Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Doin2Much Williams]

Do y’all talk to women at the gym?

I been going there for a while and there’s this fine ass girl that workouts out same time as I do but some dude recently started talking to her a few days ago and I’m lowkey Arthur fisting bc I hesitated for months. I think they def fukked already cause they’re all up on each other now.

I know shyt would be awkward if I started talking to her now.

But do you brehs normally do that shyt? I’ve strayed away from talking to women at the gym bc I don’t wanna be labeled a creepy dude tryna shoot his shot while someone is working out.

I got ptsd from an incident that occurred back in 2009.


No bueno.


Shiit got awkward as fukk and i never initiated female patron contact again.



But it's funny you bring this up.


The planet fitness I've been frequenting... short story short.



The front desk girl (we'll call her Laura) who started working there a few weeks ago, I started to build rapport with cuz she was cute. But never stepping beyond the employee/customer boundaries, just flirting here and there (plus she's hella young).


Any who, last Saturday, Laura was working and during my fitness routine, I saw her talking to a chick who was really phoine (short, thick pinay with curves in all the right places, yes hetero --- I actually noticed her on the treadmill when first walked in that morning and was just going to wave hello. No lie! But i bytched out).


At the end of my workout, I realized hot chick bounced/went home (I believe I saw her leave), so I confronted Laura and said, "hey, are you friends with that girl in the pink sweatshirt and chucks? I saw you gals chatting it up a bit earlier."


Laura goes, "I mean, I met her here and she's a recent signee... but we're somewhat acquainted now. What's up?"


And my ass goes, "Well damn, she's a real cutie pie... straight out of the oven. Wow. Anyways, can i get a massage chair please. thanks.


Laura: Oh... heehee. Okay.



Omg, while i'm sitting in the massage chair, I felt so creepy, as though I committed the ultimate "ME TOO", cuz in this climate, i'm very cautious to shot my shoot in certain situations. But i didn't think too much of it and just wrapped up my session. And i think it's because laura's reaction didnt' seem like a pleasant one, even though she was wearing a mask, you can kinda tell, right? Oh well.



After the chair session, I go into the locker room to grab my shiit and as I'm exiting the facility, low and behold I see Laura chatting it up with yes, you guessed it... gym crush johnson!!!


Fam, i was rattled as fukk.



(I assume) She literally called/texted the broad I was diggin' to come back and i was so startled upon seeing her at the front desk... i just waved at Laura and left.



I'm going to go back this Saturday again at roughly the same time. If she's there again... i will shot my shoot and hopefully... just "hopefully" Laura put in a good word for me.



This is kinda nerve wracking. lol.



.

 

[The ADD]

We connected 9 PM last night had half hour to text. I gave her my # and she said she when she is feeling better she will holla Cause convo was weird like I said and most time she talking about the effects of vaccine so I'm . Haven't heard nothing since.

It hasn’t been 24 hours breh. Not need to jump out the window

 

[Rocket Scientist]

It hasn’t been 24 hours breh. Not need to jump out the window

Nah that's not point homie. Chick talking about how she feeling ,white blood cells for a first convo it's . First convo u feeling each other out ,introduction etc... Just thought it was weird.

 

[acri1]

I got ptsd from an incident that occurred back in 2009.


No bueno.


Shiit got awkward as fukk and i never initiated female patron contact again.



But it's funny you bring this up.


The planet fitness I've been frequenting... short story short.



The front desk girl (we'll call her Laura) who started working there a few weeks ago, I started to build rapport with cuz she was cute. But never stepping beyond the employee/customer boundaries, just flirting here and there (plus she's hella young).


Any who, last Saturday, Laura was working and during my fitness routine, I saw her talking to a chick who was really phoine (short, thick pinay with curves in all the right places, yes hetero --- I actually noticed her on the treadmill when first walked in that morning and was just going to wave hello. No lie! But i bytched out).


At the end of my workout, I realized hot chick bounced/went home (I believe I saw her leave), so I confronted Laura and said, "hey, are you friends with that girl in the pink sweatshirt and chucks? I saw you gals chatting it up a bit earlier."


Laura goes, "I mean, I met her here and she's a recent signee... but we're somewhat acquainted now. What's up?"


And my ass goes, "Well damn, she's a real cutie pie... straight out of the oven. Wow. Anyways, can i get a massage chair please. thanks.


Laura: Oh... heehee. Okay.



Omg, while i'm sitting in the massage chair, I felt so creepy, as though I committed the ultimate "ME TOO", cuz in this climate, i'm very cautious to shot my shoot in certain situations. But i didn't think too much of it and just wrapped up my session. And i think it's because laura's reaction didnt' seem like a pleasant one, even though she was wearing a mask, you can kinda tell, right? Oh well.



After the chair session, I go into the locker room to grab my shiit and as I'm exiting the facility, low and behold I see Laura chatting it up with yes, you guessed it... gym crush johnson!!!


Fam, i was rattled as fukk.



(I assume) She literally called/texted the broad I was diggin' to come back and i was so startled upon seeing her at the front desk... i just waved at Laura and left.



I'm going to go back this Saturday again at roughly the same time. If she's there again... i will shot my shoot and hopefully... just "hopefully" Laura put in a good word for me.



This is kinda nerve wracking. lol.

You're a braver man than I I've thought about making a move a few times but I've never had the courage to actually do it

 

[The ADD]

Nah that's not point homie. Chick talking about how she feeling ,white blood cells for a first convo it's . First convo u feeling each other out ,introduction etc... Just thought it was weird.

Nah that's not point homie. Chick talking about how she feeling ,white blood cells for a first convo it's . First convo u feeling each other out ,introduction etc... Just thought it was weird.

