Quick gems
One thing you have to master is calibration. What I mean by that is, when they test you (and they will) you have to learn to check them or respond just the right amount. Not too soft to where they don't respect it, but not too hard where you end up crushing their whole self esteem and soul. It's a delicate balance that i personally have found hard to achieve with certain girls. It's like dealing with ungrateful eternal teenagers. You love them but sometimes you feel like telling them some evil shyt that will sit on their soul for a while but yet you have to learn restraint because you "love" them
Also, another aspect of calibration is, finding the perfect balance between eradicating all neediness within you, yet still being charming, loving and inviting. The trick is to naturally be these things to all women whether you are attracted to them or not. That way it truly becomes you and doesn't become a technique or a mask you put on. You have to truly be that dude.