Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Had been dating a girl for months and she suddenly just stopped talking to me.

Doesn't call or text at all. Last few times I texted her, I got super short responses.

I messed up somewhere a long the lines and I've accepted it.

You date enough women and you get used to it. Just gotta move on.

Sucks because I really liked her. Feels like we were making plans of building a life together all year and now who knows if I ever talk to her again.
 

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Had been dating a girl for months and she suddenly just stopped talking to me.

Doesn't call or text at all. Last few times I texted her, I got super short responses.

I messed up somewhere a long the lines and I've accepted it.

You date enough women and you get used to it. Just gotta move on.

Sucks because I really liked her. Feels like we were making plans of building a life together all year and now who knows if I ever talk to her again.

The only time women respond is when you give a fukk about them in spurts:francis:
 

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Had been dating a girl for months and she suddenly just stopped talking to me.

Doesn't call or text at all. Last few times I texted her, I got super short responses.

I messed up somewhere a long the lines and I've accepted it.

You date enough women and you get used to it. Just gotta move on.

Sucks because I really liked her. Feels like we were making plans of building a life together all year and now who knows if I ever talk to her again.

The minute a woman’s attraction for you fades away so does her level of respect and decency towards you. They go hand-in-hand as sad as that is to hear.

You could be the most perfect boyfriend/husband but the minute she loses attraction, you’re all of a sudden abusive, controlling, not affectionate enough, manipulative, etc.

Not only that, her mood becomes more irritable, she’s less affectionate and more colder towards you, more argumentative, more short and delayed in her responses, etc.

That is why its imperative you keep your emotions in check otherwise you’ll get chewed up nicely. You cannot negotiate or communicate attraction when it comes to women. In fact, doing those things will actually cause more harm then good and further reduce her level of attraction towards you even more. So the minute you start to see any of these signs, plot your exit. Doesn’t matter if you been talking or together for 2 weeks, 2 months or 2 years.......exit.

Women only communicate in “grey” just so they could create confusion because with confusion they gain the benefit of doubt. —@TradePascalSiakam
 
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My girl posted a status on FB talking about “don’t date a light skin dude”.

she’s dark and obviously has issues but I had to check her. Exes in the comments and she’s responding playfully. She might get bushed.

This women has 2 kids by a guy that wants nothing to do with one of them and she has a pit I’ll along her newborn (6 months) here. I’m moving in two weeks. They gotta go and I’m going on the prowl again.

Dump that bytch...i bet its 5 dark skin dudes messaging her... "ow u want some real dikk" or sum shyt like that
 

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Had been dating a girl for months and she suddenly just stopped talking to me.

Doesn't call or text at all. Last few times I texted her, I got super short responses.

I messed up somewhere a long the lines and I've accepted it.

You date enough women and you get used to it. Just gotta move on.

Sucks because I really liked her. Feels like we were making plans of building a life together all year and now who knows if I ever talk to her again.

What do u think u did wrong
 

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The minute a woman’s attraction for you fades away so does her level of respect and decency towards you. They go hand-in-hand as sad as that is to hear.

You could be the most perfect boyfriend/husband but the minute she loses attraction, you’re all of a sudden abusive, controlling, not affectionate enough, manipulative, etc.

Not only that, her mood becomes more irritable, she’s less affectionate and more colder towards you, more argumentative, more short and delayed in her responses, etc.

That is why its imperative you keep your emotions in check otherwise you’ll get chewed up nicely. You cannot negotiate or communicate attraction when it comes to women. In fact, doing those things will actually cause more harm then good and further reduce her level of attraction towards you even more. So the minute you start to see any of these signs, plot your exit. Doesn’t matter if you been talking or together for 2 weeks, 2 months or 2 years.......exit.

Women only communicate in “grey” just to create confusion and gain benefit of doubt. —@TradePascalSiakam


It's so interesting because it's so abrupt. I think we as men would totally take it better if women just said hey, this ain't working for me but that doesn't happen. One minute you're making plans, next minute you literally can't have a conversation with her. It's jarring. I'm 35 so I've been through it enough times to see it for what it is. Relationships can go sour at any point. Just gotta put energy into yourself and move on.
 
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