Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

One of the worst things I'd have to say is building up a woman, then she leaves and another man gets the benefits.

Sadly I didn't learn untill my second time.

You meet a chick with low self esteem struggling in every regard in life, your there for her, everyone in life has treated her bad, you treat her good, you build her up then poof.

Now the next nygga reaps all the benefits.

It's like signing a undrafted fa with a broken jump shoot and whose game sucks.

You spend time in the gym with them, encourage them, build them up then they avg 20 a gme forget about you and the next team reaps all the benefits and didn't have to put in the training, the long frustrating nights and days etc.

I wish I was smarter earlier in life than to build up broken azz women.

I'm telling all you men out there, be the new York Yankees, don't be the Miami marlins, Kansas City royals, Houston astros etc.

Don't be the feeder team, don't be the team that invests resources, time, and gives opportunities. Be the Yankees go after the finished sure thing product that is refined and consistent.



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[MikelArteta]

lol i usually peeped their profiles or whatever for a couple of days. but after that i delete them with the quickness. and remove all their contact info from immediate reach. if i have to hunt to find sh1t, chances are i'll just be like fucck it. that's always worked. i dont have the heart to find out who someone i once loved is dating. yall n1ggas that have gone through that, i dont know. u must have a heart of steel. me, not built for that life. not knowing for sure is waaaay better lol.

I remember last year I was searching for a ex on fb couldn't find her......

The reason I couldn't was because she was married. It stung for little bit because at one point in my life, I thought I would marry her.

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[kevm3]

Man life is so much more beautiful when you see things for what they are... when you look through the lens of reality instead of a fantasy... when you no longer try to pave over the cold-hard truth with what you'd like reality to be.

A cycle many men get caught up in is trying to loyalize the disloyal with 'your game' or 'your sex techniques'. I hear guys talking about you better sex her right to keep her loyal. That isn't going to hold a cheater. That's the male equivalent of a female thinking she has the magic cooch and is going to throw it on a guy and turn him loyal. Loyalty isn't something that you can cultivate in another person. It has to exist as a part of their moral character. You won't sex, convince or trick someone else into being loyal. You may keep them in your company longer, but that's all you are doing. What you have to realize in this day and age is that many women are simply not the wifeable type. When you realize that, you simply stop doing a lot of sucker/simp behavior, trying to 'please' a woman into loyalty. She should be loyal off of the bat that she respects what a relationship entails. If you have to do something extra to 'prove' why she should remain loyal, then why are you even dealing with her? What makes her so special that you have to "prove" why she should be loyal? Men keep on trying to do these tips and tricks and tactics to convince themselves they will have exclusive access to the vagina, but it won't work. You will be manipulated all day long and she might tell you she's loyal all the while sleeping with another guy or guys on the side.

That's why I don't really bother too much with these women and I've just really been focused on developing myself and enjoying life. It's too much trouble unless you've come across that hidden gem. You really don't know how much of a relief it is not to be with a woman and having to worry about what in the world she is doing. You might think being a player and having a whole bunch of hoes is the solution, but that is until you catch an std, get a baby pinned on you, come across her boyfriend or husband she didn't tell you about or just have to deal with the nonstop drama.

If men were smart, they'd use this extra free time to go back engaging in what made men builders and leaders of society, which is experiment with building things and just progressing in knowledge and righteousness.

 

[MikelArteta]

Man life is so much more beautiful when you see things for what they are... when you look through the lens of reality instead of a fantasy... when you no longer try to pave over the cold-hard truth with what you'd like reality to be.

A cycle many men get caught up in is trying to loyalize the disloyal with 'your game' or 'your sex techniques'. I hear guys talking about you better sex her right to keep her loyal. That isn't going to hold a cheater. That's the male equivalent of a female thinking she has the magic cooch and is going to throw it on a guy and turn him loyal. Loyalty isn't something that you can cultivate in another person. It has to exist as a part of their moral character. You won't sex, convince or trick someone else into being loyal. You may keep them in your company longer, but that's all you are doing. What you have to realize in this day and age is that many women are simply not the wifeable type. When you realize that, you simply stop doing a lot of sucker/simp behavior, trying to 'please' a woman into loyalty. She should be loyal off of the bat that she respects what a relationship entails. If you have to do something extra to 'prove' why she should remain loyal, then why are you even dealing with her? What makes her so special that you have to "prove" why she should be loyal? Men keep on trying to do these tips and tricks and tactics to convince themselves they will have exclusive access to the vagina, but it won't work. You will be manipulated all day long and she might tell you she's loyal all the while sleeping with another guy or guys on the side.

That's why I don't really bother too much with these women and I've just really been focused on developing myself and enjoying life. It's too much trouble unless you've come across that hidden gem. You really don't know how much of a relief it is not to be with a woman and having to worry about what in the world she is doing. You might think being a player and having a whole bunch of hoes is the solution, but that is until you catch an std, get a baby pinned on you, come across her boyfriend or husband she didn't tell you about or just have to deal with the nonstop drama.

If men were smart, they'd use this extra free time to go back engaging in what made men builders and leaders of society, which is experiment with building things and just progressing in knowledge and righteousness.

Let the church say Amen!


The three most important things in relationships to me is loyalty, honesty and communication and women of today barely have these skills.

Women seem to live one life on line, one for the man that tingles her, one for the simp, one for all her other guy friends.

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[TRUEST]

I remember last year I was searching for a ex on fb couldn't find her......

The reason I couldn't was because she was married. It stung for little bit because at one point in my life, I thought I would marry her.

