Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Any tips for trying to smash and meet girls when you’re living at home?

I can’t shake the thought that I don’t have my own place and it’s keeping me from going all the way and really trying to get at women.

I don’t know how I’m gonna be able to smash. Getting a hotel seems like so much hassle, paying like 130$ for a hookup. Then telling her you have a hotel and her potentially being like nah, and then you’re out for that money on the hotel. Idk

Who do u stay with
 

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sure it's been said here before but fellas, lean in toward the narcissistic (i put lean in in italics because it important to not actually become a narcissist).

everyone likes to try and save face, but the truth is that men respect and women are magnetized to men that prioritize their own desires and needs :manny:
 

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Any tips for trying to smash and meet girls when you’re living at home?

I can’t shake the thought that I don’t have my own place and it’s keeping me from going all the way and really trying to get at women.

I don’t know how I’m gonna be able to smash. Getting a hotel seems like so much hassle, paying like 130$ for a hookup. Then telling her you have a hotel and her potentially being like nah, and then you’re out for that money on the hotel. Idk

You ain't got to take a chick to a 5 star hotel. Get a room at the days inn do what you got to do then return the key in a few hours.
 

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I posted in here back when it happened a back in February but I broke up with my gf of 5 years (woulda been 6 in July) and her child I literally raised from 3-9 y/o but we still gotta live together til the end of September. It's been about as fun as it sounds:francis:, but I been getting on top of my money and my health in the meantime. Come September I'll be 28 w/ no kids, in shape with a good job, money in the bank, and my people/public speakings skills have gotten crazy in the past 5 years:wow: A breh finna eat so lavishly when my time comes but goddamn this shyt is trash right now:unimpressed: I try to check this thread from time to time to keep my spirits up while I ride out this sentence. see you soon brothers can't wait to hit the field:mjgrin:
 

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I posted in here back when it happened a back in February but I broke up with my gf of 5 years (woulda been 6 in July) and her child I literally raised from 3-9 y/o but we still gotta live together til the end of September. It's been about as fun as it sounds:francis:, but I been getting on top of my money and my health in the meantime. Come September I'll be 28 w/ no kids, in shape with a good job, money in the bank, and my people/public speakings skills have gotten crazy in the past 5 years:wow: A breh finna eat so lavishly when my time comes but goddamn this shyt is trash right now:unimpressed: I try to check this thread from time to time to keep my spirits up while I ride out this sentence. see you soon brothers can't wait to hit the field:mjgrin:

Be in your 20s and date a single mom brehs
 

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I posted in here back when it happened a back in February but I broke up with my gf of 5 years (woulda been 6 in July) and her child I literally raised from 3-9 y/o but we still gotta live together til the end of September. It's been about as fun as it sounds:francis:, but I been getting on top of my money and my health in the meantime. Come September I'll be 28 w/ no kids, in shape with a good job, money in the bank, and my people/public speakings skills have gotten crazy in the past 5 years:wow: A breh finna eat so lavishly when my time comes but goddamn this shyt is trash right now:unimpressed: I try to check this thread from time to time to keep my spirits up while I ride out this sentence. see you soon brothers can't wait to hit the field:mjgrin:

Breh you in jail or something :gucci:
 

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You know any good apps for hotels?

And yeah that seems smarter anyways for hooking up, even if it’s way less convenient

The better option is linking her at 9pm-11pm around her way and being in proximity to her crib.

Dayuse was the app. I guess the play would be to tell her “I’m staying at a hotel handling work” you should come by. (Have a drink in the hotel lobby, go back up to smash), maybe you can slide some extra cash to the front desk to stay the rest of the night.

Other than that, I can’t think of another back story. Cause they will ask “why are you staying at a hotel”.

:jbhmm:
 

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The better option is linking her at 9pm-11pm around her way and being in proximity to her crib.

Dayuse was the app. I guess the play would be to tell her “I’m staying at a hotel handling work” you should come by. (Have a drink in the hotel lobby, go back up to smash), maybe you can slide some extra cash to the front desk to stay the rest of the night.

Other than that, I can’t think of another back story. Cause they will ask “why are you staying at a hotel”.

:jbhmm:
I was just thinking of saying something like I book hotels sometimes cause I don’t like being at home.

Only problem I can see occurring is her being like “oh so you got this hotel cause you thought we were gonna smash??”
 

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I was just thinking of saying something like I book hotels sometimes cause I don’t like being at home.

Only problem I can see occurring is her being like “oh so you got this hotel cause you thought we were gonna smash??”

That opens too much pathways into questioning and thoughts in her head. “Oh he must live with his parents”, etc.

If you play the “I’m not from here” / “I’m not staying here for long, only here for work” you’ll smash quicker.

The best part is, they won’t ever know where you live.
 

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I posted in here back when it happened a back in February but I broke up with my gf of 5 years (woulda been 6 in July) and her child I literally raised from 3-9 y/o but we still gotta live together til the end of September. It's been about as fun as it sounds:francis:, but I been getting on top of my money and my health in the meantime. Come September I'll be 28 w/ no kids, in shape with a good job, money in the bank, and my people/public speakings skills have gotten crazy in the past 5 years:wow: A breh finna eat so lavishly when my time comes but goddamn this shyt is trash right now:unimpressed: I try to check this thread from time to time to keep my spirits up while I ride out this sentence. see you soon brothers can't wait to hit the field:mjgrin:

sheesh that sounds awful :huhldup:

when she bring other nikkas around :damn:

stay up bredda :mjcry:
 

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Be in your 20s and date a single mom brehs

I learned that the hard way:wow: Losing the relationship with the kid is the real heart breaker :sadcam: otherwise I’ll live and move on :mjgrin:


Folks



Breh you in jail or something :gucci:

Living with your ex and the lil family you raised for the past few years after blowing the whole thing up feels like a bid:mjcry:

least it ain’t a real divorce tho nikka once I’m out, I AM OUT:blessed: Young healthy breh with some money in the bank ima bounce back like rubberbands and basketballs ya dig:pachaha:
 
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