Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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One thing you have to master is calibration. What I mean by that is, when they test you (and they will) you have to learn to check them or respond just the right amount. Not too soft to where they don't respect it, but not too hard where you end up crushing their whole self esteem and soul. It's a delicate balance that i personally have found hard to achieve with certain girls. It's like dealing with ungrateful eternal teenagers. You love them but sometimes you feel like telling them some evil shyt that will sit on their soul for a while but yet you have to learn restraint because you "love" them :francis:

Also, another aspect of calibration is, finding the perfect balance between eradicating all neediness within you, yet still being charming, loving and inviting. The trick is to naturally be these things to all women whether you are attracted to them or not. That way it truly becomes you and doesn't become a technique or a mask you put on. You have to truly be that dude.

This shyts hard to do.

That's why sometimes, at my age, I'm like... nah. Not worth the energy.

:manny:
 

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For real

I see all the hassle some of these dudes go through for women and I always laugh :mjlol::laff:

No woman on this earth is really worth doing so much of this dumb shyt for
only in north america u gotta do all these bullshyt tactics


i got cousins back home married and they just sitting back doing none of these games :francis:
 

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My game is so on point when I'm off the lean lol just sum I noticed today cause guys be saying there game is good when they smoke but when I smoke my game gets even worse
 

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Women are everything.

Especially if you’re blowing up career wise, or socially. They may not hit the “like” but they see EVERYTHING.
 

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The amount of profiles I'm seeing with women talking about gaining covid weight and how they're trying to lose it is hilarious. Especially considering a lot of these women were already one cheeseburger away or in a handful of cases 3 cheeseburgers over.

:picard:

Going to be a hard summer for a lot of broads.
 

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This shyts hard to do.

That's why sometimes, at my age, I'm like... nah. Not worth the energy.

:manny:
I agree but unfortunately, if a man wants to have kids and a family one day, it has to be done. And i feel like it would be pretty hard for a man to not learn this stuff and then one day get married and all of a sudden know and apply this stuff
 

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Welp I met her after work. Shes texting me the whole day asking if we're still on. Asking how if coming dressed up which since I'm coming from work is business casual. We went bowling.

She comes out make up done, hair done, lip gloss, perfume, crop top sweater in 30 degree weather under a pea coat. :patrice:

We split the bill :smugfavre:

I was sober the whole time unlike the first link ..... I realized that she's type annoying and I want her friend 100%:ehh:
 

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Just talked to my momma on the phone for 52 minutes. We were rambling about everything from Biden, to my pops getting his first vaccine shot, and to these racist ass cacs I work with. I’ve only seen my mom twice since last March, both times after being tested and social distancing from the test till the results. I know I’m gonna cry like a baby when I hug her again for the first time since 2019 though. She was crying on the phone to me about not being able to see her mom. My grandma is my last grandparent left. She had Covid in April, but we’re playing this shyt safe. “We want her to end up being the oldest nikka that ever lived on planet earth,” as my hilarious godmother said.

I MISS MY FAMILY YALL
 

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Just talked to my momma on the phone for 52 minutes. We were rambling about everything from Biden, to my pops getting his first vaccine shot, and to these racist ass cacs I work with. I’ve only seen my mom twice since last March, both times after being tested and social distancing from the test till the results. I know I’m gonna cry like a baby when I hug her again for the first time since 2019 though. She was crying on the phone to me about not being able to see her mom. My grandma is my last grandparent left. She had Covid in April, but we’re playing this shyt safe. “We want her to end up being the oldest nikka that ever lived on planet earth,” as my hilarious godmother said.

I MISS MY FAMILY YALL


Can yall set up facetime?
 

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The amount of profiles I'm seeing with women talking about gaining covid weight and how they're trying to lose it is hilarious. Especially considering a lot of these women were already one cheeseburger away or in a handful of cases 3 cheeseburgers over.

:picard:

Going to be a hard summer for a lot of broads.

brehs better come out of covid better than they were before. Its time to shine lol
 
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