Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Not so quick Gem:

Once every 3-4 years, binge the whole Black Phillip Show series.

nikka :gucci:

Im finna do that shyt every 3-4 weeks :martin:

Stables empty :wtb:

Then again I have realized there’s a pattern in my life. When I’m fukking I’m fukking, but when the roster is zero, it’s almost no way out. This summer I’m looking at making the most money I’ve ever made yet :whoo: But Im gonna be so stingy Im not even gonna wanna entertain a bytch :ohlawd: New whip new investments :myman: and looking at a new place

Im a catch, if these hoes dont see it it ain’t my loss, bytches :childplease:
 

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I told shorty I just woke up I need to eat and do some things. She says ok lol. I said bet. Hit her up over an hour later. Leave my message on opened and posts a wall text on her Snapchat story. I’m not even clicking I can see the preview.

I’m heated. Do I be petty by going to the bar and posting myself on my story? Like wtf. She insecure?

met her two weeks ago. Last weekend couldn’t see her and she was cool bout it. Now she knows I’m free and did this weirdo shyt.

She a nicely shaped bbw with big titties. She was choosing on me my nikkas like wtf.
 

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:mjlol: Foh with the drought talk, talmbout some ol “Hey man I’m living thru yall I’m just glad yall getting puzzy”

I know that talk :unimpressed::ufdup:

























:to: Fresh prince why they don’t want me man :birdman:
Nah some people like when other people win. It’s a personality trait of empathy. You can take joy in the success of others. Some people have it. Some people don't. I'm like that.

The idea of dating right now makes me sick and exhausted because I'm newly single after 5 years. But seeing yall win gives me hope.
 

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I don’t think I will date a chick that’s not on birth control

I don’t like pregnancy scares


Please don’t let this girl be pregnant :sadcam:
 

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yes, MARRY. If these were one of these useless hoes that only bring p*ssy and conversation to the relationship, I would agree with you. But her parents are good friends with the Obamas and other political leaders in Chicago, I can’t pass up those connections. On top of that she comes from money and has her own money, so I’m not marrying some broke single mom or something.

AND! I’m making sure to buy my house and cars before we get married, so that they are considered premarital assets. And most of my money and assets is kept in my businesses and I only take a small salary, so she can’t get much if we get divorced anyway
 

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I told shorty I just woke up I need to eat and do some things. She says ok lol. I said bet. Hit her up over an hour later. Leave my message on opened and posts a wall text on her Snapchat story. I’m not even clicking I can see the preview.

I’m heated. Do I be petty by going to the bar and posting myself on my story? Like wtf. She insecure?

met her two weeks ago. Last weekend couldn’t see her and she was cool bout it. Now she knows I’m free and did this weirdo shyt.

She a nicely shaped bbw with big titties. She was choosing on me my nikkas like wtf.


She sounds childish bro, you do not need to match that energy. Huge red flag. I highly suggest you walk away completely
 

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She sounds childish bro, you do not need to match that energy. Huge red flag. I highly suggest you walk away completely
I got no choice. Last girl was a c*nt too. This some bullshyt.
 

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yes, MARRY. If these were one of these useless hoes that only bring p*ssy and conversation to the relationship, I would agree with you. But her parents are good friends with the Obamas and other political leaders in Chicago, I can’t pass up those connections. On top of that she comes from money and has her own money, so I’m not marrying some broke single mom or something.

AND! I’m making sure to buy my house and cars before we get married, so that they are considered premarital assets. And most of my money and assets is kept in my businesses and I only take a small salary, so she can’t get much if we get divorced anyway

In your case I'd probably pull the trigger on marriage. The rewards sound greater than the risk of divorce. And she might know that marriage is a business and won't skate on you because "She's bored" .
 

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That’s how it is though. When I don’t give a fukk, I get ton of women. And they die for my attention, when I try to treat them right it’s too boring, predictable and they barely respond.

As I get older, I chuck a lot of it up to women being attracted to the emotional unavailable aspect of the relationship, courtship, or situationship.

The same way we like the chase, they get off on trying nurture an emotionally unavailable dude to sanity.

Totally agree, isn’t it attractive when men lead though?

I really struggle with the balance of showing too much interest and not enough. If you don’t show enough I think a woman could write you off out of fear of not wanting to be cheated on, hurt etc.

Again not saying you’re wrong just that I’ve seen it go both ways. And I know women want a guy who leads, leading while not showing much interest just feels hard to do
 
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Just bushed a chick I had been dating seriously for 9 months. Feels good but also reflecting and stuff. She started getting too comfortable and there were various signs of attitude and disrespect that I had to nip in the bud. The feeling that’s you wasted time sucks but Atleast it was 9 months instead of 5+ years. I learned a lot about myself and what I want as well.

planning on starting this summer with my roster reset at 0 (on purpose). I feel like a expansion team scouting new talent. I turn 30 this year and I’m already 6 figure gang, 6 feet+ and an in shape since I’ve been putting work in the gym all year. Trying to expand to a different tier of women. I guess this is perfect timing to see what’s really out there.

@PewPew your girl got a relative under 28? I’m in Chicago as well :lolbron: kidding breh..
 
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yes, MARRY. If these were one of these useless hoes that only bring p*ssy and conversation to the relationship, I would agree with you. But her parents are good friends with the Obamas and other political leaders in Chicago, I can’t pass up those connections. On top of that she comes from money and has her own money, so I’m not marrying some broke single mom or something.

AND! I’m making sure to buy my house and cars before we get married, so that they are considered premarital assets. And most of my money and assets is kept in my businesses and I only take a small salary, so she can’t get much if we get divorced anyway
Smart breh. Any man that doesn’t take this route is a fukking idiot.
 

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Just bushes a chick I had been dating seriously for 9 months. Feels good but also reflecting and stuff. She started getting too comfortable and there were various signs of attitude and disrespect that I had to nip in the bud. The feeling that’s you wasted time sucks but Atleast it was 9 months instead of 5+ years. I learned a lot about myself and what I want as well.

planning on starting this summer with my roster reset at 0 (on purpose). I feel like a expansion team scouting new talent. I turn 30 this year and I’m already 6 figure gang and an in shape since I’ve been putting work in the gym all year. Trying to expand to a different tier of women. I guess this is perfect timing to see what’s really out there.

Yeah I said this earlier a few days ago.

I want to start at zero. It's hard to reach for the higher tier when you still have bytches around from the lower tiers. It's like a mental barrier.
Like you need to let go fully and truly commit to getting to a higher calibre, otherwise you will end up settling for women of the same standard as before.
 
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