Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Doin2Much Williams]

Context matters



Be so much of a man that you defend having social anxiety brehs

My concurrences with you are skrong on this because I'm essentially a big ass kid.



I realized that when I took shiit too seriously, regardless of context, it repelled women... or they lost interest quick. Sure you can't be Mr. Fun Stuff 24/7, it's not a sustainable model... but women are basically grown ass kids too, which is why they always (most times out of 11) gravitate to the extroverted, playful and rambunctiously gregarious guy in the room who peacocks with silly accessories/fancy garments/kicks. I'm just saying; dial down the tone of seriousness and advance adjust accordingly (push/pull right?).


This weekend, I'm going on a field assignment to test Mr King Zimb's theory (day game at the flower market/Pike Place and bars/streets in the evening) and we'll see how it goes...



The reason for executing/adopting an adolescent psyche when approaching women is crucial and why I also believe it's essentially a winning formula as because it allows you to be less inhibited; you're not second guessing your move and you go in with a innocent frame of mind. Everything is clear. Deal with the formalities/colloquialisms later.


Actually, what i want to do moreso is not be too polite (in this regard, also like a child) and be more disruptive/interrupt group dynamics and intrude. If it's rude, they'll let me know. If not, I'll stay, make friends with the intentions to lay/slay.



Should be an interesting weekend for a breagh.



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[Luke Cage]

I retort, @Luke Cage @Ezekiel 25:17 @Consigliere @GigoloGeoff i know y’all heavy in the field so let me know some tips and tricks.

I What i've found that helps is having a good rapport with your friends in public social settings. I feel like it gives women a more of a sense of comfort in approaching and giving you signals. They think well everyone around him seems to like him and think he's a good guy, he must be likeable and a good guy. So thats usually how i pick up woman, i'm with my brehs having a good time the fun becomes infectious to people around us, women join in on the fun, and then they start choosing. We mostly hang out at bars, and we all go bowling together regularly too.

seems to work.

 

[Leao2005]

My concurrences with you are skrong on this because I'm essentially a big ass kid.



I realized that when I took shiit too seriously, regardless of context, it repelled women... or they lost interest quick. Sure you can't be Mr. Fun Stuff 24/7, it's not a sustainable model... but women are basically grown ass kids too, which is why they always (most times out of 11) gravitate to the extroverted, playful and rambunctiously gregarious guy in the room who peacocks with silly accessories/fancy garments/kicks. I'm just saying; dial down the tone of seriousness and advance adjust accordingly (push/pull right?).


This weekend, I'm going on a field assignment to test Mr King Zimb's theory (day game at the flower market/Pike Place and bars/streets in the evening) and we'll see how it goes...



The reason for executing/adopting an adolescent psyche when approaching women is crucial and why I also believe it's essentially a winning formula as because it allows you to be less inhibited; you're not second guessing your move and you go in with a innocent frame of mind. Everything is clear. Deal with the formalities/colloquialisms later.


Actually, what i want to do moreso is not be too polite (in this regard, also like a child) and be more disruptive/interrupt group dynamics and intrude. If it's rude, they'll let me know. If not, I'll stay, make friends with the intentions to lay/slay.



Should be an interesting weekend for a breagh.



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Mr King Zimb's theory?

 

[NoirDynosaur]

The best tip I have is to enjoy your own company and run lifestyle game. Date yourself first and invite these women to come along second. So any activity you would do with a date you should be doing for yourself or comfortable doing it alone. This removes the desperation factor and takes the sting out if you do get rejected.

Keep in mind that I’m old, not married and not really looking for LOVE. This advice probably doesn’t apply if you are looking for “the one.”

This man a boss. Real talk, flipping the script put things at ease.

Making chicks do favors for you is also some next-level game.

For example: If I'm visiting a new city, I'll tell a chick "show me around"...

In general, Women will always be attracted to dudes with power.

 

[Doin2Much Williams]

Mr King Zimb's theory?

Yes, approaching women with a childlike mindstate.


Be adolescent because we're all young at heart.


Act vulnerable and friendly... initiate with the innocence and attitude of a green and blossoming youngling.



Going to field test his theory this weekend.

Spoiler

Just came to the GOAT realization I gotta write this shyt down.

There’s no reason to have social anxiety because we’re essentially all kids. Like we’re literally children, we’ve just been children a long time.

So there’s nothing wrong with introducing yourself to someone and being social because we’re all just kids. There is no consequence for being a kid and interacting with other kids. We used to do that shyt freely before society told us it was wrong.

That bad ass bytch I’m too afraid to talk to is just a grown ass kid and I’m still the kid on the playground who would’ve walked up to her and asked her to play tag with zero inhibitions.


We’re all just kids, no one is above or below anyone. Kids say hello to everybody.

 

[VertigoKnight]

The best tip I have is to enjoy your own company and run lifestyle game. Date yourself first and invite these women to come along second. So any activity you would do with a date you should be doing for yourself or comfortable doing it alone. This removes the desperation factor and takes the sting out if you do get rejected.