Post is confusing then. If the timing of response isn’t an issue and you ain’t feeling the vibe then the answer is simple……..

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Post is confusing then. If the timing of response isn’t an issue and you ain’t feeling the vibe then the answer is simple……..

Nah I'm just asking have y'all ever had weird 1st convo. I get the 24 hour thing but I'm saying when a chick gives u a weird ass convo. Thats not normal to ME ,maybe to y'all but whatever I see your point and we agree to disagree .

 

[dizzy4111]

Nah I'm just asking have y'all ever had weird 1st convo. I get the 24 hour thing but I'm saying when a chick gives u a weird ass convo. Thats not normal to ME ,maybe to y'all but whatever I see your point and we agree to disagree .

I'd rather have kind of a weird first convo than a boring first convo, personally. I would chill and see where it goes.

 

[The ADD]

Nah I'm just asking have y'all ever had weird 1st convo. I get the 24 hour thing but I'm saying when a chick gives u a weird ass convo. Thats not normal to ME ,maybe to y'all but whatever I see your point and we agree to disagree .

To me it’s not totally weird. It’s a pandemic and she was having side effects. You know better the tone of the conversation then we do so again you know the answer

 

[Rocket Scientist]

I'd rather have kind of a weird first convo than a boring first convo, personally. I would chill and see where it goes.

There we go.Appreciate it

 

[Rocket Scientist]

To me it’s not totally weird. It’s a pandemic and she was having side effects. You know better the tone of the conversation then we do so again you know the answer

Again of course I know tone bruh I'm just asking y'all opinion .That's it appreciaite it.

 

[Guvnor]

How do you brews handle a chick who "forgot to reply to you" till the next day. Mind you this chick got two kids and is older but that ass is out of this world and she's cool to talk to.

 

[Guvnor]

Nah I'm just asking have y'all ever had weird 1st convo. I get the 24 hour thing but I'm saying when a chick gives u a weird ass convo. Thats not normal to ME ,maybe to y'all but whatever I see your point and we agree to disagree .

Me personally if the first convo is weird I'm through with her. I may give her a chance at a second convo but that's a red flag. I learned that lesson the hard way by trying to give the benefit of the doubt to chicks whom the vibe just wasn't there with. Be mindful of your time and energy but I'll say give her one last phone call to see what her energy is like.

Man she’s everything I want looks wise. I hope I don’t fukk it up....it’s bad enough I gotta wait until after I get off

Good luck breh! You got this just keep it cool.

 

[Max.]

So theres this cute short hair jada pinkett at my job..thing is we chat...but theres ALWAYS SOMEONE around...

Last friday she asked me what i was doing this weekend..happy friday etc..always cheesing.but there was a fukkn GM 10 feet away...so i kept it short...i only see her twice a week she works in a diff department..

 

[VertigoKnight]

Aight so I matched up with this chick on Hinge after a couple attempts. Fairly decent looking . Conversation was aight. Ol girl started talking and complaining about getting her 2nd vaccination shyt and how she was underneath the weather as she was texting etc.It was kind of awkward because whole time she was complaining ,how she was cold. After a little while we ended it there she said "She will talk to me sometime tomorrow when she feels better".This was 9:30 last night. Haven't heard back ,would you guys bush in a situation. I'm asking because weird ass convo to have with a chick on some awkward first impression shyt. How would you guys handle this?

Talking to chicks after 9pm especially first messages is a crapshoot.

That's when they usually winding down for the night. At least she said she'd message you when she feels better.

And if she doesn't, then it wasn't to be.

 

[Doin2Much Williams]

You're a braver man than I I've thought about making a move a few times but I've never had the courage to actually do it

Breh, mind you, i don't work at a business where there's any women (so i actually shot my shoot with customers, went on a date with one last week but that turned out to be brickwall, just didn't mesh well and not seeing her without a mask until we met in person was rolling the proverbial dice).


I don't use dating apps... so any chance I get, I'm going to pounce on the opportunity.


For instance, since the first of May, i've acquired half a dozen numbers and while i haven't gotten horizontal with any of them yet, I'm still just trying to get back into the dating game after a traumatic/toxic relationship, so getting back to my bold attitude and pizazz again is key.


My ass is generally very audacious by nature, so cold game is where I excel at the most... but the gym thing is scary because I understand it's an establishment that people go to get their fitness on and their in a zone, it's their own personal health time...i get it.


What I've come to realize as of late is that more and more women are leaving the music/headphones at home. This makes them more susceptible to day game; aka... they want to be approached.


I'll report back If i run into the pinay again.



Fam, i got a story from this gorgeous Indian chick from London that i met on mother's day at a bar. Fam, i knew that if a woman was going out for drinks on such a holiday in lieu of being with ma duke's, she's vulnerable (she was with three of her girls, just had brunch and her girls whom were cool as fukk, so i'm building rapport with her set first cuz she stepped inside to grab drinks). Eventually approached her at the bar counter, then my homeboy comes in with his drunk ass and comments on her nose and asked if it's ever been broken. Breh..> WTF!!!


She was irked like a mothafukka and called him out on it... and even though she simmered down, i was able to isolate her from the situation, got her a drink, number and asked her out on a date, she hasn't replied. and I think my boy may have fukked that up for me. She probably sobered up and made me guilty by association...


She was a resident doctor at the university hospital here.



Fukk man... I almost scored my first doctor but idiot comrade sabotaged my shiit. FUKK!!!!



*sighs*


I just gotta keep on pressing.



Approach more women cuz i understand it's all a numbers game.



Out of the next 1000 girls... someone's gotta bite.



lol.