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i refuse to give in to that urge because of sh1t like that. i'm not built for that. lol. u keep snooping around u gon end up finding some sh1t u dont wanna know.

i'm glad things ended on my terms wit my ex. she sent me multiple texts which i managed to ignore. she probably got to a point and just went like fucck it. and stopped. dont wanna know what shes up to. being the party animal that she is, i'm sure she's being used and dumped regularly. i dont wanna confirm that though lol

 

[MikelArteta]

i refuse to give in to that urge because of sh1t like that. i'm not built for that. lol. u keep snooping around u gon end up finding some sh1t u dont wanna know.

i'm glad things ended on my terms wit my ex. she sent me multiple texts which i managed to ignore. she probably got to a point and just went like fucck it. and stopped. dont wanna know what shes up to. being the party animal that she is, i'm sure she's being used and dumped regularly. i dont wanna confirm that though lol

I'm at that point now I stopped looking. The past is the past.

That's why this generation sucks somewhat even ten years ago when it was over. If you didn't call or text or see her you never knew her life. Now with social media, even signing up for a dating site you may see her on there and it stings.

I remember a few years ago a chick broke up with me cu of school and she needed space, a few weeks later I saw her on a dating site

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[TRUEST]

I'm at that point now I stopped looking. The past is the past.

That's why this generation sucks somewhat even ten years ago when it was over. If you didn't call or text or see her you never knew her life. Now with social media, even signing up for a dating site you may see her on there and it stings.

I remember a few years ago a chick broke up with me cu of school and she needed space, a few weeks later I saw her on a dating site

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happened with that same ex of mine. but when it happened though i had dated so many women that it didnt hurt as much as i thought it would. i'm sure she saw my profile though cause a month or so after i saw her prof. she hit me up on some "i missed u so much. i think about u and i smile...".

if u guys out there dont knwo what advice to follow when dealing with women. and u had to pick one advice, from my perspective, make sure ur ass got multiple chicks ur dealing with. i tell u, in all my experience, it is this alone that have kept me from appearing desperate and saying stupid sh1t when dealing with women.

 

[MikelArteta]

happened with that same ex of mine. but when it happened though i had dated so many women that it didnt hurt as much as i thought it would. i'm sure she saw my profile though cause a month or so after i saw her prof. she hit me up on some "i missed u so much. i think about u and i smile...".

if u guys out there dont knwo what advice to follow when dealing with women. and u had to pick one advice, from my perspective, make sure ur ass got multiple chicks ur dealing with. i tell u, in all my experience, it is this alone that have kept me from appearing desperate and saying stupid sh1t when dealing with women.

Imagine a pitcher who just throws one pitch?

Even pitchers have a arsenal of different pitchers even though you my never use it.

However even if you just have one, fake it till you make it.

Oneitis is sickening disease that many men fall into.

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[Atlrocafella]

happened with that same ex of mine. but when it happened though i had dated so many women that it didnt hurt as much as i thought it would. i'm sure she saw my profile though cause a month or so after i saw her prof. she hit me up on some "i missed u so much. i think about u and i smile...".

if u guys out there dont knwo what advice to follow when dealing with women. and u had to pick one advice, from my perspective, make sure ur ass got multiple chicks ur dealing with. i tell u, in all my experience, it is this alone that have kept me from appearing desperate and saying stupid sh1t when dealing with women.

Always said this. Keep that backup roster active just in case. Won't catch me crying on the floor begging for one chick back. Nahhhhh

 

[MikelArteta]

Damn I may go on a second date with this broad.

Fml

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[MikelArteta]

Always said this. Keep that backup roster active just in case. Won't catch me crying on the floor begging for one chick back. Nahhhhh

:swag:

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[TRUEST]

Damn I may go on a second date with this broad.

Fml

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details. she finally hit u up after all the lame ass games? lol

 

[iBrowse]

Breh for real I remember that feeling... It hurts more when you see her flirting with dude and he seems to just wanna make her a jumpoff meanwhile you was damn near ready to marry the girl SMH

<---this face tho

Seriously, tho breh, when these females always hit you up without fail on one of those cryptic "hey" texts at 2:34 in the a.m. (this happened last week on my birthday ) followed by a text later on that day talking about how "I hope you decided to travel for your birthday" later on in the afternoon, (we had been talking about linking up in NY for 6 days for my birthday for months)....the euphoric feeling of how they know they will put your mind at ease...

It never ceases to astonish me at how they really think that whole "let the bird fly away and if it comes back it loves you" bullyshyt makes sense

Bonus: I deleted and blocked this chick from insta and FB, and before the 2 a.m. text on my birthday she had her sister add me to FB; probably to get the scoop on a chick I've been talking to since

I wonder what prompted her trying to get back with me?

 

[MikelArteta]

details. she finally hit u up after all the lame ass games? lol

She hit me up yesterday and again today.

Taking it slow and pondering what stpps to take

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[MikelArteta]

<---this face tho

Seriously, tho breh, when these females always hit you up without fail on one of those cryptic "hey" texts at 2:34 in the a.m. (this happened last week on my birthday ) followed by a text later on that day talking about how "I hope you decided to travel for your birthday" later on in the afternoon, (we had been talking about linking up in NY for 6 days for my birthday for months)....the euphoric feeling of how they know they will put your mind at ease...

It never ceases to astonish me at how they really think that whole "let the bird fly away and if it comes back it loves you" bullyshyt makes sense

Bonus: I deleted and blocked this chick from insta and FB, and before the 2 a.m. text on my birthday she had her sister add me to FB; probably to get the scoop on a chick I've been talking to since

I wonder what prompted her trying to get back with me?

When you no longer care that's when they do

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