Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Malikthegod]

It's time I tell my story...met shorty and everything was all fine and dandy as usual but with a twist. This chick would actually go out of her way to do stuff for me, like pay for stuff without me asking. She didn't require any wining and dining. She would come over cook and we would just watch a movie. Man I was like man she's too good to be true (as I would soon find out)
First red flag appeared when she would tell me about her past. Every dude she was involved with was either in a relationship or she was their side piece. And it seemed like she was perfectly cool fulfilling that role. Also she cheated on the dudes she was in a relationship with, and when she explained it she made it seem as if dudes behavior drove her to be unfaithful.
So one day we go out to an aquarium which was her idea and while we were there she's all over me all lovey covey and holding hands. Later that evening she left me alone with her phone and temptation got the best of me and I snooped (one of the low status behaviors that I exhibited throughout the relationship that I'm not proud of. Part of being a man is being able to see what mistakes you've made and take responsibility.) Anyway, I see her texting some dude and he's like wher are you at? And she's like I'm at the aquarium and dude was like are you on a date? And she's like nah I let some dude take me and I just pretended I like him lol. That took me aback like a mugg. I was like whoaaa hold up. This was YOUR idea and you were all over MY balls? I was very conflicted, like why is she straight up telling lies like that? I also saw her texting other dudes and the, asking her if she has a man now and she was like nah ( we weren't officially together at the time but we acted as if we were, so I technically couldn't get too mad at her) that made me go hmmmm....I should've heeded those warnings because the situation only got worse from there

 

[iBrowse]

From now on, you should recommend more cologne for cats to use. Women are keen on all six senses, that wearing good cologne def helps in breaking the ice

I didn't wanna bring up a 6 month old post but Creed is the best to me bar none...



Oh and even though it isn't cologne, Molton Brown has ALWAYS worked with these girls in the soap department

 

[iBrowse]

Preciate that description. I feel you on that. I gravitate towards certain colognes because it's more to my personality. I like smooth, laid back but still with a punch sort of scents. Not a huge fan of real loud scents that's punching everyone in the nose.

An expensive one I dig that has a real manly vibe to it is Creed Aventus. Mad expensive though. Dolce & Gabanna the one goes hard as well.

Lol @ the bolded; just read this Kev...haha now I know you got good tastes.

 

[Jesus]

How do you dudes feel about feminist in general? Why such the negative view of these broads?

 

[kevm3]

Lol @ the bolded; just read this Kev...haha now I know you got good tastes.

creed virgin island water is probably my favorite cologne followed by d&g the one. Haven't gotten around to buying d&g the one yet. I spent a small fortune on colognes.

 

[kevm3]

It's time I tell my story...met shorty and everything was all fine and dandy as usual but with a twist. This chick would actually go out of her way to do stuff for me, like pay for stuff without me asking. She didn't require any wining and dining. She would come over cook and we would just watch a movie. Man I was like man she's too good to be true (as I would soon find out)
First red flag appeared when she would tell me about her past. Every dude she was involved with was either in a relationship or she was their side piece. And it seemed like she was perfectly cool fulfilling that role. Also she cheated on the dudes she was in a relationship with, and when she explained it she made it seem as if dudes behavior drove her to be unfaithful.
So one day we go out to an aquarium which was her idea and while we were there she's all over me all lovey covey and holding hands. Later that evening she left me alone with her phone and temptation got the best of me and I snooped (one of the low status behaviors that I exhibited throughout the relationship that I'm not proud of. Part of being a man is being able to see what mistakes you've made and take responsibility.) Anyway, I see her texting some dude and he's like wher are you at? And she's like I'm at the aquarium and dude was like are you on a date? And she's like nah I let some dude take me and I just pretended I like him lol. That took me aback like a mugg. I was like whoaaa hold up. This was YOUR idea and you were all over MY balls? I was very conflicted, like why is she straight up telling lies like that? I also saw her texting other dudes and the, asking her if she has a man now and she was like nah ( we weren't officially together at the time but we acted as if we were, so I technically couldn't get too mad at her) that made me go hmmmm....I should've heeded those warnings because the situation only got worse from there

There's nothing wrong with you looking in the phone. That "I don't look in phones cuz I'M A MAN" rhetoric is nonsense. If negroes don't want to get the real deal truth, that's on them, but a lot of guys will find out their woman is way different than they thought when they see how she acts when he isn't around. Great thing you found out early before you really got caught up. You see why I'm chilling on all of that? There was no need for her to try and play you like that, when it was her that invited you out in the first place.

