Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[King]

Bruh the club is one of the worst places to meet women. What do you enjoy doing for fun? Go out to places that fits your interests and you’ll meet women that share similar interest

Learned that the hard way. Apart from studying and working out, ion do much in terms of interests - think that's my problem. I try to make small talk with some girls at my gym, but it ain't really the place for that. My interests are online and its usually mainly dudes who like it

Any ideas on things I could get into that have a lot of women? I'm def tryna take some salsa classes when things open back up

 

[Abraxus]

Who here smashes regularly and is good with women?

Idk what it is about me, I’m a normal dude - keep myself clean, nice fits, starting my career. Not afraid to approach a woman

But I just can’t catch one - I went out like 5 months straight to the clubs back before rona hit and I ain’t even get a call back. The ones that do just play games and it never goes anywhere.

Only smashed once all 2019 - shyt is crazy, I’m beginning to think there’s something wrong with me. Idk maybe I’m just lame, any advice for getting out of this phase? I can vibe, real laidback, but it always just dies off

You gotta dissect yourself and see what you are doing wrong. Based off of what you wrote I’d say nothing, you’re probably more alpha than you realize but I was in the same boat once upon a time except I’m quick to tell a bytch to go fukk herself. Like the woman I was recently with. She’s a doctor that I shoot cumshots in her face and take my turn on, I’m your every 5 mins all on the phone either. Could be you need to make some minor adjustments and you’ll be eating good but know this, any bytch that don’t want your masculine energy gets cut off unless you wanna play with it/her. Mfs think they got game until they fukking with a referee.

 

[Malik1time]

Who here smashes regularly and is good with women?

Idk what it is about me, I’m a normal dude - keep myself clean, nice fits, starting my career. Not afraid to approach a woman

But I just can’t catch one - I went out like 5 months straight to the clubs back before rona hit and I ain’t even get a call back. The ones that do just play games and it never goes anywhere.

Only smashed once all 2019 - shyt is crazy, I’m beginning to think there’s something wrong with me. Idk maybe I’m just lame, any advice for getting out of this phase? I can vibe, real laidback, but it always just dies off

Sounds like you have confidence in yourself so you won half the battle the club is a bad place tbh I’ve always been successful being in a friends function with new people in it that’s where I flourish

 

[noumena]

Ex girlfriend 4 is back in the picture. Added her on Snapchat and she added and sent me a message and acted as if nothing happened that was bizarre. Hasn't even mentioned that I literally disappeared from her life. The energy is weird and shaky rn. She has a man and she hasn't said anything about it. Thinks I don't know. Talking some BIG game about sex rn. She wanted to cop the hotel room (and pay) within a night or two of talking. Hung out in her city but didn't have a spot to smash so we just fooled around. Couldn't go inside her house like I used to (lives with parents), said there's too many people (same amount of people as before ) but her reason for her not having her own room was legit. More sex talk tonight and now she's saying she hates sucking dikk. A yearago she was begging to top me. What did this new man do to heri don't know if this is lasting tbh. seriously what is the "I'll suck your dikk" to "I hate sucking dikk" phenomenon?

 

[semicko82]

Who here smashes regularly and is good with women?

Idk what it is about me, I’m a normal dude - keep myself clean, nice fits, starting my career. Not afraid to approach a woman

But I just can’t catch one - I went out like 5 months straight to the clubs back before rona hit and I ain’t even get a call back. The ones that do just play games and it never goes anywhere.

Only smashed once all 2019 - shyt is crazy, I’m beginning to think there’s something wrong with me. Idk maybe I’m just lame, any advice for getting out of this phase? I can vibe, real laidback, but it always just dies off

You will do better in a Walmart than a club

 

[goatmane]

Had a chick confess to me her life stinks



Friend zoned me back in HS....now shes a struggling single mom living back at her moms....got preg a latino that wont even pay for pampers or wipes...

 

[MikelArteta]

would y'all deal with a single mother under any circumstance? This isn't specific to anything I'm dealing with i'm just wondering if u would ever entertain one

Ideally nah, relationships are hard already without having to add in a kid, the dad and his family. Plus it can easily go from lavon is an a$$hole to lavon has changed so much and I'm sorry we are just going to try and make it work for the sake of being a family. Plus this is a guy she allowed to bust in her raw and carry that seed for 9 months he can do it once he can do it again

Plus if you actually end up getting close to the kid and it doesn't work out well to bad for you

To many single childless women out there, but but but if there were an exception she'd only have to have one kid, be from a good family, humble, financially secure, attractive.

 

[DapMeUp!]

I think I hit the wall in this shyt brehs

I got a solid rotation of 3 right now, one more trying to join the squad and another girl I had stopped talking to just came back into the picture.

Thing is I really don't like any of them like that. All just feels empty
Not even sure if I want a relationship right now, just something where I can see it could be something more at some point if I wanted it to be.
Any of you brehs hit this stage?

 

[MollyGalaga]

I think I hit the wall in this shyt brehs

I got a solid rotation of 3 right now, one more trying to join the squad and another girl I had stopped talking to just came back into the picture.

Thing is I really don't like any of them like that. All just feels empty
Not even sure if I want a relationship right now, just something where I can see it could be something more at some point if I wanted it to be.
Any of you brehs hit this stage?

3 ?

I have a hard time keeping one, and thats cause a nikka get bored playing women games.

 

[MollyGalaga]

This one shorty i'm talking to now tho

Here's hoping I seal the deal

 

[Rich Spirit]

This one shorty i'm talking to now tho

Here's hoping I seal the deal

You’re the prize bro, she should be the one praying to seal the deal

 

[MollyGalaga]

You’re the prize bro, she should be the one praying to seal the deal

Lol I know what you tryna do but respectfully, don't tell me that.

I'm not on that type of time, she not even on that type of time.



( If this was some thottin ass IG hoe I'd agree )

 

[semicko82]

Depending on how old you are, it's inevitable.

No take that back

 

[lamont614]

It happens.

I knew when she said she was going to "take a nap" that it was already over. If she was interested you could have called her at 3am in the morning and woke her up she would have been happy to talk. She just wanted to pass the time. She knew you had a kid so why agree to date you and then turn around and say she doesn't wanna take time away from you and your daughter? She just didn't want to tell the truth and is coming with all kinds of excuses.

Then people think we're joking or bitter when we say don't get attached.

update she got on the bus and came down here Saturday


Everything is good back to normal

got my guard up tho

 

[DaRealness]

38:19 - 40:20 How long have we been saying this?? For a woman to admit this