough people to confirm what we already think or know.

Women will tell you how to make another women happy, but that won't necessarily help you be happy in that situation. Even though I do appreciate a woman's point of view, I like to hear different perspectives before I make a decision.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

lol, it's all good, no offense taken. We're just exchanging ideas. Like i said, the song seems soft but if you pay very close attention the lyrics, it's really candy-coated medicine. it seems like simping but i detect pimping in it. peep my views on the lyrics in the post i posted the video. main message of the song to me is "know and play your role". even the way he talks about her it's like he's telling her he's the one who gives her value. a collectable item only has value if someone collects it. and he tells her "when you're mine, i'll be generous" meaning she only gets the benefits of his association if she becomes his thing (if she submits).

like i said, i know it seems a little out there but i definitely see it in that song's lyrics. it's smooth and seems soft but the message goes hard.

Respect my man. sigh I know exactly what you're saying, the song has a good beat, the lyrics; meh I honestly didn't stick around long enough to hear him get them all out, as I felt like he was reaching with his singing. My point is this, taking advice from a guy who (I've heard for a third time) just broke up with his girlfriend (Rihanna), and keep in mind this is the same guy who said something about if you want to control your girl fukk her good (Reincar remembers what he said because he commented on it) and now they've broken up. What I'm exactly trying to say is whether he's right or not and whether he's giving a good message or not, I would not take advice from this guy whether it's right or not simply because of his credibility. You wouldn't watch Space Jam to see how basketball is played, you wouldn't watch Grey's Anatomy to learn how to perform a surgery or some shyt. What I'm saying is that credibility is everything, and this mans credibility is down the toilet, fukk if his words are correct, he's not shyt and he's not to be taken serious when it comes to him giving advice.

Does that make sense?

 

[sixsixtwo]

Beta time:

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[Poh SIti Dawn]

Just met a girl today, was telling Reinaldo earlier. She's cool, she's white, tall somewhat slender, comes from a well off family (or so it seems). One thing that bothered me was she seemed sort of prejudice towards Mexicans. We spoke about her ex, but it's only because I asked. Got her number, I lead which was cool. I asked for her number, but instead she gave me hers, the funny thing is what she did is she texted me "hiiiiii" while we were still talking before I was going to say goodbye. So it makes me wonder, should I text her back because she's wanting me to have a text conversation with her or because she just wanted to let me know what her number is.

btw she's a cool girl, only decent thing is that, I'm 21, this girl is 19, age difference bothers me. but not that much.

 

[sixsixtwo]

The Most Dangerous Word: Love | Chateau Heartiste

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

Life is crazy... Went from feeling swaggerless to having booku options. I got a cute lil dentist (black of course) crushing on me hard right now.



She's patient too cuz I'm not ready. No more entering relationships for the hell of it.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

I dont know who said this but can one of yall cats explain women subconciously picking up on whether your an alpha or beta male

 

[Droopy]

Any knowledge on worsome females? I've got one who bugs the sh*t out of me as if the both of us don't have school/work. Always wants to spend time, talk on the phone, and just be around me on some cloud 9 type sh*t. We dated, but I just can't even vibe with her unless it's sex, barely that nowadays. She's a good girl for the most part, just annoying as f*ck. smh

 

[Newzz]

:wut:

That's what I'm saying breh.


I can go without a woman, hell, I've been single before for a loooooong time.



BUT, I cant go without p*ssy



That's just crazy talk right there.

 

[Guess Who]

I dont know who said this but can one of yall cats explain women subconciously picking up on whether your an alpha or beta male

You know, I think this alpha/beta stuff is nonsense, but two things I live by are:

-don't do anything special for a female you want to fukk if you haven't fukked her yet

-don't do things for people in an effort to get them to like you, do things because you want to do them

I see an alpha male as someone is who strong, loyal, respectful to everyone, assertive but not an a$$hole, helps others when needed, is passionate about his own personal success/goals, puts family and friends first, and always has an air about him that he can and will get very serious (or fight, whether physically, or legally, or whatever) if he has to. It's not an "I don't give a fukk" attitude it's an "I only give a fukk if you've earned it" attitude.

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

Any knowledge on worsome females? I've got one who bugs the sh*t out of me as if the both of us don't have school/work. Always wants to spend time, talk on the phone, and just be around me on some cloud 9 type sh*t. We dated, but I just can't even vibe with her unless it's sex, barely that nowadays. She's a good girl for the most part, just annoying as f*ck. smh

Sounds like a regular woman that likes you.

That's what women do. They like a guy with goals/ambition and then complain when he's not available due to aforementioned ambition.

 

[Jahmal]

I meet a lot of women in ATL but I lose interest very fast. Many of them are just not exciting and have no desire to try new things. I still have friends with benefits that scratch my itch so getting p*ssy when i want it is not a problem. I've been off the dating scene for months and I am loving all the extra money, time and energy I have to pursue new adventures.

Has anyone else took themselves off the dating market and enjoying life more?

 

[kevm3]

Expanding on this a lil bit more,

What do yall think about seeking advice/opinions on matters involving women from another woman?
Someone who you have no interest in (A female friend or relative)?

Idk about yall, but in my experiences they've given me some (what I thought to be) left field advice that turned out to have some truth to it. Who better to see through the hints than another woman right

You have to be careful about taking advice from a woman. I would take advice from a woman on discerning another woman's actions, but not necessarily in determining how to handle a situation. You CAN occasionally get valid advice from a woman, but you have to filter it through your critical thinking and see if that advice puts you in a position of strength or weakness.

 

[kevm3]

how do u know so much shyt breh???

how old are you...you know......EVERYTHING!

28 right now. I don't know everything, but the things I do want to know, I make sure I know very well. Warren Buffett described a concept called a circle of competence. You would do well to find your key attributes and stay within the confines of that. When you start knowing a little bit of everything about anything is when you start becoming mediocre because your knowledge is too spread out.

 

[kevm3]

I meet a lot of women in ATL but I lose interest very fast. Many of them are just not exciting and have no desire to try new things. I still have friends with benefits that scratch my itch so getting p*ssy when i want it is not a problem. I've been off the dating scene for months and I am loving all the extra money, time and energy I have to pursue new adventures.

Has anyone else took themselves off the dating market and enjoying life more?

There's nothing wrong at all with what you're doing. At one point, I used to blame myself, but then I realized that it's not really me, but it's a lot of the women that are out here that are the boring ones. A lot of these women bring absolutely NOTHING to the table and it's nothing but stress dealing with them, but men can get caught up in dealing with them just for ego's sake... just because their boys might tell them they are wrong for not getting at these hoes or something weak like that. Never deal with women just to do it or because someone else is trying to pressure you. Why reward low quality women with your precious time and resources? There's nothing wrong with refusing to date these women until they step it up into a caliber that you can deal with.

Now, I have a friend who has a lot of family from one of the islands, and they recently came to the states for a wedding. I had the pleasure of being able to observe a few of the ladies that came from the islands. It was refreshing seeing women that still maintained their femininity... one of the women just started doing dishes and she was a guest. Dealing with a lot of these masculinized American women simply isn't fun, but we do it because we feel as men that we need to be dealing with women just from some ego standpoint... but then you realize a lot of the headaches that come with it and potential sticky situations that you can get in and wish you had just saved your time, money and energy.