Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Just came to the GOAT realization I gotta write this shyt down.

There’s no reason to have social anxiety because we’re essentially all kids. Like we’re literally children, we’ve just been children a long time.

So there’s nothing wrong with introducing yourself to someone and being social because we’re all just kids. There is no consequence for being a kid and interacting with other kids. We used to do that shyt freely before society told us it was wrong.

That bad ass bytch I’m too afraid to talk to is just a grown ass kid and I’m still the kid on the playground who would’ve walked up to her and asked her to play tag with zero inhibitions.


We’re all just kids, no one is above or below anyone. Kids say hello to everybody.

nah we all arent kids. Kids lack accountability.

we are grown ass men and should move accordingly.

we are all simply human and humans are inherently imperfect which is what makes us unique. The issue is dudes thinking a woman is “perfect” because she looks good on the outside thus she is better than him (in his eyes) even though she may rotten inside and probably dealing with a ton of issues that you couldnt even imagine.

avg man sees no value in himself which is why he deems others as even being capable of being better than him.
 

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nah we all arent kids. Kids lack accountability.

we are grown ass men and should move accordingly.

we are all simply human and humans are inherently imperfect which is what makes us unique. The issue is dudes thinking a woman is “perfect” because she looks good on the outside thus she is better than him (in his eyes) even though she may rotten inside and probably dealing with a ton of issues that you couldnt even imagine.

avg man sees no value in himself which is why he deems others as even being capable of being better than him.
Let’s look at it from this perspective - manhood is a societal expectation. Accountability is judgement by others in accordance to a set of criteria defined by a society.

Which from a primal view, isn’t law. A man is still a man on a genetic level, regardless of the fact of whether or not society considers him one.

From my view, the difference is unlearning having to earn manhood vs just existing as a man.

The way I see it is that a man should move according to what he wants to do and has to trust in himself that it is the right thing for him to do. At the end of the day we’re all still children, no one is inherently better nor worse than the next person. Value is a societal creation.
 

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Let’s look at it from this perspective - manhood is a societal expectation. Accountability is judgement by others in accordance to a set of criteria defined by a society.

Which from a primal view, isn’t law. A man is still a man on a genetic level, regardless of the fact of whether or not society considers him one.

From my view, the difference is unlearning having to earn manhood vs just existing as a man.

The way I see it is that a man should move according to what he wants to do and has to trust in himself that it is the right thing for him to do. At the end of the day we’re all still children, no one is inherently better nor worse than the next person. Value is a societal creation.

you be a child and let me know how that works out for you.
 

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Just came to the GOAT realization I gotta write this shyt down.

There’s no reason to have social anxiety because we’re essentially all kids. Like we’re literally children, we’ve just been children a long time.

So there’s nothing wrong with introducing yourself to someone and being social because we’re all just kids. There is no consequence for being a kid and interacting with other kids. We used to do that shyt freely before society told us it was wrong.

That bad ass bytch I’m too afraid to talk to is just a grown ass kid and I’m still the kid on the playground who would’ve walked up to her and asked her to play tag with zero inhibitions.


We’re all just kids, no one is above or below anyone. Kids say hello to everybody.

This ain't it. I'm not a child, it's consequences for every single thing I do in life.
 

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you be a child and let me know how that works out for you.
This ain't it. I'm not a child, it's consequences for every single thing I do in life.
Context matters :unimpressed:

There’s no reason to have social anxiety because we’re essentially all kids. Like we’re literally children, we’ve just been children a long time.

So there’s nothing wrong with introducing yourself to someone and being social because we’re all just kids.

Be so much of a man that you defend having social anxiety brehs :unimpressed:
 

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I’m not going front, I didn’t have much practice talking to girls while I was in the Bay due to the sampling pool:scust:now that imma be back in LA in a matter of hours I know imma be ill prepared for all the baddies:mjcry:i gotta be in the field like an 90s nikka, I’m not tryna be hoeless during my upcoming grinding season. What y’all do to get back in the swing of things?
 