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

How do you dudes feel about feminist in general? Why such the negative view of these broads?

With any movement you're going to have your extremists. I think feminism gets a bad rap due to it's extremists in the same way that Muslims get a bad rap for their's. It's supposed to be about equality but it seems like that focus has shifted. I do feel like the single mother epidemic and feminism are closely intertwined as well. That's just my opinion.

 

[Atlrocafella]

It's time I tell my story...met shorty and everything was all fine and dandy as usual but with a twist. This chick would actually go out of her way to do stuff for me, like pay for stuff without me asking. She didn't require any wining and dining. She would come over cook and we would just watch a movie. Man I was like man she's too good to be true (as I would soon find out)
First red flag appeared when she would tell me about her past. Every dude she was involved with was either in a relationship or she was their side piece. And it seemed like she was perfectly cool fulfilling that role. Also she cheated on the dudes she was in a relationship with, and when she explained it she made it seem as if dudes behavior drove her to be unfaithful.
So one day we go out to an aquarium which was her idea and while we were there she's all over me all lovey covey and holding hands. Later that evening she left me alone with her phone and temptation got the best of me and I snooped (one of the low status behaviors that I exhibited throughout the relationship that I'm not proud of. Part of being a man is being able to see what mistakes you've made and take responsibility.) Anyway, I see her texting some dude and he's like wher are you at? And she's like I'm at the aquarium and dude was like are you on a date? And she's like nah I let some dude take me and I just pretended I like him lol. That took me aback like a mugg. I was like whoaaa hold up. This was YOUR idea and you were all over MY balls? I was very conflicted, like why is she straight up telling lies like that? I also saw her texting other dudes and the, asking her if she has a man now and she was like nah ( we weren't officially together at the time but we acted as if we were, so I technically couldn't get too mad at her) that made me go hmmmm....I should've heeded those warnings because the situation only got worse from there

Finish the story breh

 

[kevm3]

The problem with feminists is that they are not interested in any kind of 'equality'. They are interested in female superiority in which they create a subservient class of man slaves to do their bidding, but sadly enough, even if they were to create such a thing, they would feel disgusted at their own creations and deride them for the lack of 'manliness' exuded. It's little different than how if you were to mold yourself into the man a woman says she desires, she may 'awww' and 'you're so sweet' you for a couple of weeks, but her time would mysteriously become scarce and you will soon discover she is dealing with another guy who is the complete opposite of the man she said she desired.

If feminism was truly about equality and about women desiring to be judged with the same metric as men, then there would be few who would complain. None of us are against women having the right to vote or to be able to find a job. The problem comes when you realize that equality is nowhere near the objective. Women want the privileges that come with being a man and none of the responsibilities and they also want the privileges that come with being a traditional woman while having to live up to none of its tenets. In other words, these feminists want to create a sort of woman that can sleep around with whomever, whenever she wants and the man shouldn't be able to avoid her because her loose and promiscuous past. She doesn't have to cook or clean, but you as a man still should court her, take her to dinner, listen to her problems and uphold your 'manly duties,' aka 'manning up.' She should be able to kick, punch, or spit on a man, but she should expect no repercussions because 'it's not right to hit a lady.' She should be able to ceaselessly whine about the patriarchy and how it is holding her back, but she doesn't want to participate in the bone-grinding, back-breaking labor that is required to build and protect a civilization. She should be respected as an equal, but when she gets divorced, she should be able to live a financially worry free lifestyle via huge alimony and child support settlements instead of being forced to strike it out on her own like the man would be expected to do. When you REALLY look at modern feminism for what it is, there is not a drop of equality in it. At it's core is the self-serving desire of benefit hoarding and responsibility dodging utilizing the tools of victimhood, shaming and other psychological mechanisms to further it's shameful cause.

