Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Sonny Bonds

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What would you guys suggest?

To put it simply, I lack sexual experience, and I'm turning 37 in a couple weeks.

I've been with a couple of females (never paid), had a couple gfs, but they were all lackluster to say the least. I can't even honestly say I've been "turned out" so to speak.

I already know how most women are about inexperienced men; for some reason its a real turn off for them.

I feel like once they figure out I'm sort of green, they'll be turned off and ghost my ass.

I've kind of gotten myself in this odd predicament, and have no clue what to do about it. Perhaps maybe get myself a casual gf? Make some sort of arrangement with an escort? I really have no idea of the best route....
Use dating apps. Talk to some women and go on dates. It’s the only way.
 

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Do y’all ghost chicks or do you let them down easy?
I was chilling with this Jamaican chick but my schedule is crazy right now and I’m feeling my trini joint better so I sent her a text to let her know the timing wasn’t great forme and she kept the door open:youngsabo:


Ghost now
Like I said unless I’m in a relationship with someone I owe them nothing
 

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Bothering a chick at work with his phone out filming like a goofball.

:francis:

The most disturbing thing is this is very normal behavior for this new generation:francis: :snoop:

How do they not know if you walk up to a girl anywhere, let alone at work with a camera in their face your getting rejected off GP.

Scratch that I think they do know. It's a defeatist attitude.
They go in knowing they will get rejected with that approach, but catch it on camera to make fun of themselves/Light of the situation, when inside they :mjcry:
 

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What would you guys suggest?

To put it simply, I lack sexual experience, and I'm turning 37 in a couple weeks.

I've been with a couple of females (never paid), had a couple gfs, but they were all lackluster to say the least. I can't even honestly say I've been "turned out" so to speak.

I already know how most women are about inexperienced men; for some reason its a real turn off for them.

I feel like once they figure out I'm sort of green, they'll be turned off and ghost my ass.

I've kind of gotten myself in this odd predicament, and have no clue what to do about it. Perhaps maybe get myself a casual gf? Make some sort of arrangement with an escort? I really have no idea of the best route....

They never need to know breh. Lie about that shyt like you do on your resumé.
You see how some of them divide their body count by 3? You multiply yours by 5,depending on how little yours is :mjgrin:
A virgin I was messing with, asked my body count, I gave her an absurdly high number, asked me the last time I was with anyone, I told her 2 days before I came to her spot, she got disgusted on some :picard: and got mad

She hit me up later saying she's always wanted a man with experience to be her first :wow:
I went over there to do the needful :wow:

All my earlier flings, I had them believing I've been fukking for long, and I had the confidence and composure to match :takedat:

TL;DR- dont let them know you're inexperienced, just learn on the job ...I'd tell you to strap up but you're 37, probably wealthy enough to take care of a child
 

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I’m noticing that the more you talk about yourself, the more interested she gets

Especially when you approach em

They really don’t like that whole interrogation “where are you from, what do you do” shyt.

Make it all about you, what you wanna talk about, and she’ll eat that shyt up :myman:

Yo, this is the truth.

The ONE thing you brehs can do to make conversation go easier is to just talk about whatever you want to talk about. If you're gonna ask her questions, ask her about things you legit want to know about her. This is the same thing you do with your bros. Women are not different.

Disclaimer: Just like everything else in this thread, she has to already want you in order for this to lead to sex. This is just good advice in general for any of you who struggle with socializing.
 

The Radiant One

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Ok Coli brehs I met with the Tawkify match maker over zoom.

Basics I tell her what I want she states she will interview these women and in a week she will send me the match.


I live in Atlanta
Who am I?
33 year old black physician never married
1 child but lives with the mother and mother won't let me see kid due to legal child support being low
No pets
6 foot
250k+ salary
Weigh 215 lbs work out 5 times a week.
I work 14 days a month
I have a wealth building philosophy


I gave my preference (black) but open to other races.
What am I looking for? Long term relationship with marriage as a possibility wants children.
Age range 21-30 I'm 33 don't see the point of expanding my age range
Must be fit, feminine and friendly
Preference to Christian religion
No less than 5 feet tall
No less than 40-50k salary
Must be goal oriented
Must have a college degree. (I gave leeway saying no high college debt)
Deal breakers
No kids
No cigarette smoking


Interview questions she will ask them

1. Where do you see yourself in 1 to 5 years? Getting married? When is your ideal marriage time?
2. What should a man bring to a relationship? What do you bring to a relationship?

When she asked me what I liked I said well I find East african women to be beautiful as a phenotype.

She will screen and conduct the interview with these women and let me know when she finds a match.
 
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