Keep in mind that I’m old, not married and not really looking for LOVE. This advice probably doesn’t apply if you are looking for “the one.”

It took me a long time to clarify that for myself. I'd always want company, but if I'm not comfortable with myself, how can I expect anyone else to be?

You're right as a man I have to be able to sit with my own thoughts and pursue my passions solitary. If a woman wants to join me she's free too, but even if she curves me I'll still be doing it.

I started doing this with all facets of my life I'd go to bars alone, dinner and to the cinema on my own and enjoy myself. Even had my first solo holiday without either a partner or friends and found that so rewarding that I'm itching to do it when things open up again. I'm still taken aback by the amount of people who are intimidated by doing stuff on their own.

I know a guy who stopped going to the gym because his girl didn't want to do it with him.

I looked at that man like

 

[TRUEST]

It took me a long time to clarify that for myself. I'd always want company, but if I'm not comfortable with myself, how can I expect anyone else to be?

You're right as a man I have to be able to sit with my own thoughts and pursue my passions solitary. If a woman wants to join me she's free too, but even if she curves me I'll still be doing it.

I started doing this with all facets of my life I'd go to bars alone, dinner and to the cinema on my own and enjoy myself. Even had my first solo holiday without either a partner or friends and found that so rewarding that I'm itching to do it when things open up again. I'm still taken aback by the amount of people who are intimidated by doing stuff on their own.

I know a guy who stopped going to the gym because his girl didn't want to do it with him.

I looked at that man like

He’s the type of dude who brings his girl to the gym just to show her off. Lol. There’s a lot of them at my gym. It’s either the guy will be sneakily surveying the room to see if anyone is checking out his girl. And there are many women at the gym with wandering eyes even with their men there.

but that’s besides the point. I wouldn’t necessarily go out to dinner or movies by myself unless it’s in the middle of the day.

but I do mostly everything else by myself because having a girl accompanying me essentially means I have to entertain them, which I find to be a nuisance at times no matter how much I like her.

 

[CP3.]

Just came to the GOAT realization I gotta write this shyt down.

There’s no reason to have social anxiety because we’re essentially all kids. Like we’re literally children, we’ve just been children a long time.

So there’s nothing wrong with introducing yourself to someone and being social because we’re all just kids. There is no consequence for being a kid and interacting with other kids. We used to do that shyt freely before society told us it was wrong.

That bad ass bytch I’m too afraid to talk to is just a grown ass kid and I’m still the kid on the playground who would’ve walked up to her and asked her to play tag with zero inhibitions.


We’re all just kids, no one is above or below anyone. Kids say hello to everybody.

A more realistic way of looking at it is we're all insignificant in the grand scheme of things and we're all getting another day closer to dying. No point stressing about irrelevant shyt like what some bytch might think about you.

 

[Rozay Oro]

Getting new bytches. Help a g not fukk it up

 

[DaRealness]

The amount of grown ass people who are scared and/or insecure about doing things on their own is staggering. Scared of being seen by themselves short of going to the bathroom.

Then they try and shame you for it like you're some loner/incel because you don't have a fake entourage around you 24/7 because your ability to be independent at times makes them feel some kind of way.

 

[DaHNIC82]

Cats gotta be able to bat her bullshyt out the gate..Especially online
Nope I don't wanna buy your forex/Bitcoin
Nope I don't wanna buy your fitness product
Nope I'm not subscribing to your Only Fans
Nope I'm not supporting your energy drink
Nikkas be thinking they buy or donate to that bullshyt that it would automatically get them in good graces.. Fukk all that

 

[King]

A more realistic way of looking at it is we're all insignificant in the grand scheme of things and we're all getting another day closer to dying. No point stressing about irrelevant shyt like what some bytch might think about you.

Facts.

 

[Chrishaune]

Cats gotta be able to bat her bullshyt out the gate..Especially online
Nope I don't wanna buy your forex/Bitcoin
Nope I don't wanna buy your fitness product
Nope I'm not subscribing to your Only Fans
Nope I'm not supporting your energy drink
Nikkas be thinking they buy or donate to that bullshyt that it would automatically get them in good graces.. Fukk all that

You dealing with hoes exclusively?

 

[DaHNIC82]

You dealing with hoes exclusively?

Nah fam. I personally like fukking with more so nerdy/square chicks.. But based off me being involved with the music business. I tend to get alot of those type of chicks IG Models hitting my line wanting me to send em bread and all that bullshyt.. I knock all of that out the box first and formost

 

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Nah fam. I personally like fukking with more so nerdy/square chicks.. But based off me being involved with the music business. I tend to get alot of those type of chicks IG Models hitting my line wanting me to send em bread and all that bullshyt.. I knock all of that out the box first and formost

How is that, dealing with both ends of the spectrum?