Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[JustRegularBlack]

yea the key was getting desensitized to rejection and learning not to overthink the engagement
these we chat dudes need to keep at it and refine their skills / open up the repetoire. no other way to go about it

This gem right here is so important in many areas of life. We oftentimes take interactions too serious and it leads to anxiety and underachieving.

 

[Ahadi]

It's an entirely different and disconnected form of socialization. Creates a lot of isolation and distance, even from the people you are around every day, like in middle school or high school.

Around 1998, I was 12/13, and I had little 7th grade girlfriends, a lot of that was just looks, I didn't have a lot of game or even confidence, or extroversion at that age. Still am pretty reserved in a lot of social situations but it's something I can turn on whenever I want. It wasn't like a walked up to them and said some smooth shyt, and then we were "going out". But I did talk to girls, that was NORMAL back then. Girls you had class with hooked you up with their friends. You said whats up with Tiffany? They said ohh she thinks you are fine. We walked the mall, we walked Six Flags. We on dates to the movies. I had girls come up to me, and I'd just be about as smooth as a 7th grader could be, which is not that smooth, but it's interaction.

These kids are socialized to resent and mistrust each other through social media, before they have even kissed a girl, kissed a guy. It's something that should be addressed by all politicians and all levels of government.

Different times. They rather pay streamers or other ppl to approach instead of living life themselves.

Learning “game” from strangers without having experienced for themselves.

 

[Ahadi]

yea the key was getting desensitized to rejection and learning not to overthink the engagement
these we chat dudes need to keep at it and refine their skills / open up the repetoire. no other way to go about it

Sports is good for that as well.

 

[Ohene]

This gem right here is so important in many areas of life. We oftentimes take interactions too serious and it leads to anxiety and underachieving.

Yup

One time a friend was visiting me and after he arrived i was asking if hed be down to go out to a bar or sumn. He said nah mentioning how he needed to cut his hair

I asked him, “in the trip you took here, on the subway, while walking etc…how many faces can you honestly say you remember?” He said like two people maybe.

So out of 100s of people, only two people could he remember. the same way he isnt watching/noticing others…nobody is checkin for him. So who cares if your hair isnt done…thats some female shyt lol.

People think way too much about ppls perceptions instead of just living life.