Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Straw Hat Luffy]

You got to start believing what you think and say has an impact on your world. Stop underestimating the power of your brain-- the power of your thoughts and the strength of language. You might not always say what's on your mind but it can be revealed in your body language and tone. And what you actually do say not only has an impact on you subconsciously but it tells others how to treat you without them knowing as well.

Avoid arrogance but start believing in your confidence. Being comfortable in your own skin should be your number 1 goal before any other decision.
You should be the dope version of YOU. fukk the females. If you're not your best version then you're not even having the best time you could possibly have on this earth. And you only got one life.

Think about some of your personal favorite people you like to hang out with. Why do you hang out with them? Why are they your favorite people?
If there were another you would the other you be your best friend?

Eat right. Dress right. Think the right thoughts. Gain that CONFIDENCE.

Being the best version of you will have you treating others how you want to be be treated. The energy will be reciprocal.

Put the energy out there that you want.

And yes this boils down to women.

If you're struggling it's nobody fault but yours.

 

[King]

I’m noticing that the more you talk about yourself, the more interested she gets

Especially when you approach em

They really don’t like that whole interrogation “where are you from, what do you do” shyt.

Make it all about you, what you wanna talk about, and she’ll eat that shyt up

 

[Soundbwoy]

Do y’all ghost chicks or do you let them down easy?
I was chilling with this Jamaican chick but my schedule is crazy right now and I’m feeling my trini joint better so I sent her a text to let her know the timing wasn’t great forme and she kept the door open

 

[J Money]

There's one Asian lady with beautiful eyes that works in my local supermarket. I always see her looking, I just got a haircut about 30 mins ago and saw her again. Started up conversation, found out she's from Bangladesh. Nice lady, gonna ask her for her number next time I see her

 

[CP3.]

Seeing a girl tmrw and I don't know shyt about her I just texted her off snapchat and got straight to the point and asked her to meet up. Never walked into a linkup this blind so I'm a lil nervous but it's gonna be exciting and interesting

This is a good thing. Means you have lots to talk about. When I've met people from apps after talking for a day or two it can be a little awkward trying to find fresh conversation.

c*nt didn’t answer me. Done super liking these bytches. I’m delete this shyt soon and start working just daily just to distract myself. I don’t get why these cute girls match with me but don’t talk to me or when I try to set something up they just go dry. Damn breh I’m not perfect but I’m not ugly.

Happens to us all man Are you looking for a relationship or just hook ups?

 

[Rozay Oro]

Happens to us all man Are you looking for a relationship or just hook ups?

A relationship would be nice but I know they all just want dikk

 

[Primetime]

After going on a streak of matching with walruses. A super liked matched me a cutie. Haven’t said shyt cause my game ass. Help me brehs

c*nt didn’t answer me. Done super liking these bytches. I’m delete this shyt soon and start working just daily just to distract myself. I don’t get why these cute girls match with me but don’t talk to me or when I try to set something up they just go dry. Damn breh I’m not perfect but I’m not ugly.

If after several weeks all you're matchin up with are walruses and pretty chicks who only match with you bc you "super liked" them... that pretty much lets you know what your sexual market value is (on Tinder anyway).

Remember: Tinder is superficial by design and oversaturated with "well I'm not ugly..." ass nyggas.

You may need a different app (Hinge) or a different approach (go outside).

If you're running into the same issues outside of Tinder, then something something self-improvement nygga

 

[Rozay Oro]

If after several weeks all you're matchin up with are walruses and pretty chicks who only match with you bc you "super liked" them... that pretty much lets you know what your sexual market value is (on Tinder anyway).

Remember: Tinder is superficial by design and oversaturated with "well I'm not ugly..." ass nyggas.

You may need a different app (Hinge) or a different approach (go outside).

If you're running into the same issues outside of Tinder, then something something self-improvement nygga

Just deleted the shyt. Just gonna focus on this bread and the gym

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

I keep telling you nikkas dating apps non cannon quit taking that shyt serious.