 

[kevm3]

This thread that was posted by 662 is a perfect example of exactly what we're talking about:

Is sleeping with 40 different men too many for a 23 year old girl? : relationships

look at those women trying to shame him for finding out about his woman sleeping with 40 guys at 23 and trying to shame him and make him find that acceptable. How do you think those same women would react if they find the guy they just met slept with 50 women at the age of 22 by looking in his phone. "UGH disgusting womanizing jerk." Do you think they would have the same reaction on 'snooping' if a woman posted something about finding something in her man's email account?

 

[MikelArteta]

It's time I tell my story...met shorty and everything was all fine and dandy as usual but with a twist. This chick would actually go out of her way to do stuff for me, like pay for stuff without me asking. She didn't require any wining and dining. She would come over cook and we would just watch a movie. Man I was like man she's too good to be true (as I would soon find out)
First red flag appeared when she would tell me about her past. Every dude she was involved with was either in a relationship or she was their side piece. And it seemed like she was perfectly cool fulfilling that role. Also she cheated on the dudes she was in a relationship with, and when she explained it she made it seem as if dudes behavior drove her to be unfaithful.
So one day we go out to an aquarium which was her idea and while we were there she's all over me all lovey covey and holding hands. Later that evening she left me alone with her phone and temptation got the best of me and I snooped (one of the low status behaviors that I exhibited throughout the relationship that I'm not proud of. Part of being a man is being able to see what mistakes you've made and take responsibility.) Anyway, I see her texting some dude and he's like wher are you at? And she's like I'm at the aquarium and dude was like are you on a date? And she's like nah I let some dude take me and I just pretended I like him lol. That took me aback like a mugg. I was like whoaaa hold up. This was YOUR idea and you were all over MY balls? I was very conflicted, like why is she straight up telling lies like that? I also saw her texting other dudes and the, asking her if she has a man now and she was like nah ( we weren't officially together at the time but we acted as if we were, so I technically couldn't get too mad at her) that made me go hmmmm....I should've heeded those warnings because the situation only got worse from there

Finish the story

I would have ended the relationship right then and there

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[Malikthegod]

Ok so I peeped shorty's phone and I saw her sending that to some guy and i saw her sending pics to other dudes and getting in contact with her ex boyfriend. It bothered me a lot because I was like I thought we liked each other why is she lying? I didn't mention it but it was weighing on my mind. All the stuff she was doing previously (the cooking and cooperating) I was ready to cuff. It was bothering me to the point where I had to say something. When I asked her about it she was like nah I only said that because I don't want people in my business , running back and telling people what I'm doing.
(Also another tidbit I forgot to add, this chick mentioned early on that she NEVER wanted kids and NEVER wanted to get married. For some reason that struck me as sorta odd. I have never known a chick to say she NEVER wants kids)

But anyways I confronted her about it and she brushed it off like it was nothing. I take her word for it and things go back to normal. Couple weeks later chick goes to get a physical and comes back and tells me she tested positive for an STD
She apologized profusely and said she understand if I never want to talk to her. My dumbass was hitting raw since we both claimed we were monogamous so I was exposed although I didn't display any symptoms. I knew for certain it wasn't me that was previously infected because before i started fooling with her i had just gotten tested and the first couple times i used protection. (and by couple times i literally mean 2. I smashed 2 times before i went up in her raw ) I was heated but my simp ass FORGAVE HER. I thought that would be the end and we'd be smooth sailing......smh

 

[Malikthegod]

