Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Silkk

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Some people just do not fit together no matter how bad you want it to.
 

Silkk

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Only really got 2 chicks, Thinking of going dark on both tbh.
 
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We take turns paying when we go out.
She never needs to know how much I make or have.

Is this a serious relationship, or just dating? How did you establish this pattern? Did you flat out tell her you want to take turns paying? At what point do you share personal finance stuff?
 

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Brehs I done fukked up :mjcry:

I split with my ex a few months back, life is good recently, then she texts me tonight flirting like crazy and invites me over cause she "just wants a fukk", so I'm like aight cool, I get there and she's kinda drunk so she's being super honest and shyt, turns out she's seeing someone atm but they had a fight, he's ignoring her and she wanted "some attention" so got in touch with me. Now this is where any self-respecting dude tells her to bounce... but I've already come round to the idea I'm getting laid tonight so my dikk is overruling my brain so I smash but am confused af inside. Now I'm back home and I'm :mjcry:

:mjcry: Because I let myself be a cheap booty call when I should have put that bytch in her place and cause i do still have feelings for her plus she's bad af so I'm back at square one where I was when we split except now she some got some other dude and I'm a jealous mf :birdman:

I hope this is just post nut clarity :lupe:
 

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After going on a streak of matching with walruses. A super liked matched me a cutie. Haven’t said shyt cause my game ass. Help me brehs
 

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Brehs I done fukked up :mjcry:

I split with my ex a few months back, life is good recently, then she texts me tonight flirting like crazy and invites me over cause she "just wants a fukk", so I'm like aight cool, I get there and she's kinda drunk so she's being super honest and shyt, turns out she's seeing someone atm but they had a fight, he's ignoring her and she wanted "some attention" so got in touch with me. Now this is where any self-respecting dude tells her to bounce... but I've already come round to the idea I'm getting laid tonight so my dikk is overruling my brain so I smash but am confused af inside. Now I'm back home and I'm :mjcry:

:mjcry: Because I let myself be a cheap booty call when I should have put that bytch in her place and cause i do still have feelings for her plus she's bad af so I'm back at square one where I was when we split except now she some got some other dude and I'm a jealous mf :birdman:

I hope this is just post nut clarity :lupe:

This is where the story should have ended breh...You fukked up...badly.

At this stage I don't even think you can pull it back.
She has already moved on from you and she thinks she has you on standby when things are quiet for her.
She probably lost respect for you that night when she told you straight up, I'm just using you for the night and you were willing to be used. :ufdup:
 

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Brehs I done fukked up :mjcry:

I split with my ex a few months back, life is good recently, then she texts me tonight flirting like crazy and invites me over cause she "just wants a fukk", so I'm like aight cool, I get there and she's kinda drunk so she's being super honest and shyt, turns out she's seeing someone atm but they had a fight, he's ignoring her and she wanted "some attention" so got in touch with me. Now this is where any self-respecting dude tells her to bounce... but I've already come round to the idea I'm getting laid tonight so my dikk is overruling my brain so I smash but am confused af inside. Now I'm back home and I'm :mjcry:

:mjcry: Because I let myself be a cheap booty call when I should have put that bytch in her place and cause i do still have feelings for her plus she's bad af so I'm back at square one where I was when we split except now she some got some other dude and I'm a jealous mf :birdman:

I hope this is just post nut clarity :lupe:

Not to make light of your situation my nygga... but it'd be funny as hell if another breh followed with:

"Brehs! :damn: I done fukked up :mjcry:

I'm seeing someone new but we got into a fight and I'm ignoring her but I think she's gettin her back blown out by her ex:mjcry:

Now I'm back home waiting for her to text back like :mjcry:"


:mjlol:










My bad breh :whoa:
 

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After going on a streak of matching with walruses. A super liked matched me a cutie. Haven’t said shyt cause my game ass. Help me brehs

You just gotta stop overthinking it, that's the worst thing you can do, just play it cool and remember that she's obviously interested in you too if she matched. You already got past the hard part.

If she's bad then don't gas her up, every dude in her inbox is doing that and she's bored of it. Play it cool and treat her like she's a 5. If you can, try and get her talking about herself, they love that more than anything and it shows you're interested in them.

If she's one of those blank bio bytches then it's hard to open so you gotta look for something in her pics you think you can make conversation about and take it from there.
 
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