A majority of them girls not swiping right or responding can’t resist your macking in person

 

[Atlrocafella]

Starting talking to a girl I knew from high school and we catches up and everything was going good I just found out on our phone convo that she’s lives in okc and I live in queens ny the vibes was really good but it’s useless now cuz we live so far away

The best vibes be with chicks that don’t even be in your city. I know how that shyt goes too well

 

[TheArchitect]

What would you guys suggest?

To put it simply, I lack sexual experience, and I'm turning 37 in a couple weeks.

I've been with a couple of females (never paid), had a couple gfs, but they were all lackluster to say the least. I can't even honestly say I've been "turned out" so to speak.

I already know how most women are about inexperienced men; for some reason its a real turn off for them.

I feel like once they figure out I'm sort of green, they'll be turned off and ghost my ass.

I've kind of gotten myself in this odd predicament, and have no clue what to do about it. Perhaps maybe get myself a casual gf? Make some sort of arrangement with an escort? I really have no idea of the best route....

 

[Notley]

What would you guys suggest?

To put it simply, I lack sexual experience, and I'm turning 37 in a couple weeks.

I've been with a couple of females (never paid), had a couple gfs, but they were all lackluster to say the least. I can't even honestly say I've been "turned out" so to speak.QUOTE]

It is not the woman's responsibility to make sure that you get "turned out." It is your responsibility.

Most men learn from movies and TV to be gentle and romantic. What I've learned is that being aggressive and dominant during sex is more fun, and enjoyable for both of you.

In the past, I didn't get aggressive and dominant until I had decided to bush a few chicks. Just me being dominate and aggressive sexually turned a few relationships around.

My advice to you is to not worry about her pleasure. Your first responsibility is to be as nasty and dominant as she lets you.

 

[Silkk]

What would you guys suggest?

To put it simply, I lack sexual experience, and I'm turning 37 in a couple weeks.

I've been with a couple of females (never paid), had a couple gfs, but they were all lackluster to say the least. I can't even honestly say I've been "turned out" so to speak.

I already know how most women are about inexperienced men; for some reason its a real turn off for them.

I feel like once they figure out I'm sort of green, they'll be turned off and ghost my ass.

I've kind of gotten myself in this odd predicament, and have no clue what to do about it. Perhaps maybe get myself a casual gf? Make some sort of arrangement with an escort? I really have no idea of the best route....

The best route to do what?

 

[Asiatic Black Hebrew]

Had a chick fly out to my city to try & put me in a backup role for her visit. This bytch flew out here to fukk this other dude she's cool with, but has been hitting me up to "hang out" while she's here...probably just to keep her occupied while the other dude is at work. No thanks.

Looked at her story this morning & she spent her first night here at dudes house. When she texts me later I'm gonna tell her to have a blast with homeboy.

Focus on yourselves brehs.

 

[TRUEST]

What would you guys suggest?

To put it simply, I lack sexual experience, and I'm turning 37 in a couple weeks.

I've been with a couple of females (never paid), had a couple gfs, but they were all lackluster to say the least. I can't even honestly say I've been "turned out" so to speak.

I already know how most women are about inexperienced men; for some reason its a real turn off for them.

I feel like once they figure out I'm sort of green, they'll be turned off and ghost my ass.

I've kind of gotten myself in this odd predicament, and have no clue what to do about it. Perhaps maybe get myself a casual gf? Make some sort of arrangement with an escort? I really have no idea of the best route....

Don’t ever use the phrase “turned out” to describe yourself. It’s a phrase generally used by and on women who transition from normal girls to raving nymphomaniacs. It’s also used to describe men who turn gay.

with regards to your situation, get u an escort. But do not do not do not fucck without a condom. No blow jobs from her either. Just use her for practice.

above all else, watch what u say around these women. No one needs to know you’re inexperienced.