Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

DJSmooth

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This might be long as shyt but I really need guidance. Going to try to make it short as possible. Long story short I got this girl snapchat from work before she quit. I live in SC she lives in GA. So her commute to work was like 40+ mins.

Shorty cute, got big tiddies, a little weight and an aite ass. I don’t understand how she’s single but anyways I’m not complaining. The last few bytches I dealt with kinda scarred me. Now I’m afraid to show any affection. She barely posts on Snapchat. She might be a loner, idk.

We have chopped it up and if I get the weekend off from work she said we can link up. She can cook and got a PlayStation 5.

I don’t want to fukk this up by simpin. So I have kept the communication to a minimum like only to set shyt up. I did tease her once when she made a post so she doesn’t think I only want to fukk. I don’t plan to do again nor much until this grows.

She broke the ice with me at work and eventually made it more obvious she was interested. I wasn’t bein a p*ssy I just don’t work with her but my position forces me to be around everybody. So i made my move when the ball was in my court.

Besides not simpin, keeping communication at minimum until this shyt becomes something more and dikking her down good. What else do I need to do?

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"I don’t want to fukk this up" leads to "caring too much". Caring too much leads to "simpin"

You sounds like you want her to cook. Offer to buy her food and she cooks. She either says yes or no. Other than that it shouldn't be that deep.

 

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"I don’t want to fukk this up" leads to "caring too much". Caring too much leads to "simpin"

You sounds like you want her to cook. Offer to buy her food and she cooks. She either says yes or no. Other than that it shouldn't be that deep.
It’s been quite sometime since my last relationship. I got really comfortable fukkin young bytches from tinder. Then girls I’ve been meeting organically only want my dikk and not me. This girl seems interested in more than just a fling.

I can be funny and entertaining. At my core I’m a hopeless romantic Babyface type breh who’s introverted and hides his anxiety, shyness and awkwardness with jokes. She doesn’t know me she just likes what she sees and what has been presented to her so far.

Last 3 non tinder bytches hurt my feelings so bad I almost didn’t even want to go for a new girl. Was planning on keeping to myself but bytches stay choosing and talking to me.
 

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Had a pleasant date on Sunday with this fine Mauritian woman. It wasn't even planned. Met her at my local park on Saturday then decided to meet up the next day at this outdoor eatery then chilled at a huge park that was near there since it was a nice day. We're both on IT so we had a lot to talk about as well as the usual shyt. Hoping to meet up with her again sometime soon.
 

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Had a pleasant date on Sunday with this fine Mauritian woman. It wasn't even planned. Met her at my local park on Saturday then decided to meet up the next day at this outdoor eatery then chilled at a huge park that was near there since it was a nice day. We're both on IT so we had a lot to talk about as well as the usual shyt. Hoping to meet up with her again sometime soon.

Just make sure not to spend too much time talking about work. Women you've just met should mentally associate you with fun, not work.
 
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So my gf just broke up with me after one year together. I can’t believe this shyt. She said she can’t do this anymore because of long distance and that she loves me way too much to only be with me once every two months. I’m so damn hurt because I put in so much efforts and time to make sure she was good, to go see her. I only imagine how I would feel if I was 100% invested on her and not myself and my goals. This is why I really can’t fully trust these women. A whole fkkn year and now you can’t do this. I told her to save her reasons and we should just end it now because I can’t be with someone texting me this after a whole year like we didn’t have a relationship. She started this whole shyt three weeks ago blaming it on depression and was being distant. Now I know she was planning it. All the shyt I did for her.:snoop: Only reason I’m not completely devastated is because I already know how the game is. This shyt hurts tho brehs.
 

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So my gf just broke up with me after one year together. I can’t believe this shyt. She said she can’t do this anymore because of long distance and that she loves me way too much to only be with me once every two months. I’m so damn hurt because I put in so much efforts and time to make sure she was good, to go see her. I only imagine how I would feel if I was 100% invested on her and not myself and my goals. This is why I really can’t fully trust these women. A whole fkkn year and now you can’t do this. I told her to save her reasons and we should just end it now because I can’t be with someone texting me this after a whole year like we didn’t have a relationship. She started this whole shyt three weeks ago blaming it on depression and was being distant. Now I know she was planning it. All the shyt I did for her.:snoop: Only reason I’m not completely devastated is because I already know how the game is. This shyt hurts tho brehs.

You messed up by having a long distance relationship while not looking for a backup QB to groom into the starting spot.

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You messed up by having a long distance relationship while not looking for a backup QB to groom into the starting spot.

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Yea, I had a roster of chicks I put on hold because I was trying to at least be better and honest. I can get back in there easily but it still sucks breh.
 

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Yea, I had a roster of chicks I put on hold because I was trying to at least be better and honest. I can get back in there easily but it still sucks breh.

I feel you breh. Ive been there too :mjcry:


But next time u just gotta remember that women are going to look out for their best interest first, so it would behoove you to do the same.

I used to get in my feelings when ive been broken up with. Nowadays when ppl do this, i just delete the number, dont respond and move on immediately
 
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