Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

phcitywarrior

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2025 going into 2026 and some things remain true.

  1. As a man, you gotta strive to be at your peak at all times. Not for babes, but for your confidence and stature.
  2. You gotta be talking to multiple women on your own terms. It’ll afford you the laissez-faire attitude needed to succeed as a man in this dating landscape.
  3. As a man, you MUST have something that you’re pushing for outside of women. What’s your purpose and how are you striving to it daily.
  4. Have fun with the whole process and remember, you’re the man. You set the tone and agenda of engagement. If you don’t like it, pivot.
  5. It’s still a mans world
 

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:mjlol: I need to get better at replying to messages

:mjlol:bad light skin chick liked me back on hinge, low key have no motivation to chase her, in my head she is big headed already. Great t*ts though.
 

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this still ignores the cultural problem we have. The Culture gap is what separates entertainment to an algorithm telling you who you are. It's like the arguments back in the day of Rap Music or Video Games. I listened to the most demonic rap but I did not let it define who I am because I had cultural elements installed in me as a child of who I am culturally and our standards, now when the same child/teen lacks that instillation and is being raised by a TV or phone the results are not the same.

All that is fair but

Parents thought it was ok to cede control over to Ipads, IPhones, whatever, because they thought it was ok for them too. Not just ok, but beneficial. There was no labeling, no warning, no education about the tech. Even R rated movies had a rating. Parents could chose to let their kids watching R rated movies, pick and choose, but they KNEW it came with risks.

And they have tightened it's pull with short videos and algorrthimic control, and downward age retention rate since. The messaging and marketing around social media from EVERYBODY was positive, in those crucial years.
 
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