Fast forward things are back to how they were, I'm lost In the sauce, this chick has my nose wide open so I start hinting at us becoming official while she ducking and dodging and dodging and giving me half assed answers. So one day she comes over the crib and I run through that phone again and I see her texting some dude at like 12am and he's telling her to get on Skype. Afterward she sends him a text talking about I wish you were single I'd like you better, and he goes on and says yeah if I didn't have a girlfriend or a kid with her you would be wifed. But blah blah blah. So I peep this and was like ok. I didn't say anything about it. Just acted normal. Later that night after I smash, she starts talking a out how she wants me to be her boyfriend (mind you she was JUST texting a dude how much she wished he was single) I didn't bring it up. I just said ok let's be together.
Next morning we eating breakfast and I play pretend and take her phone right in front of her and I scroll straight to the message. And I'm like so....what does this mean? You were just telling me you want me to be your boyfriend but you telling some guy you wish he was single? And this silly broad was like I meant I wish he was single so I could talk to him whenever I want, not only when it's convenient for him. I don't like part time friends

But like a simp I don't see the bullshyt for what it is and I buy her bullshyt explanation

 

[TRUEST]

Ok so I peeped shorty's phone and I saw her sending that to some guy and i saw her sending pics to other dudes and getting in contact with her ex boyfriend. It bothered me a lot because I was like I thought we liked each other why is she lying? I didn't mention it but it was weighing on my mind. All the stuff she was doing previously (the cooking and cooperating) I was ready to cuff. It was bothering me to the point where I had to say something. When I asked her about it she was like nah I only said that because I don't want people in my business , running back and telling people what I'm doing.
(Also another tidbit I forgot to add, this chick mentioned early on that she NEVER wanted kids and NEVER wanted to get married. For some reason that struck me as sorta odd. I have never known a chick to say she NEVER wants kids)

But anyways I confronted her about it and she brushed it off like it was nothing. I take her word for it and things go back to normal. Couple weeks later chick goes to get a physical and comes back and tells me she tested positive for an STD
She apologized profusely and said she understand if I never want to talk to her. My dumbass was hitting raw since we both claimed we were monogamous so I was exposed although I didn't display any symptoms. I knew for certain it wasn't me that was previously infected because before i started fooling with her i had just gotten tested and the first couple times i used protection. (and by couple times i literally mean 2. I smashed 2 times before i went up in her raw ) I was heated but my simp ass FORGAVE HER. I thought that would be the end and we'd be smooth sailing......smh

thats insane. i cant even fault u for giving her the chances u did. when ur already deeply invested in a chick emotionally speaking, its over. ur pretty much fuccked. jesus christ can come down and tell u to think twice and u'll still be on some "nah she might be telling the truth" type sh1t lol.

if there's more to this story. might as well finish it.

 

[TRUEST]

Fast forward things are back to how they were, I'm lost In the sauce, this chick has my nose wide open so I start hinting at us becoming official while she ducking and dodging and dodging and giving me half assed answers. So one day she comes over the crib and I run through that phone again and I see her texting some dude at like 12am and he's telling her to get on Skype. Afterward she sends him a text talking about I wish you were single I'd like you better, and he goes on and says yeah if I didn't have a girlfriend or a kid with her you would be wifed. But blah blah blah. So I peep this and was like ok. I didn't say anything about it. Just acted normal. Later that night after I smash, she starts talking a out how she wants me to be her boyfriend (mind you she was JUST texting a dude how much she wished he was single) I didn't bring it up. I just said ok let's be together.
Next morning we eating breakfast and I play pretend and take her phone right in front of her and I scroll straight to the message. And I'm like so....what does this mean? You were just telling me you want me to be your boyfriend but you telling some guy you wish he was single? And this silly broad was like I meant I wish he was single so I could talk to him whenever I want, not only when it's convenient for him. I don't like part time friends

But like a simp I don't see the bullshyt for what it is and I buy her bullshyt explanation

even though i'm a succka for love, it is at a point like this that i woulda just decided to smut that chick out. i'm talking, anally fuccking her, making her do sh1t that i really dont care for but sh1t that will demean her. nut on her face, if she does any single thing i dont like, i'll blow up on her with a fit anywhere, whether it be public or wherever. u goto figure, this relationship will end eventually. why not end with a bang. ironically, that could make her sprung off of u and want u harder...which can make ur already weakminded self start believing she really likes u now...when in fact, her affection is temporary...based off the facade you exhibited.