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I’m not going front, I didn’t have much practice talking to girls while I was in the Bay due to the sampling pool:scust:now that imma be back in LA in a matter of hours I know imma be ill prepared for all the baddies:mjcry:i gotta be in the field like an 90s nikka, I’m not tryna be hoeless during my upcoming grinding season. What y’all do to get back in the swing of things?

grind season but you worried bout being hoeless? Priorities
 

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grind season but you worried bout being hoeless? Priorities
Bruh I tried that coli nikka sexless shyt. I need that balance:yeshrug:and I just got off National Guard orders it’s not like I had time for much fuxking this past year anyway. You got any advice for hitting the field or am I just gonna go at this alone like I always do? Y’all never got anything worthwhile to say:mjlol:
Edit: @Astroslik @Ezekiel 25:17 @Squirrel i know y’all got some tips for hitting the field. I’m rusty, in SF all I saw was plain white hoes and SOME cute paags, best believe I got at them it was just far and few in between. Imma bout to be home:wow:LA women:wow:just needa step to them:mjcry:
 

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who is defending social anxiety? Did you even read my first post?

lmfao lotta yall should he blessed society is so weak now because yall wouldnt have made it past age 10 in prior times.
I responded to your first response to me breh and reiterated where I was coming from. Never said you had to agree.
 

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Bruh I tried that coli nikka sexless shyt. I need that balance:yeshrug:and I just got off National Guard orders it’s not like I had time for much fuxking this past year anyway. You got any advice for hitting the field or am I just gonna go at this alone like I always do? Y’all never got anything worthwhile to say:mjlol:
Edit: @Astroslik @Ezekiel 25:17 @Squirrel i know y’all got some tips for hitting the field. I’m rusty, in SF all I saw was plain white hoes and SOME cute paags, best believe I got at them it was just far and few in between. Imma bout to be home:wow:LA women:wow:just needa step to them:mjcry:

Breh you better of buying a whore if all you want is sex. The point of a grind session is to be focused on a purposed, if you not built for it then just say it lol. Nothing wrong with saying you have no discipline, but dudes continue to not be honest with themselves then wonder why they are miserable.

you even minimize or dismiss discipline to “coli sexeless nikka” or whatever.

nah if you are actually grinding you are focused on your purpose and often times women see that and come to you versus you going out your way for them. Anytime you gotta chase a woman you already loss.
 

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Breh you better of buying a whore if all you want is sex. The point of a grind session is to be focused on a purposed, if you not built for it then just say it lol. Nothing wrong with saying you have no discipline, but dudes continue to not be honest with themselves then wonder why they are miserable.

you even minimize or dismiss discipline to “coli sexeless nikka” or whatever.

nah if you are actually grinding you are focused on your purpose and often times women see that and come to you versus you going out your way for them. Anytime you gotta chase a woman you already loss.
You right I’m looking for hoes. I can give less than a fuxk about a leech that sees me on the come up, that’s why y’all have skewed views of women cuz you on some Tony Montana shyt, ole “first the $, then the power, then the women” nikkas. I like to be a well rounded man, on grind mode, still fw a few legit hoes and still make progress. I think you got confused for a second. Imma grind nonetheless but I still needa girl to fuxk to keep me grounded, I don’t have the sex drive of a 30 year old:mjlol:
 

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I retort, @Luke Cage @Ezekiel 25:17 @Consigliere @GigoloGeoff i know y’all heavy in the field so let me know some tips and tricks.

The best tip I have is to enjoy your own company and run lifestyle game. Date yourself first and invite these women to come along second. So any activity you would do with a date you should be doing for yourself or comfortable doing it alone. This removes the desperation factor and takes the sting out if you do get rejected.

Keep in mind that I’m old, not married and not really looking for LOVE. This advice probably doesn’t apply if you are looking for “the one.”
 

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The best tip I have is to enjoy your own company and run lifestyle game. Date yourself first and invite these women to come along second. So any activity you would do with a date you should be doing for yourself or comfortable doing it alone. This removes the desperation factor and takes the sting out if you do get rejected.

Keep in mind that I’m old, not married and not really looking for LOVE. This advice probably doesn’t apply if you are looking for “the one.”
I’m just looking for hoes. I’ve only been on 2 dates in my life I normally just go for the hookups/hit and quit. But I’ll keep this in mind:ehh:
 
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