Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I'm doing a Hinge case study. These women have no game.

Matched with a chick her first message for an opener, "Hey DJSmooth, What do you do?" :unimpressed:

Really it's a reason I don't have it on my profile :mjtf:


:russ:
Yea its not too many women on there who know how to hold or start a conversation unfortunately. There are some great women, but their communication skills are trash
 

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Side chick took me out of my element last night. I allowed her to stay around after one too many slip ups and she got comfortable. I decided to block her number this morning and keep it moving. The sex and time together was great, but got damn the relationship was toxic

Protect your peace brehs
 

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The new girl I talk to work at Wendy’s. It’s taking all my discipline not to pull up and get all the burgers I can carry :sadcam:
 

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So brehs...This chick matched with me on tinder for the 3rd time :bryan:

The second time I actually didn't realise we matched before until later, something in the convo sounded like deja vu and I remembered the convo we had last time.
I just hit her with the " So when we linking" cause we aren't doing this talking thing again:pachaha:

I was going to unmatch, but she eventually got back to me talking about we probably never linked because the pandemic, and we should be able to link up now things are opening back up.

I hit her with the :gucci: We were speaking a few months before this shyt popped off properly.

I remember trying to set something up with her but she was talking about trying to get childcare to make sure she was free that weekend. Then I just never heard back about linking so I let it fade.
I'm just being super blunt with the chick this time around.

We link this week or next week or I'm cutting it loose. Like I said we done the talking thing there isn't much more to talk about if we aren't linking imminently.

So update on this chick brehs...She stopped responding to my messages on tinder so I deleted her.

However she had me on snapchat and hit me up when it was my b day. I asked her what happened to her on tinder and she said she stopped using it so didn't see my last message :stopitslime: Any how she finally drops her number.

I asked her about setting up a date, and she responds asking what I was up to now cause she wants to Facetime :ehh:

Anyways I just come off the FT call talked to her for a few hours. Set up coming round to her house this Saturday once she puts the kids to bed:mjlit:
Long time coming but she came through eventually :mjlit:.
 

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if you're a grown man living with your parents, you got more important stuff to worry about. Anyone giving him advice on how to smash chicks as a grown man living with his parents is an idiot and part of the problem.

you dont deserve sex unless you're a self sufficient man. These degenerates got folks minds jacked up and then dudes wonder why they life be hell lol

He dosent deserve sex because he is a grown man that lives with his parents:dwillhuh:
 

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Was scrolling through Hinge and came across my OG PAAGs profile on there. Haven't seen this chick since late 2018

Any feelings I thought I had for her have fully passed now. Felt good to see her profile pop up and feel nothing.

I did make myself look like quite the fool pursuing her when she ended things.

But I count all my wins and L's as valuable lessons.

I will say she's looking a bit fuller in the face these days.

:francis:

Seems I had her in her prime

:mjlit:
 

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Damn :picard:

I admit I got lucky with my mom, west indian background. but my friends and cousins also have lenient parents from the caribbean , as long is a chicks moans isn't disturbing anyone and hoes aint walking around she doesn't care :yeshrug:


Same here, also, my parents used to go to sleep at 12ish, so sneaking broads at 18 was easy. These days, if I'm visiting, I do the same thing, except without the feeling that I might get caught since I put them up in that house anyway.....

As for dudes talking about 20 year olds getting their own crib....you must not live in any major city, here in NY, even with the best job, you're staying with roommates, also a lot of these guys probably have shytty relationships with their parents.
 

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NYC black coffee tough guys aka the Stoozy Boys
Staying with your parents =\= living with roommates.

It may seem the same but there’s a big difference.

I've done both, in regards to sex, its the same if you have a cool relationship with your parents, to be fair, I also had my own room, and I wasn't disrespectful about the hours of said smashing.

As for living with roommates, same idea, my own room, lock, and respect when it came to bringing over girls to smash. I'm not saying everyone's life is the same, but sneaking em in always works, its the classic trope....to be fair, I'm also talking about young men who don't have their own apartment/houses are 18, let alone 20. I live in an expensive city, even with two jobs, I have always relied on my parents giving mea space to sleep in, idk many 20 year olds in NYC with a full fledged apartment, working multiple jobs AND living by themselves.

If its Staten or Long Island? Sure, you can find a shack for cheap, but if you're living in Cali, Florida or NYC, you're staying with somebody.
 

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I'm not sure if some of them just want attention and to tease or they don't want to look like complete hoes.

I'm pretty good at getting them in the bed the first link. But I've noticed quite a few times now they'll go all the way to 2nd base but won't let me take it home.

Could be a mix of both or maybe i fukked up somewhere in the middle but how are we swapping spit, titties out and now you don't want to have sex.

In this Metoo era I'm good :hubie:
 
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