I'd reckon every good looking female has her fair share of simps she keeps at a distance (zero priority), a few quality 9-5'ers that she may or may not be sleeping with (middle of the pack), and about 1 or 2 apex guys who she is always readily available for when her number is called to come get that ass torn up lol, knowing damn well she's one of many getting smutted out.
Ultimately we each gotta look in the mirror and determine what spectrum we average out at, and either we rock with where we at or we keep on improving ourselves like we should until we're where we want to be.